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not many friends
i have many friends but they never call me or ask me to hang out. its always me talking to them or calling them or asking them to hang out. i have a boyfriend who ive been with for almost a year and they have kept in touch with me less and less since ive been with him. i really want my friends back and to make new friends. what can i do?
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Stand up! Speak out, tell your friends that they never call. Ask them why. Thats not right, if they were REAL friends they'd actually call you once in a while, and even hang out with you. Your boyfriend doesn't call you!? what!? Thats unusual. Get some great people in your life, you desirve A LOT better. Be optimistic & friendly and make some new friends that you desirve. Take care hun.
♥ Alli*
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i kno how you feel . i have friends who never call ... im always the one to initate everything. ya it sucks but what can you do?!?! all i do is start hanging out with them and eventually they call you once in a while . sometimes ppl are shy or just 2 busy. never think its you ... or youll end up worrying to much ... and worrying sucks .. believe me :)
hope this helped
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I always say the best advice is to be the kinda friend you want to have. But if you are tired of always being the one doing the planning then you might be outta luck with this praticular group.
If you still feel close your friends you might just out right ask them if there is a problem, and listen seriously to what they say. Maybe they just don't like going out as much as you do.
Also try tagging alone insteed of always being the planner. Let someone else choose what they wanna do and go with it. Your friends might be just as bored with you always making the plans as you are.
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Try and find out why they don't keep in touch with you. Maybe they were just "using" your friendship. Anyways, tell your friends how you feel about this. If they don't listen make new friends. Making new friends isn't hard just try and associate with people you have things in common with. Hope this works.
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Well if you wanna get them back then call them up and plan something.. then when there all there, just say something about how they dont call or anything anymore, and that you miss hanging out with them like you used to. True friends will understand. If they dont, then as hard as it may be you'll have to find new friends. Good luck dear<3
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