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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate.

People will be people. They aren't thinking about that poor baby, they are just thinking about how they feel. They are very selfish. Some women who are raped may feel like the baby should be aborted because she didn't ask for the pregnancy and doesn't want to carry it around with her for 9 months. Others, who simply had sex with a guy and got pregnant, want to abort the baby because they only think of themselves. They don't want the responsibility of going through child birth when they could just abort the baby. I think that they should just have the baby and give it up for adoption. They should take responsibility for their actions. The only time a mother should be allowed to abort a baby is if she has been raped or her health is in serious jeopardy.

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ok i want to go skating at 6:00 but i have my period, is there anything i could do to not leak? pleez dont say use a tampon or two pads thx!

Umm, there isn't anything you can do to not have a leak if you don't wear a tampon or pads.

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ok for health i have to do an essay on 5 reasons why americans on average are not phisically fit.

i am just drawing a blank about what to write about
please help asap!!

i rate.

-Americans are lazy
-There is so much more junk food out today than there was 30 years ago
-Alot of people have eating disorders due to depression and other medical problems
-There is alot more transportation today than there used to be
-We don't develop good eating habit as kids anymore and that stays with us all through life

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i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......

plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...

siqned,
love sick puppy

If you really aren't ready, tell him that. If he loves you as much as you love him he will understand. Just know this, you are going to have to kiss someone like that anyway. Even if you are scared, conquer your fears. Making out isn't that bad. He might get fed up if you guys are still going out in months and you still don't want to kiss like that. Don't be afraid and just try it.

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I don't know if anyone could possibly give me any tips but .. everytime I curl my hair, I part my hair into two parts on each side of my neck. The right side always looks perfect but, for some reason, the left side always comes out flat with a little bit of curl to it - not like the ringlets that come out on the right side. Is there anything special I can do to prevent this?

When your hair is wrapped around the curling iron, use hairspray. I recommend using Pantene Pro-V Curl Lock Spray. It doesn't make your hair crunchy or sticky and it keeps the curls in great.

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If I'm on my period, and I have a tampon in, what should I do if, while making out, my boyfriend starts to put his hand down my pants? Should I assume he is going to finger me, and immediately warn him that I have a tampon in? If so, what/how should I say it? OR should I let him do whatever he is going to do, and then IF he DOES begin to finger me, should I THEN tell him to stop? Thanks for your help.

Let him know before you guys start kissing. To break it to him easy be like "Ugh my stomach hurts so bad" and he'll be like "Why?", then you say "because I have my period". Don't let him finger you with a tampon in. That's discusting on his behalf and that would hurt a whole lot.

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Ive been seeing my g/f for 2 years now, and she went to Bali about 4 months ago. I had suspicions she cheated on me, but there is no proof. She went with another g/f and accidently ran into a bunch of guys she met once in Newcastle, Australia. When she got home she was acting all weird and i blatenly have asked her friend (she went with) and she never givees me straight answers. She plays with me alot, and says "If i only knew" and stuff like that. I know theres not much info, but if you went to Bali with a girlfriend for a holiday for 3 and a half weeks, would you think you would come to a situation where you had to turn down sex from a guy. And my g/f used to sleep around alot when we werent together. she just turned 19 in december. It eerrrksss me that i dont know and never will know. Howwwwwwww can i find out what happened???? Any mischeivious ideas?????

She probably got offered and if she has had a past, there is a chance she didn't turn it down. Of course her friend is going to lie for her. The only thing to get her to tell you is ask her and tell her you won't be mad, even though you will be. She probably won't admit to it until you two break up. You can try her friend again, but I doubt that will work. Sorry, good luck.

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Im religious. I believe in God and everything, but lately Ive been thinking about the devil and excorcisms. I dont know why but its taking over my life. Im constantly thinking about it! I havent even seen the Excorcism of Emily rose or anything, but I HAVE seen the Excorcist. Im just really scared it would happen to me. In that movie and the excorcist, why DID it happen to THOSE people?! Please help give me more info about what it is

No websites please! I kind of just want an answer! I give 5s!

This is what priests say. Even if you don't belive in demons, they still exsist. You can be the most holy person and get taken over my demons. It happens to those people to let them give a message out about God and to keep their faith.

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Does anyone know what a g-string is?

I know that it's a thong, but what kind of thong? My friends make it sound so dirty...

Well, thongs are shaped like v's going down your butt, a g-string is simply a straight line. It's shaped like a T going down your butt.

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okay, whenever i get a grade ike a "B", my parents yell at me! i'm used to it, but why dothey have to yell when i only get a "B"? i mean, what's up with that? i know this seems like a small situation, but please help me!!

They probably expect more out of you because maybe they never got B's.

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I get really bad headaches all the time..i take advil and they go away..should i go to a doctor and see if there is anything wrong with me?


14/f is that helps

I have the same problem as you. To this day, I have really bad headaches. This started like 2 months ago. I went to the doctor's and they gave me sinus medicine. It didn't work. Then they gave me migraine medicine - it didn't work. So, after paying 70 dollars worth of medicine, they sent me to the eye doctor. I don't need glasses either. Then I had to get an MRI to see if I have like tumors or anything. So pretty much do all of those and see whats wrong. But with my headaches, tylenol and advil don't work for me. I get them for more than like 5 hours too. Good luck and feel better.


By the way- Don't keep taking alot of advil. It's toxin to your liver. You can get really sick. I used to take like 4 advil a day. I had to go to the hospital.

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My friend's father died recently. Does anyone know any quotes from the bible i could put in my profile? Also, does anyone know any good quotes about friends from a song or anything that would be appropriate? Thanks.

http://www.worldofquotes.com/topic/Sympathy/1/


^biblical sympathetic quotes

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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x

Yea it does taste like smoke. They don't say it's like "licking an ash tray" for no reason. It's discusting. Well, if you are with him for like more than 10 years and he smokes in front of you all the time you are more likely to get lung cancer. Second hand smoke is more dangerous than smoking yourself.

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hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx

If you are sexually active, or if you want to hint to him that you want to have sex. He will be more confident if he knows that there is added protection while having sex.

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ok well this guy stares at me alot(ALOT),showsoff infront of me..and doesnt talk to girls other thenme...talked to me once but never did again...but still stares...does he like me?

It sounds like he does.

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am. He is 19 and I am 15. Some people have a problem with it. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you are safe and mature. Age is nothing but a number and you shouldn't care what other people think.

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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks

Yea, it pretty much means that you have been with alot of guys.

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my mom beats me up all the time...she has problems with my dad and takes them out on me!!..when im sleeping sometimesi see her put her hands round my throat and try to choce me ..i love her so i dont want her to go to jail...what do i do??

Umm yea that's not normal, she could really hurt you sometime. No matter how much you love someone, you can't let them do that. Call an abuse line or go to your school counselor.

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when someone says theyre sprung..what does it mean?

Liking someone so much that you do pretty much anything they say. In other words, if you are sprung, you are whipped.

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I have a friend, and whenever I go online, she almost always Instant Messages me. I was cool with it for a while, but no it's just irritating. I've put an away message up, but I always eventually come back. What can I do (It has to be nice)?

Tell her you are busy with something when she IMs you, pretend it isn't you on your name, tell her BRB and don't come back, tell her you can't talk right then.

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