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hey theres this one guy i went out with and we were really close...we said i love you and all that stuff, then one day he heard alot of rumors around the school about me and they werent true,but he didnt believe me cuz he said that over 10 people said all this stuff.So he broke up with me,but a couple of days later we were talking on the phone and he said he would go out with me again but hes afraid of breaking my heart again..and i said "its ok....im getting used to it" but i didnt think before saying it. Then he said "why because of me" and i said yes....then he said he doesnt feel like talking....and he got all mad and hung up. After that we were talking on aim and we got in a big fight over that thing i said and he said he just wont talk or look at me anymore....And at school yesterday he wouldnt even look at me...but everybody i tell that too says i can get better, or u dont deserve him, but they dont kno how much i like him.When we were in that fight on aim he said that he was going to ask me if we can try it again, but i said that so now hes not going to ask me...and i just want to tell him how i really feel, but im afraid i'll say something else to make him mad....
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i know it's hard not to like someone anymore, that you really like.... BUT if he got mad just because of that, and broke up with you because of rumors that is stupid. if he really cared for you, he would believe you, not a few stupid kids at school. so ya you like him, and you feel sad, but if you guys go out again, he'll just keep breaking your heart and make you feel bad. as long as he knows he can treat you that way, he will. he'll start taking advantage of you, and it'll just lead to trouble. so do whatever you want, i'm just telling you what i'd do. good luck with this.
Sierra(arlo)
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it seems like u two are a good couple (besides the fiting). tlk 2 him about how u didn't think before sayin the remark about "i'm gettin used 2 it". also tell him dat u still rilli do like him. add in sumthin like how u feel so bad wen ur apart, cuz its probably true. maybe then u cud hook up again, and thins will be alright. but if he duzn't think dat ur for real, den ur in trouble. give it sum time. maybe he just needs 2 get it out ov his head. then try tlkin 2 him again. good luck!
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Ok, here's my opinion, since you asked. I think you should go ahead and tell him since you aren't afraid to and it will get a load off your shoulders. Plus, he's already mad at you, so if it does make him mad (which it shouldn't), then it doesn't really make a difference right? Just go ahead and tell him and make him feel loved. Maybe, tell him you want to talk face to face and say that you really like him and you really want to go back out with him and you didn't mean what you said and make him happy. Then, he shouldn't be very angry and if he does, well, like I said, he can't get very much angrier. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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It doesnt matter wether he gets mad or not if you tell him something. Tell him how you feel, so you can sort things out. If he justs gets mad and doesnt want to talk, dont go out with him. He's a jerk anyway.
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