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My ex-boyfriend and I told eachother that we liked eachother a couple weeks ago, and since then we havent really hung out or anything. Which is weird cuz we were best friends b4 and after we went out. Is there any place i could ask him to go with me that wont really seem like a date, just a friends thing because we're "waiting" to go out again? (link)
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friends can go anywhere. Just when you go to ask him be like "wanna go see a movie?" then be like you know as friends, doing what friends do. he should be cool about it. if hes really wanting to work things out and stuff then yeah he would wanna go. When he asks like "oh when and see what" just be like whatever day you can and what do you wanna see.
hope i helped
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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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im sorry. Just ignore her. If she tells you to brush it or wear earings dont. Do just the oppisite. Just wear make up and you know do you hair and stuff, look good. Let her say what she wants, shes obviously very opinionated and has no respect for you,her own daughter. You are your own person. hope i helped
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im a 13 yr old black female in okc and my bf is 16 and my daddy found out everything about what me and him been doin he said if i end up pregnant he is throwing him in jail for statutory rape. im scared about that can that really happen i thought you have to be at least 18 yrs old for all that to happen please anyone look this up for the state of oklahoma (link)
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some states are diffrent. example: here in CAlifornia. its 18.
in oklahoma.. its 16.
and here in california if example a girl is 16 and is fooling around with an 18 yr. old then your parents better know other wise if they FIND OUT then its concidered statutory rape. if you have there concent thats its ok to date him and what not then they cant bring those charges againist him.
but in oklahoma its 16 so your dad could do that. from my understanding..
CONSENT OF MINOR
You are instructed that as a matter of law a minor under the age of fourteen/sixteen is incapable of giving consent/agreement to engaging in sexual conduct which is otherwise prohibited by law and the agreement/consent of such minor to such activity should be disregarded by you in determining the question of the defendant's guilt.
Notes on Use
This instruction is appropriate for rape and other sex crimes when the victim is a child below a particular age. This age is fourteen for prosecutions for rape in the first degree and sixteen for prosecutions for rape in the second degree and other sex crimes.
thats what i found online. hope it helps
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everything is goin great between us or atleast it seems like it...lately he hasnt been tlkin to me as much and stuff like that...i have a feeling sumthing is goin on but i need someone elses opinion
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well dont assume TOO much just cause he isnt talking AS much as he used to. But if its something thats happening all the time.. then ask him. he is your boyfriend you can ask him anything. jsut say something about "is everything ok? cause you havent been talking much lately" he will tell you. Then if he says no think about how long you guys have been together, if its been awhile, months and months, and you guys do the same stuff when you hangout, or you talk about the same things.. he might just be getting bored, in that case you'll need to think of something quick to make everything perfect again.
good luck dear
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why is it that my friend one day hes all over me and flirts iwht me and the next he acts like i dont even exist then another day he goes bak to the fliritng self...ah it drives me crazyy i have no idea how to read this kid! (link)
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boys are silly. Look to see if hes flirting when no one is there, and then completely ignoring you when people are around. OR maybe you could be taking the stuff he does, and says as flirting but thats not even his intentions. Boys are so random and half the time they dont know what they want or who they want. If he is in fact flirting and its in front of people... but then the next day he just doesnt talk to you, he may have been busy or chances are hes just messing with your head. If it continues then ask him. but just say something how he TALKS to you one day and then the next he acts like you dont even exist.
G00d luck hun
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ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
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ok well honestly, just stick with being friends until he ACTUALLY ENDS It. You can tell him you like him but try not to get too involved because you wouldnt want people saying stuff about you getting between him and his girlfriend. If he really wants to break it off then he would end it even if she begs him. Hes gotta still have feelings for her because hes not ending it. Just play it safe and be careful what you tell to other people, but at the same time let him know you like him. boys are silly sometimes and we all hate to hear it but, he could be telling you he wants it to end.. but then everything with his girlfriend is going fine. hope it helps dear
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Ok, I'm trying to lose weight but I get bored often and I've found that I eat when I get bored, even if I'm not hungry at all. What are some things to do when I get bored?? I mean, I live in a place where you have to drive 15 minutes to the nearest mall or movie place so shopping isnt an option. And I'm only 13 so I can't drive...What are some fun, random things to do around the house? (link)
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well you know how you eat when your bored? To be full so you wont wanna eat, or even think of food is for you to drink 2 cups of water, then eat some kind of fruit. An Apple or grapes? those are juicy fruits and it will fill you up. then you want snack.
i dunno any random things to do lol. sorry but im sure the advice i just gave you might help. And also you eat and drink slowly during every meal, so you eat less, but get full, and your body will burn fat.
best wishes
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Okay I have had my period for like a year now, or whateva. So like last month and this month, it didn't stay on as long as usual. I mean it used to come on for 5 days now it comes on for looks like 7. Is this normal? I mean what is wrong with me. I couldn't be pregnant, cause if your period comes on while you are pregnant it is shorter right? SOmeone help me please. Rate 5 for all GREAT and HELPFUL answers.
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One girl might have a 3-day period and another girl might have a 7-day period. It might take several years for a girl's period to become regular. One month the period might last 4 days, whereas the next month it might be 6 days. Some women experience irregular periods for several years and might not ever be "regular." Some doctors will prescribe birth control pills to help regulate your menstrual cycle. Talk to your doctor to find how you can regulate your cycle if it is irregular.
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/menstfaqfrteens.htm
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If i run for 30 minutes every day on a tred mill, how much might i lose by christmas?
also, does running on a tred mill give the same results of regular running? (link)
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ok well if your running 30 mins each day, are you fat? or skinny? It also depends on what you eat. If you eat junk food all day and run 30 mins its not gunna do anything. If you eat healthy no snacks after 8:00 pm then you will, well should lose some weight. Good luck
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear
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i have many friends but they never call me or ask me to hang out. its always me talking to them or calling them or asking them to hang out. i have a boyfriend who ive been with for almost a year and they have kept in touch with me less and less since ive been with him. i really want my friends back and to make new friends. what can i do? (link)
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Well if you wanna get them back then call them up and plan something.. then when there all there, just say something about how they dont call or anything anymore, and that you miss hanging out with them like you used to. True friends will understand. If they dont, then as hard as it may be you'll have to find new friends. Good luck dear
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Iam always nervous and deppressed no one around me like family,friends,stuff like that can tell. I have no brothers or sisters to help me,I'm scared of life to and of the devil I think I want a Theropist but I'm scared if I tell my parents i'll get in trouble and they wont belive me. I am 13 and female, I'm also scared of the fact of becoming one of those teens who get soo stressed they move things with there mind and don't even no it, and some of those kids become Excersist.
P.S. I'm that teen who is a Little too skinny. (link)
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im 15 now and i honestly felt that way at 13 too. I have a brother but hes younger so its not much help. But If you really need someone to talk to then i would do what the last girl said and write a letter to your parents..be sure to explain WHY you need one.. and how long you've felt this way and your worried for yourself. I pray your parents will be understanding of that and let you see one. I hope things get better for you
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does anyone noe a song that goes something like..." do you think about me.. do you want to get with me (with me) do you think about us and makin love..." and i dont noe the rest but i know that a girl sings it and it might be a group of girls or not.. but i noe it is an old song (2000 i think) can someone plz tell me the name of it.. thanks (link)
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Gotcha covered.
its Called "when you think about me"
and two diffrent artists sing it
Billy Crawford
Yellowstone & Voice
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I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i? (link)
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Girl, dont even give in. Honestly dont even do anything with him cause if hes got the reputation of being a player chances are your just part of the game. Hes gunna say he loves you and your his girl, just so you give in and do what he wants. Tell him you wanna hang out n talk, watch a movie go out. Get to know the true him, if he slowly gives up or just stops wanting you around n talking you then you will really know how bad he was playing you, and you'll be glad you didnt do anything with him.
good luck.
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my friends are always getting the guys. ill plainly say that. i am pretty, or at least everyone thinks i am, and i personally think i have a great personality. i flirt, i try to act interested but the guys always seem to go for my freinds, even if it seems they are flirting with me, or like me. i mean, i have so much more to offer than my freinds. im going to a an art school for painting, i play the guitar, the piano and the drums, i am the life of the party, i paint, i write, i compose. but it seems that my freinds, who personaly i think are...i hate to use the word...posers(even though we arnt goth or anything, they just think they know art when they, exuse my french, dont know shit). but sometimes i wonder, am i just to mature, should i wait to find a guy, or for someone to find me? i just feel that people will give me a second look, but not want to waste their time or energy on a third. im really sorry if this question had no point. and im sorry for wasting you tome reading it. but can anyone help me get out of this shadow? (link)
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maybe your thinking of yourself as TOO good to be true? you seem to be good at everything from what you say. some guys dont always care about what your good at or exactly how pretty you are. Honestly If they go for your friends then just think that it wasnt meant to be. You'll find someone but do NOt expect them to come find you, you have to go n try to find someone too. Just dont act so desprate, someone will come along. good luck
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me and my ex bf nate went out for almost a year and i just decided to break up with him all of a sudden. sometimes i think it was the biggest mistake of my life and sometimes i think it was the best. he says that he's 100% over me and i tell him im over him to but i dont know if i can be over him. he was the first guy i ever fell in love with. he was completely devestated when we broke up, abut he's over me now and i dont know what to do. i still love him, im just so confused. what do i do? (link)
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Dont settle for something. And you broke up with him for a reason right? If you sometimes feel its right. and then sometimes feel its the biggest mistake odds are your gunna end up just realizing its done. Its gunna be tough to get used to not having him around. And if hes a 100% over you and you tell him your over him then its said. If you hate saying it and catch yourself upset by it. then tell him. Maybe you guys can work on your relationship and fix whats wrong, so you will want to be with him and then you wont feel stuck. If he was devistated then chances are maybe hes just saying it cause he thinks you feel that way. But if hes not taken then tell him how you feel and go from there. Good luck hun
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ive been talking with a guy for a little over 5 months. im definilty ready to date him but he says he won't date me becuase a few of his friends would diaprove because of the 2 years age difference. i think if he really likes me then hell date me anyway. i know i should probably give up on him but i like him a lot and we've gotten really close overtime. it would be hard to get over him because some of his friends are mine also. what should i do? (link)
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you know what you should do. you already said
" i think if he really likes me then hell date me anyway. i know i should probably give up on him"
and your exactly right! He should WANt to date you if he liked you dispite what his friends say. Move on dear. You gave him 5 months to do something. Its time to find a real guy who will like you and date you because they like you and dont care what others have to say. And besides 2 years? its nothing now adays.
good luck dear. Your better off without him. theres a world full of boys. trust me.
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ok so i am a guy and i signed up well tried out is more like the word for colorgaurd this sport that were wel lyou twirl guns wood of course and flags and show school spirit. and the great thing is i made it but my friends and well a lot of people disagree with my desicion. i mean i know i shouldn't care what they say and that god is here and i am doing it for him i want to get these people t know him and show others that this activity is not a joke or it is "gay" in there words. and i mean it hurts because i get made fun of but i live with it and give it all to god. but i still need prayer. so if you would pray for me that i may get through this rough time and show others that i can make a diffrence. and i mean i just ned advice and support on like how can i deal with this stress i mean i give it to god of course but how can i make it so when hurtfull words come to me such as "dude you'r a looser for doing that, coorgaurd is so gay and dumb only stupid kids do that" i mean it hurts do you have any verses i can look up and how to deal with this stress and what not. And pleas please please pray for me. on this situation
thnx a bunch
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Ok the best i got for you. just forget those kids. You said it yourself your doing it for god and you already know that you shouldn't let what they say bother you. All through life kids are made fun of and theres nothing anyone can do to stop everyone from doing it. Just laugh back at them and say well im sorry you feel that way --- with there name lol. And walk away. Dont let it anger you or upset you. They arent worth causing you any pain. Enjoy your color guard! good luck bud
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