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i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!
please help!!
-britski-
there's not much you really can do hence the fact that it's your mum's house and not yours. Maybe she's fearing that you'll want these colors now, but in a couple of years or so you might want something new. The best thing you can do is keep trying to convince her that this is wat you really want. Other than that there's not a whole lot you can really do
Hey, i had a friend problem, like 2 months ago. All my friends had ditched meeh cause they thought i was a bad influenced and i had hurt them too much..when i don't do drugs i dont smoke,. i dont know why they did that. Now they think that i've made a mistake they can never be my friiend again, what do ii do!?
Kimmey
have you tried talking to them about it to get a reason for why they're ditching you and not wanting to be friends with you anymore? talk to them, communication really helps
2 of my best friends live right near me, and if i got out with one of my other friends they can c. usually when i am with them we sit around, and i like to exersise, so i try to balance it out but sometimes i dont feel like just walking around or w.e (btw dont say to get them to exersise with me, they wont. long story but they cant or wont). so they c if i go to her house or anything and they get so mad! i dont even really care, becuz ik it is for a dumb reason but they say to tell them if i am going with her or call them or w.e then when i talked to them they said i am becoming her best freiend and they "never" see me. ahhh help
you should really try talking to them about this and tell them that how they are reacting to all of this *you hanging out with your other friends* is really causing a lot of stress on you. Maybe they're just feeling left out and afraid of loosing you as a friend. Yes that still isn't right for them to get upset because you have other friends, but have you tried including them in hanging out with you and your other friends? or do they not get along?
my boyfriend and mine's annaversary is coming up in a couple months and it will be 1 year. i want to do something really special for him or make him something that he'll always remember. but i dont want to make a scrapbook because everyone does that. i want to do something different. i would write him a poem but i do that all the time and he writes ones back to me so thats nothing new. if anyone has any ideas then please help me.
if you don't want to make him a scrapbook then you could always make a collauge of pictures of you and him together, or just you, and put that in a picture frame. In the inside of the frame on that back, you could always put your poem back in there. When my ex boyfriend and I had our one year anniversary, I made him a little book where I wrote 365 things that i loved about him. It took me a very long time to make up but he loved it! you could also try to make him things or buy him things that he's interested in. either way good luck and congrats. on your one year!:-D
I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it.
Sweety 110 pounds for a person who is 5'1 is not all that bad. I think you're in the perfect weight range for your height. the only reason why your friends are skinnier than you but weigh more is because of their height. If you really want to slim up that bad try running a LOT and do some weight lifting.
What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?..
any friend who would do that to you is definitly NOT a friend!! i would stop being friends with her and definitly loose contact with the guy. You don't need people like that in your life.
here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.
slowely but surely stop being friends with her. It seems like you guys hate each other and usually best friends don't hate each other.
my grandma loves me but she loves my other cuzin more and it shows they have like a great relationship and me and my grama dont talk that mutch she always kids around and says o this is my favorite grndaughter and she is not talking about me i just feel so bad because ahe might not be around that much anymore shes pretty old and i want her to love me as much as my other cuzins.What should i do?
Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel
i just got my report card!! it suks!! in maht i got a D3B and a D in the final exam and for the final grade i gotta D 2!! i got an F on the social studies final exam 2!! my parents are gunna c it wut do i do?!?!?! ahh!?!?!?! there gunna be mad they always want me to do better in school i will but this report card it wuz too late. wut do i do? i miyt just have to deal with the long annoying speech but i dont want to!! this suks!! try n help me sum how pleaz!! ah!! help!!
haha wow i've been there and done all that in the past. When your parents are lecturing you, tell them that you understand where they are coming from and that you wernt trying your best like you should of. was there any distractions in the school year? for example: fights with friends, a bad break up, people teasing you, etc. because if there was then point those out too. Maybe for the next coming up school year you and your parents can make up a couple of rules to help you get good grades throughout the school year. That's what my parents always tried doing. Good luck with everything...
hey i feel like my friends are using me but i dont no my on friend was using me to get to his guy but they went out for like a day and he hates her no and he was using me to get to her which she hates him now and i hang out with him all the time but i dont no if i should ask him if he was because my friends sister told me that she was talking to him online and then she goes are you using er to get to my sister and he goes yeah but then her sister is inda crazy and does that stuff to get ppl mad so i dont no if she was doing that to me to make me mad and then my other friend lives out in the country and i live in towm and so does he b/f and i feel like when she comz ova she is using me to get to her b/f and when i hang out with them i feel reallly retart i no that this aint a ? but i am confused but can you help me in ne way?
thanx
i think you need to get new friends
i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!
WoW that was really confusing! Tell friend (A) how you feel about everything. You should tell her exactly what you explained in your story. Then hopefully you 2 can work things out.
Does black really match with anything?
yes! it matches with white, pink, blue, green...etc. Heck it matches with practically everything!
i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?
Why do you want to have sex before you're 15?? That's a VERY young age to be doing that kind of thing. Plus if you do start that at an early age, think of what could happen to you. You could get pregnat or catch aids or STD's. If i were you i'd listen to my friends. They obviously know what they're talking about.
why do i like someone until they like me, and then i stop liking them. then as soon as they stop liking me, i want them back again. am i afraid of commitment or whats up?
You're prolly one of those people who just like the chase. Once that person that you start likeing likes you back, you don't have the thrill of trying to keep impressing them anymore. It's totally normal, prolly just a phase
ok...i still
If i were you i would just try to forget about him. I know it can be really hard at first but as time goes by you'll start meeting new and better guys that you'll be interested in. Don't try to measure up to those girls by having sex with him or anything. You should never do that because you're trying to impress someone (it's definitly NOT worth it), you should do that for yourself. Good luck with everything
Thank you so much amber for the advice, i love your idea on the keeping a journal and giving it to him when he gets back, i got outta the house yesterday and i found out some good news, chris is coming back in amonth just to visit, so im so happy about that THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP. If i ever have another Question to ask im coming to you......how old are you by the way?
Mandy
you are soooo welcome:-D I'm glad that it sounds like you're doing a LOT better. I'm 16 by the way. and congrats on him coming back for a month!:-D yay!! have fun:-D
ok well before i left for hawaii .. june 26th.. this guy i like came over and we made out and he said the sweetest things to me like i dont want u to go, im gonna miss u so much, manuel (my ex) is so stupid for leavin u bc ur so beautiful.. blahblahblah stuff like that and now its been like a month and i still havnt seen him he calls like maybe once a week and like we made plans for last tuesday but then he never called or wutever. his best friend cole tells me all the time that he likes me and stuff so i mean idk wut to do cuz i mean i still like him soo much but i havnt seen him since the nite before i left for hawaii and grr idk he makes me mad bc he said all those things and now hes not doin anything at all. wut do u think happened/???
kristin
I personally think he could just have been leading you on. I mean come on, if he told you all of that stuff, n then he only calls you once a week and if he never called you when u were suppose to hang out together. wats up with that??? Talk to him about it, n tell him what he's doing is bugging you and that if he wants a chance with you then he'll be his sweet normal self again. Good luck..
~*Amber*~
maybe someone can help me with something that iv been having a problem with. Ok well iv been going out with this guy Chris for like a month and half now, and im in love with him i mean i know some people think its crazy b/c we werent dating that long but i know the feeling and its definitly love, well anyways he had to go off to military school for 5 months, so he wont be back till december sometime, before he left he got me a Promise ring, its so pretty, but anways i told him id be waiting here till he gets back he said once he gets back everything will be perfect and will just be starting our lives. But heres my problem how do i make time go by fast? Iv been so depressed since he left im still in my pj's and he left 3 days ago. All my freinds tried getting me outta the house but i dont wanna leave i just sit in my room and cry b/c hes gone, so u think u can give me some advice into telling me how to make time go by as fast as possible....thnx to who ever answers it IF anyone answers it.
Mandy
Ok i definitly know how you would feel about this and yes i couldn't even IMAGINE how hard that would have to be!! but honey, when ur friends are trying to get out of the house then GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!! once u start hanging out with your friends and other people you tend to have so much fun that you don't even think about it. The more things you do with people and by yourself, the less time you're going to have to be sad and depressed about it. And if you ever do feel sad and depressed about it then write it down in a journal or a diary. Then when he gets home you can have him read the entries that you made so he can see how much you missed him and boy will he appreciate that:-D Good luck with everything sweety! and if you ever need anyone to talk to my s/n is Sexyblueyezgurl. oh yea btw my name is amber too lol. good luck!
ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed?
Some girls, when they're pregnat, still have their periods. I know it sounds kind of weird but they do. Only instead of being regular, they're very light i guess? If the bleeding gets really heavy though then i would check that out because it could become a miscarrage
i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.
First of all, you NEED to talk to your "best friend". Once you tell her she should quit flirting with him all the time. I mean if she was a really good friend then she would stop. Then after you talk to your friend about it, talk to the guy. He needs to always know how you feel on things n you should have the right to know how he feels about things also, so then you won't get hurt all the time. COMMUNICATION is the BEST thing that relationships have:-D trust me;-)