The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Wats some good websites that are free that have really good games that are really fun (link)
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www.arcadepod.com
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this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help.. (link)
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I'm sure that he isn't over you yet, unless he hasn't been liking you for a while and wanted to break up. It's probably him trying to act like no biggy because YOU broke up with HIM. Maybe though, he likes your friend and sees no reason to be sad that yall broke up because now he can have your friend. Hope I helped you! -Kayla
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ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
-confused (link)
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Well, even if you do cry about relationships and everything with him. You have to remember that it wouldn't be fair for either of yall if yall were dating and hardly saw eachother. Plus, have you ever thought about your fights and the ruff times? I know I used to do that with this one guy and now I just realize he was an ass to me a lot and I'm glad I'm not with him anymore. I hope this helps and if that bf of yours is good that you have for now, stick with him! -Kayla
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What's better?
a) a girl who's drop dead gorgeous with the IQ of a broom
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b) a girl who's cute and can carry on intelligent conversation (like... genius level IQ)
please say why, and how old you are so i can figure out how that relates to my age bracket...
please and thank you! (link)
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I'm 15 and I think that you should go with the girl that is cute and intelligent because it will get very old with a girl that is really stupid and blonde all the time. It's ok if they are at times but not all the time. It gets annoying. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
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I think, 8th grade, then everyone is going out to the movies and things with other people and it's lots of fun. You should let him/her have him/her over at your house and just hang out maybe watch some movies. But, DON'T watch the movie with them, give them some time alone. But umm, let them go to the movies and if you dont feel comfortable with him/her going on a date there or something then let them go as a group date. That's cool too, don't be too protective! It's very annoying. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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hey theres this one guy i went out with and we were really close...we said i love you and all that stuff, then one day he heard alot of rumors around the school about me and they werent true,but he didnt believe me cuz he said that over 10 people said all this stuff.So he broke up with me,but a couple of days later we were talking on the phone and he said he would go out with me again but hes afraid of breaking my heart again..and i said "its ok....im getting used to it" but i didnt think before saying it. Then he said "why because of me" and i said yes....then he said he doesnt feel like talking....and he got all mad and hung up. After that we were talking on aim and we got in a big fight over that thing i said and he said he just wont talk or look at me anymore....And at school yesterday he wouldnt even look at me...but everybody i tell that too says i can get better, or u dont deserve him, but they dont kno how much i like him.When we were in that fight on aim he said that he was going to ask me if we can try it again, but i said that so now hes not going to ask me...and i just want to tell him how i really feel, but im afraid i'll say something else to make him mad.... (link)
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Ok, here's my opinion, since you asked. I think you should go ahead and tell him since you aren't afraid to and it will get a load off your shoulders. Plus, he's already mad at you, so if it does make him mad (which it shouldn't), then it doesn't really make a difference right? Just go ahead and tell him and make him feel loved. Maybe, tell him you want to talk face to face and say that you really like him and you really want to go back out with him and you didn't mean what you said and make him happy. Then, he shouldn't be very angry and if he does, well, like I said, he can't get very much angrier. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~ (link)
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Yeah, well that happened to my friend too and she thought she was pregnant and she was freaking out! And another girl, I know, that happened to also, and she also thought she was pregnant and she told the guy and they were going to kill it .. either punch her in the stomach, or throw her down stairs, or something, but you know what? You are WAY too young to have a kid and I know that it's wrong to have an abortion, but at your as I don't think there's any other way without having it, if you are pregnant! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Hey! Umm ok here's my problem: I like this boy named Jimmy. He's from my school and he's 2 months and 19 days younger than me (I don't care about the age difference). But then I told my friend Kaitlyn that I like him and not to tell anyone else. But then my other friend Brittnee hears us talking about him and she's (Brittnee) like "Ewwwww. You like Jimmy?!" and then I'm like "Yeah. I know he's younger than me but I don't care." And then when I'm in class, she sees Jimmy in the hallway and asks the teacher to go to the bathroom and she goes into the hallway. A few minutes later she comes back, sits next to me and says "I told Jimmy you like him". I was pissed but now Jimmy doesn't look me in the eye anymore. And we were okay type of friends (me and Jimmy) before all this happened. What do I do now if he asks me about me liking him? And his sister is one of my friends and I don't think she likes the idea of me liking him... HELP! PLEASE! Rate good for any answer! !~*Steph*~! (link)
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Well, if he acts weird just keep being your normal self and if he asks you if you like him be like yeah ... a little bit, but I dont want our friendship to change. If you don't like me back then it's ok I just want to be friends.
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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks (link)
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Are you saying they had sex? Write me back if that's what your talking about. Sorry it confused me. -Kayla
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MY STORY...
I went out with this guy and i lost my virginity as so did he. we are now not together and havent been for about 3 months but it was just reciently that he is not talking to me because of something so0o stupid but anyhow i am trying to talk to other guys and what not and i was today when a mutual friend of ours came up to me and the guy that i am crushing on and said that riley talks about me 24/7 and what not ant now the guy i like wants to back off cuz he doesnt want to fight cuz he is not aggresive...ok thats fine i guess but my EX doesnt talk to me he just talks to my friends about me and like its so0o fucking annoying i want him to get over his self and talk to me, i have tooken the anishitive twice but it was me doing most of the talking and it was on the computer so it doesnt count. i am really confused any ideas or comments
thank you so much! :)
Lisa "socalblondie"
AIM me socalblondie0202 i love meeting new ppl (link)
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Yeah! Talk to the guy that said he wants to back off and tell him you really like him and you really don't want him to back off. Say that you and your ex don't like eachother anymore and yall don't plan on getting back together. Hopefully, he will realize that you really want him and he wants you to. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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Well, that's gay if his friends won't date you after 2 yrs that you and your ex haven't dated. Maybe though that he told his friends that he didn't want any of them to date any of his ex's and they have that promise with eachother. Just see how goes in the future and maybe one day you will end up dating one of them. -Kayla
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Okay i`ve lived here in *fL* for 15 years..i love it here and my dad has had over 20 jobs in the past 10 years. He wants to move somewhere else like southcarolia...or north carolina..that means i'd have to leave all my friends that have been there for me..my boyfriend that i have the best relationship with..and i also lose my scholorship AND my mom loses her retirement..all for a couple more dollars a month. Okay i am in my EARLY years of teenage years and he`s taking everything that a teenager reallllly needs away to a place where i don`t know ANYONE!...anyone have any suggestions to say to him? =( Plz help! (link)
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Tell him exactly what you just told me, and prove your point that way. Hopefully, your point will get across and you'll be staying in florida. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Lately I've been feeling out of the loop. Like, my best friend, she says some really obnoxious things to me sometimes, and they make me feel bad. And I was going to go out with a couple friends, but i guess it didn't work out, and I heard that one of them is still going. It makes me feel better. Me and my best friend hang out a lot but I always feel like my other friends [ mostly guy friends ] like her more. Not to be egotistical, but sometimes I wonder why people don't like me. I mean, I know my bad side, but I'm a lot nicer that a lot of my friends. I've been feeling really empty lately. I don't know what to do to perk myself up and I want to know how to change, for the better, to make myself happier. Also, tomorrow is my friends birthday and I have this gift for him, but lately he's just kind of been ignoring me. he's the one that still going out tomorrow. I'm kinda of mad at him, but he probably doesn't know why. Should I still give hime the gift? (link)
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Well, I don't know what to tell you about your friends and what will make you happier but I do think that you should just hang in there and act your normal sweet self and see what happens. If it gets worse, then you should confront them. With that whole gift situation, it is his birthday and if he was mad at you, he shouldn't be after that, maybe just maybe your friend didn't get him a present and he will like you a whole lot more. But don't feel threatened by your friend, I'm sure she's not trying to make you feel that way, it's just how she is. If she is mean though, then ask her what you did wrong that made her act like this. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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I'm 14, almost 15, and I'm a girl. I really like this guy and I thought he liked me too. He hasn't asked me out yet, but I know at one point he liked me because he told me..."I like you a lot but I don't want to go out right now." I've been waiting on him for I think almost a month now, and he's gotten me alone twice, both times he was kind of hinting for a kiss, but I thought I might have imagined it so I decided not to...twice, I kinda just said goodbye or see ya later and walked away. Now I think he's hurt by me doing that, and he hasn't asked me out, but I want to know what to do...he's confusing me. And along with that it was my ex-boyfriend who kinda hooked us up. He's the kinda guy who grinds with all the girls at our homecoming...do you think he's waiting unitl after that? do you think i hurt him by being afraid to kiss him? does he even like me anymore? what should i do?
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Aww, just give it a little more time and hang out with him a lot more. This will give him a chance to feel comfortable around you, comfortable enough to ask you out. I'm sure he likes you and he did want to kiss you, so next time you see a moment to kiss him and he's too shy or something but you know he wants to then just go for it and kiss him! If he wants to kiss you, then he'll kiss you back, otherwise he won't, but if you can tell enough that he wants to, but he is just too shy then he will most definitely kiss you back. So I he still likes you, but he wants more time, so give it to him. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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okay well today in sports studyhall i was sittin down next to this kid lets call him *CHRIS* well CHRIS and I were talkin n then he was lookin at my cellphone n i have verizon so u can change wut u want it to say n mine use to say lets call me *ASHLEY* and so it use to say ASHLEY loves you and then CHRIS changed it to say ASHLEY IS HOTT and i was lke um k then i had to go get someone from a teachers room and then i came bak n CHRIS goes i put my number in ur phone book i was like umm ok..but the problem is i dont like him and hes been going out w. a friend of mine and she happens to be on my soccer team too and they have been goin out for like a year..so my question is y wud he do that?
i rate all 5's tnxs (link)
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I dont know, maybe he wants to get to know you better since he thinks your hot, lol. Just keep being his friend and act like you can't tell he's flirting with you, because I don't see any other reason to put your number in someone's phone unless you want them to call you. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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Why do people answer questions, just to say they don't know, or to ask somebody else?
Why do people answer questions they obviously, from their answers, don't have a clue about? (link)
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I can answer that! Because they're dumb asses and feel like being a smart ass to everyone that they talk to on here because they think our questions are lame. -Kayla
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Im falling in love with my best friend. I dont want to ruin our relationship, but i really want to be more than friends with her. We talked about it briefly, and she says she doesnt want to be, but she acts totally like she does. i dotn want to rush things, i just dont know if these feelings are true, or if i should be feeling them. help. im 18 m n shes 18 f (link)
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Well, maybe she acts like she does just because she is so used to you and feels she can be herself whenever shes around you. So maybe what your feeling around her is her flirting when she really doesnt realize that she's doing it. Just keep being yourself around her and tell me what she said to you after you told her you liked her. Good luck and I hope she will eventually like you! -Kayla
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you! (link)
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Well, this same thing just happened to my friend except her best friend didn't date the guy she just hooked up with him behind my friends back. I think that it isn't wrong and you have every right to be mad but maybe you should talk to her about it. I know my 2 friends talked about it yesterday and they're friends again even though she's still mad. It isn't right, but you have to remember that hew wasn't YOURS. He was no one's and they just seemed to like eachother, the right guy will come along just wait.
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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him?? (link)
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Yes! You definitely need to tell him! He has a right to know and plus you'll need helping raising that baby! Just tell him yall gotta talk, there's no way around this conversation! I'm sorry it's had to come to this! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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ok lets start at the beginning! my friend's sister's ex boyfriend is staying in her house until he finds a place/job whatever. so the sister doesnt stay there shes in college and last night he got really drunk and my friend was the only one in the house.. he came in her room and he fingered her. she doesnt know what to do someone give me advice to give her!! thank you!! (link)
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Wow! Why'd she let him do that! She needs to tell an adult or something or talk to that guy about what he did and how she doesn't appreciate it! He shouldn't be doing that when she doesn't want him to! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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