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I have three best friends. Lets call them A,B,and C. I fight with A alot! Whenever anyone fights with A, B sticks up for her! It gets me really mad because i told A i dont like when she tells B when we fight because A can handle her own problems and i just dont get it because B never sticks up for me and its like shes following A because me and A are like sisters and we fight but we only joke around and B gets in the middle and she makes it seem even worse then it already is.. C is a better friend.. she doesnt get involved but i can tell she hates when we fight, but all 3 of them said i changed because i was hanging out with this other gurl.. ill call her D. Well A,B,and C all started to talk about me because i always hung out with D at school.Not really alot of people like D that much and i keep her company at school.. but i dont know if i should keep doing that because people are starting to talk about D again and i was already through that and i dont want it to happen again.What should i do? Should i talk to all these people? all my friends are falling apart and i dont know what to do. thanks!<3
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heyy are you sure that all of these people talk about you cuz this sounds like my friend juliet who is going the same thing but c doesnt talk about her and d hanging out she doesnt say anything about that and so maybe you should talk to all these people together a,b,c, and d and maybe you can fix the problem because my friend thinks that we all dont like d but we really are all friends with her
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Screw your friends. THey're gay and stupid. Pick a new batch that isnt so jealous.
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alright... here is my opinion with your situation.. i am going through the same thing but with one of my friends but anyways i think you should get your friends A,B,and C over one night for a sleep over and talk to them about everything and how you feel that you guys are falling apart.. and then be like maybe we can all be friends (A, B, C and D) and if they say no they dont want to stick up for D and be like shes a nice person maybe you guys can give it a chance and if they still dont want to then your going to have to hang out with both of them and stop fighting with A so much try working out it out your self right then and there. Your Friend Ashlee
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I beleive you shouldnt stop talking to someone just because your going to get talked about for it. This is the kind of stuff people deal with everyday in high school..and its hard! I would call a "friend meeting" It migght sound corny but i think you should. Talk to a,b,and c. Tell them your thoughts..then let them say theirs..just tell them you dont want to fight and that a.b.c are your best friends! tel them d is someone your friedly with but could never take their places so please stop talking about d.
try the friend meeting..it might help.
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