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Q: hey all how i could i convince my parents to let me get a cell phone they said when i start working i could maybe get a cell phone and it's not because so many people have cellphones i just want one i don't know what to do but now they won't pay for it now they said i don't need one i don't know what to do tips ideas etc.... thanks

My parents told me i couldnt get a cell phone untill i had a job to pay for my cell phone.. but i bugged my parents for about 2 weeks and one day my dad and i were driving by the cell phone place and i screamed DAD STOP THE CAR and he did and he went in and bought me one.. good luck Ashlee

Q: I currently attend a small private school and am going to a huge public school for high school. I'm really shy, and worried that I won't make any friends. Does anyone have any specific tips for friend-making without being annoyingly outgoing? Thanks!

Hi im Ash and i am going to a high school also next year but i already attend a public school but here is the advise that my older friends give me.. just be friendly and it depends on what kind of friends u wanna make.. i think the easy this to do is go up to some one who looks friendly and be like " hi i really dont no anyone and i was wondering if we could hang or osmething like show each other around school. good luck ash

Q: i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this?

alright here is my opinion i think the guys you are dating are not what you want and you need a guy who will do that stuff with you when you want it and maybe you gotta find the right guy or something.. Good Luck ~ Ashlee~

Q: I am 19 and I love my boyfriend with all my heart but the thing is he is in jail so i'm not aloud to be with him because my parents found out but I just can't give him up because the love is so strong. I think about him everyday and I often start crying because I miss him so much. What should I do?

i h ave been in a sitituation like yours but my exe boyfriend didnt go to jail (our parents talked) and the age diff was big but anyways i think you should do what you feel is right talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about him and how much you love him. im sure if your parents raelly do care they will give in and let you be with him .. and with not being able to c him arent you allowed to write letters or visit every once in a while?? good Luck Ashlee

Q: ok...so there is this guy...anyways i REALLY REALLY ThInK i like him and i ThInK he likes me 2 but i dont know! Every time i'm with him he's always like holding hands with me and trying to kiss me but we're not even going out! BUT, when some1 comes around it is like he doesn't want to be seen WITH ME WITH ME! like...as a couple...! i don't know what to do or how to tell him how i feel...do u have any ideas?
ThAnKs A BuNcH!*

Hi here is my opinion in what you should to.. if your able to tell him face to face how you feel then that great be like hey (name) i really like you but i feel as if when somebody comes around you ignore me.. and if you cant say it face to face write it all down Good Luck Ashlee

Q: I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?

Here is my opinion... if your boyfriend is talking stuff about what you are then maybe you should have a sit down with him and be like well i havnt been able to tell you this because of the stuff you had said about it but im bi and if he dumps you for that reason then you to werent meet you want to be able to find some one who likes you for who you are and that your able to talk to Good Luck Ashlee

Q: Im gonna try to make this as short as possible so no one has to read alot. There is this guy that goes to my church that plays guitar in the band.When i saw him i thought he was so cute and looked like a nice guy. I didnt know how old he was so i asked someone and they said they think he is 16.. and they also said I am to young for him becaue i am 13 but I dont think its that big of a diffrence. I wanna talk to him but im scared to and im never scared to talk to guys he is the only one. I dont know if i like him like that i just wanna get to know him and stuff because he may have a girlfriend. What should I do?

okay here is my opinion to your question.. i think that you should go up to him in church one day and just introduce your self nicely and then tell him maybe we can catch a movie or hang out some time. Your friend Ashlee

Q: I have three best friends. Lets call them A,B,and C. I fight with A alot! Whenever anyone fights with A, B sticks up for her! It gets me really mad because i told A i dont like when she tells B when we fight because A can handle her own problems and i just dont get it because B never sticks up for me and its like shes following A because me and A are like sisters and we fight but we only joke around and B gets in the middle and she makes it seem even worse then it already is.. C is a better friend.. she doesnt get involved but i can tell she hates when we fight, but all 3 of them said i changed because i was hanging out with this other gurl.. ill call her D. Well A,B,and C all started to talk about me because i always hung out with D at school.Not really alot of people like D that much and i keep her company at school.. but i dont know if i should keep doing that because people are starting to talk about D again and i was already through that and i dont want it to happen again.What should i do? Should i talk to all these people? all my friends are falling apart and i dont know what to do. thanks!

alright... here is my opinion with your situation.. i am going through the same thing but with one of my friends but anyways i think you should get your friends A,B,and C over one night for a sleep over and talk to them about everything and how you feel that you guys are falling apart.. and then be like maybe we can all be friends (A, B, C and D) and if they say no they dont want to stick up for D and be like shes a nice person maybe you guys can give it a chance and if they still dont want to then your going to have to hang out with both of them and stop fighting with A so much try working out it out your self right then and there. Your Friend Ashlee

Q: Ok I have had a crush on this guy since I was 6 so I know I really like him I've known him for 10 years and im 13. Ok well he is like my best friend that is a guy. And I really want to ask him out but before that I want to know if he likes me my brother is his best friend and I asked him to ask the guy if he likes me but he said no but my brother think he was lieing cuz he gets all weird when he lies and he did get all weird. I'm way to scared to ask him if he would like to go out with me but the problem is at the end of the school year hes going to a different school and I'm going to a different school and we are probley never going to see each other alot like we do. I NEED HELP ASAP! I RATE HIGH ********

Alright i dont know if ill be much help but here is my opinion... i think if you to shy to tell this person how you feel towards him write it in a note. and at the bottum of the note write PS will you go out with me and write , write back . good luck with this your friend Ashlee

Q: Im 12 years old and i wanted my boyfriend to get me prennet o he did and hes 15. would he get introuble

okay.. well im 13 and ive done stuff and wanted to be pregnate but i have always used protection because of many reasons... i know i dont have a job to support a child. My boyfriend is 15 also and he has job but isnt mature enough to be a father he does some stupied stuff that he shouldnt. so i wouldnt be able to depend on him. i wish i could but i cant. No he wouldnt get in trouble but with your parents and his parents yes probly. i didnt under stand you question if he did get you pregnate but if he did then congrats. but i hope you can have away to support the child and tell your parents right away so that there not suprised and can help you threw everything Good Luck!!! -Ashlee-

Q: Last weekend my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend. All week, she hasn't said 2 words to me... except when she yells at me or wants to give me an attitude about a chore I didnt do or forgetting to call her to tell her I was out. I've been trying to make small talk with her about stupid stuff like dinner or the weather but she just gives me short answers. I dont want to bring up what happened at all but I do want her to talk to me! Please help me out, I'd appreciate it so much. Thank you!

Okay well i think you... when my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend, she grounded me, but you should talk it out with her because thats what my mom was waiting for me to do Good Luck Ashlee

Q: i've been having a really tough time with gettig over my ex boyfriend because he was everything to me- but i Need to move on- no question about it. SO theres this new guy and i like him and he likes me a lot too. But somtimes he's shy and i want him to like open up. The reason for this is because he's never had like a realy gf! which is different, but its not like he's a geek or anything, he could've gotten plenty of girls but he's never really liked a girl that much.. he's kinda picky i guess. So should i go and try this guy out? cuz he's so fun to be around.. maybe it will make me stop thinking about my ex. What about this shy thing tho? Help please =D thanks so much- i'll rate

hey well the first time i had a boyfriend or well the first time i hang out with my boyfriend i dont know why but im always shy. Let him get to no you alot like when your hanging out dont be shy be your self and tell him thinks if your sad or mad or angry at some one maybe that will help open him up.. and yes i think you should give it a try because hopefully he will help you get ove your ex ... just tip dont talk about your ex boyfrined to him. Good Luck Ashlee

Q: we both know that we like each other and we flirt like crazy. we are now starting to cuddle a lot. and i make him laugh he makes me laugh and i really like him alot. and we are definitely hugging a lot. i am running out of ideas about what to do. he can't have a gf right now cuz of his school work (it's bad). so what do i do? i'm a 17 year old girl.

hey if you really like this kid and he really like you he would try to pull up his grades and do better on his work. and i think you should wait for him if he seems not to do any better maybe help him in his school work Good Luck Ashlee

Q: ok i have a gf i asked her out and she said yes so we talk on the phone and i see her at school. we didnt want any one to know but now we dont know what to do i also was wondering if i should take her some where and where like the movies or dairy queen.{im 13 male shes 13 also}some people know and some dont i love her and she love me so what do i do??? and she doesnt have any one to take her any where and her arents dont know she is going out what do i do???
take her out and where?
tell every one or keep it a secrete?

hey.. well you should probly tell because if you to seriouly love each other then its good to let other people know how you feel about each other, and you should take her to the movies thats my opinion Good Luck Ashlee

Q: ive never had a boyfriend over valentine's day and i really want one this year. but im not sure if any one likes me. is there any thing i can do to try and get a guy to like me??? im so confused on what to do.

hey well there is some what something you could do find a guy that you have known for awhile that you like then ask him if he would be your valentine, but before you ask send little hints like flirt with him for a week or so then ask. Good Luck Ashlee

Q: well, see i used to have these two really good friends and I had so much fun around them. then things got shaky and they started hanging around these really bad guys that always wanted us to do stuff for them , and I couldnt take it. turns out, their realtionships at home got worse and they started fighting with their moms and such. but i still remember all the fun times we had. should i let them back in?

hey of course you should let them back in be there friend let them know that even during hard times that you will always be there for you friends so that they have some one to depend on if things get really rough Good Luck Ashlee!

Q: I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH

Well... it seems he is having a bit of an issuse with his ex but maybe you should talk to him maybe ask him what if you make the first move on him would he follow.. or something to that effect... cause it could help move your relationship onward... good luck Ashlee

Q: in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this...

I think that you need to tell him that you like him.. but if you only think he is cute then i wouldnt bother you need to no things about him, like talk to him.. get to no him trade numbers. if you to do get together tell him you at least want to keep ur virgenity till freashman year or how eva long u want to. Good Luck Ashlee

Q: OK ive been liking this guy ever since we've been in the same class together and ive told him and he asked me out but then two days later he broke up with me saying he wants to get to know me more and hes been with me everyday since we broke up but still hasnt asked me back out...i want to be with him but i dont wanna wait around very long.. what should i do?

I think you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, like that you like him and want to be with him but you dont want to have to wait for a long time just for him, you want to move on but u dont want to mess up the chance of not being able to have him..Good Luck Ashlee

Q: I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!

well has he said that he loved you before like when he was able to tell you who he liked and stuff.. if not then yes he probly likes you.. and if you like him then maybe send him a few signles so he gets the picture that you like him you never no you to could end up as a couple Good Luck Ashlee

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.