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what does it meen if a guy gives you beads? my cousin was all talking about how slutty these gurls were because they were sitting by their boyfriends with a whole bunch of beads around their necks. i didn't know but laughed along with her with no idea on what she was talking about. i know it must have somthing to do with sex but what? p.s. please don't delete!
um the beads are like from mardi grass the girls get them for flashing guys.
Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks
If i were you i wouldn't do that. For one you can get a infecton and even when you get it perfessionaly pirced there are chances that you can get a infection. But if you want get it done by a perfessional who knows what there doing.
my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..
well you should talk to her ( if you can about what she's doing to her self). you can also tell her that theres so much to live for and that there are so many peopel that love and care for her. Cause she might feel like theres nothing to live for and when you think that theres nothing to live for whatever anyone says doesn't really matter so i think you should try to talk her out of her perdicament and if that doesn't work tell her parents maybe they can get her some perfessional help.
I see a few guys in my school who look at me like theyre checking me out. We're good friends and everything, but how do i go about choosing one? I already know they like me, its blaintly obvious and ive learned to figure that out by now. But how do i know which one i should flirt with a little more, and get to know them so that we can be together?
i think you should flirt with the one you have more stuff in common with, that way when yall go together yall make a good coupel.
Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?
Signed,
A girl in desperate need!
well i think you shouldn't change anything about your self just to get a guy yo notcice you. If he notices you he notices you for who you are, and not for who you've become.
I was talkin to a girl online and i had to go and she typed gtg, lybe. So...What does lybe mean when talkin on aim?
um i don't really know but i have heard lylab which means love you like a brother. But che could have messed up or maybe that means something else.
there's this guy who i've met at school and we're getting really close. we like eachother but we didnt start dating... yet.
well his parents and grandparents died and he really doesn't have a permenant home, he just goes wherever and is constantly out on his own. he doesn't really have anyone to support him and buy him clothes and stuff
but im afraid if i date him, my parents will not approve because we've always been brought up from good homes and families. it doesnt bother ME at all but my parents always look down upon "poor" people. also, what should i do/say to him? he doesnt know that i know. i feel bad. should i offer anything? help! thanks
Your parents look down on poor peopel, wow that's messed up since most poor people can't help that there poor but anyways if you like him and care about him than you should help him out it doesn't really matter if your parents looks down on him just because he's not as 'fortounate'as your family. You can agree with me or not but if i were in his shoes i'de want help from any good careing person who'de offer it.
Hey i've ben straightening my hair for about 2 years and i just feel like blowdryin it straight wut is the best way to blow dry it straight and make it not look so puffy? THANK YOU!!! * i rate *
well you can blow dry and brush or comb at the same time. But personally i would flat iron my hair. way much easier than blow drying.
ok i heard that if you gave someone a bj and you swollowed then it stays in your stomach and never goes away...do you knwo if thats true?
that's totaly false it does not stay in your stomach for ever it will eventually get digisted.
OK I haven't bought a CD in a long time cuz I used to download music... But I don't download anymoa and I just bought the Kanye West CD and it's soo awesum! Does anyone know any CD's like this one that r worth buying so I can actualy start a cd collection!? Thanx so much! I rate High!!!
um... well when i went down south to visit my reletives i went to walmart and bought ashlee simpsons CD it's really good. The songs have good beats and the lyrics are just really good.1-5 i would rate ashlee simpsons CD a 5. It was just a really good CD.
I have an online photo album. One of the categories of one of the albums is football games. Each album you can allow any song to play while people look at the pictures in that album. What would be a good song to play in a football games photo album?
um i think the band is called the Queens and there song that goes like we will rock you um i don't know the theme to it though
ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha
well i don't think anythings wrong with you,but i don't know you so. well maybe girls like you but there just to shy to admit it i know girls like that. they like a guy but they won't every tell him. So just relax i'm sure you'll get a girlfriend soon.
ok, what's "7 minutes in heaven"..i know its a game, but what do you do? hows it played? rules? etc? =)
well two peopel go in a closet for seven minutes, and well some times they make out um that's all i really know about that game.
I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much!
wow i mean that story is so sad. I think you should try to be there for her, rape can mess a a woman up physicly, emotinaly and most of all mentalley. It might take her months to get over it but if you stick with her, she might want to talk and talking it out can make a person feel better about a sittueation or incident. You should let her know most of all that your there for her when ever she needs you.
I hoped i helped
ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?
um.. i don't know about that one i do know that planparenthood gives you things with out your parents permission, but i think the gyno would actrulley need your mothers permission.
okay this is my first year at a public school and sence the first day i have noticed there is this really pretty guy there that i have been wanting to talk to but never have come to find out hes one of my friends cousins and they came over to my friends house last weekend and me and him got to meet we all just hung out for a while the next day him and his friends came back over to my friends house again and me and him were cudaling and stuff later that nite we made out from what i have heard from about 2 people he has a girlfriend but he hasn't said anything to me about it yet so i really dont know what to do because he told me i should go to my friends house this friday so me and him can hang out i mean i really like this guy so should i just stop flirting w/ him sence people have told me they "THINK" he has a girlfriend or what please help i rate well!
ask him your self if he has a girlfriend ( cause you don't want to be the other woman) but anyways just ask and if he does have a girl friend drop him, but if he doesn't than may be you can be his girl friend.
Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.
Thanks loves
i totaly agree with you it's like really hard for me to give advice, when i can't hardley read what they need advice on
ok @ school like everybody wheres makeup and stuff and i want to too. not just because everybody is wearing it but because i feel ugly. but i dont know anythin about it!!! so can you tell me whats the best kind of like foundation or powder?! what is pressed powder?! and dosent makeup wash off in the rain?! thank you so much and i rate really good if that matters to you! thanks.
one rule of make up, don't appley to much. You can always start off lite. well the best kind of foundation and powder i'de have to say cover girl.
um i don't really know what pressed powder is.Make up washes off but atleast some do cause there are water proof makeup.i hoped i help
okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.
i do i totaly agree with what your saying. Waiting for marriage to have sex is a personal decision and personaly i'm not waiting till marriage.
my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
I'll rate high..
I.M.O. she's not a real friend if she flirts with your boyfriend. i think you should diffinitly tell her how you feel about her flirting with your boyfirend because trulley you shouldn't watch your so called friend flirting with your boyfirned and then seeing him flirt back.