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me and my ex bf nate went out for almost a year and i just decided to break up with him all of a sudden. sometimes i think it was the biggest mistake of my life and sometimes i think it was the best. he says that he's 100% over me and i tell him im over him to but i dont know if i can be over him. he was the first guy i ever fell in love with. he was completely devestated when we broke up, abut he's over me now and i dont know what to do. i still love him, im just so confused. what do i do?
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well why did you break up with him in the first place? .. first analyze that, and then decide where to go from there
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Wait.. why would you brake up with him if you truely loved him and were together for a year? Well.. your life. Anyways you both keep saying that you are over each other.. and you defenetlly are'nt!! He is not 100% over you at all! Maybe like 98% but thats all! L0L.. he still really likes you. ♥// I think that you should talk to him. If you love him you both could make your relationship work out .. whatever you did wrong you could fix!! Let him know you aren't over him because its not worth it too loose him again. ♥ // ex_oh
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Dont settle for something. And you broke up with him for a reason right? If you sometimes feel its right. and then sometimes feel its the biggest mistake odds are your gunna end up just realizing its done. Its gunna be tough to get used to not having him around. And if hes a 100% over you and you tell him your over him then its said. If you hate saying it and catch yourself upset by it. then tell him. Maybe you guys can work on your relationship and fix whats wrong, so you will want to be with him and then you wont feel stuck. If he was devistated then chances are maybe hes just saying it cause he thinks you feel that way. But if hes not taken then tell him how you feel and go from there. Good luck hun<3
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if your sure your not over him, tell him. you tell him your over him, but it's a lie right? well he could be lying to you. if you two really felt deeply about each other, he's probably not 100% over you. its best to let him know you still love him. you can't get rid of your first love. he's gonna stay with you for a long while before your truly over him.
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I'd say it's likely that you just aren't over him yet. It takes quite a while to get over someone who you dated for almost a year, and the process can be even slower if you're still talking to him and constantly asking yourself "what if?" Make sure you give it some thought whether you really do want to get back together with him again. There was probably a reason you broke up with him in the first place, no matter how trite it seems now. Give it a little time before you decide to pursue anything. Chances are, he's probably still reeling over the break up too.
All the best.
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