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What should I do!
I have a big problem.Over the summer I was smokin,drinking and doing alot of bad shit but know im here know and I want to change everythin in my life. I dont want to be so despreased or sad. I want to be happy.I'm trying to say that I want to change alot of things that has happened in my life.I also want to stop cuttin myself I try to but I just cant.So can you just please just help me a little that its all that I'm askin I dont want to be this way anymore.It's horrible!
So please help me!
-Amanda Marie
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honey, don't let yourself get sucked back into that world. please, go to your school counselor and ask him/her for help on the cutting issue. once you move past that, being happy is going to be a lot easier.
you're already an extremely strong person, you have the courage to tell all of us that the smoking drinking and bad stuff, was wrong. that's the hardest part... now it's just time to make you even stronger and help you stop cutting. i have a few friends who used to, and they said that they would go exercise whenever they got the urge to cut, that way they were getting healthier in more ways than one...
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im me asap!!!
i no what u r going through...not that i did it tho ;-)
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well i've been in tha cutting situation before and i think it depends on how long yew have been cutting... if yew've been trying for a while and yet keepe cutting... that yew should go and get help.. it maybe scarey but cutting isnt tha way... neither is drugs or any of that...
hope i helped!
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Try making new friends. If you went to rehad for all that shit they would make you make new CLEAN friends. LOL it's dumb but it is some way to help. Find some self control. Find something else to do then doing drugs. Go shopping or hang out with new friends. Take up a hobby, maybe a sport of some kind that will take up most of your time, then that should help alot. Oh another thing is start reading up on some of the drugs and stuff you've done and read up about how it hurts your body. Maybe it will change your mind. I know how hard it is. Been there done that. I hope everything works out.
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oh that's awesome u wanna change. I know how hard it is when you fall into bad habits...I know how hard it is to get out. First of all, if you drink and smoke with ur friends, try avoiding that. I'm not saying avoid ur friends(that would be very hard!) I'm just saying if they say, "Hey wanna come to a party" or something just tell them that u dont want to or talk to them if they r understanding. tell them u dont want to drink or smoke and mayb they will help. Secondly with cutting, there r many ways to stop. Put a rubberband around your wrist, every time u feel the urge to cut just snap it really hard...(it hurts but it's a way that won't hurt u like cutting) or maybe find an old stuffed animals and cut it up when ur mad. Also duck tape works, put it on ur arm where its hairy and just rip it off..once again painful I know but it's not cutting! hopefully by these u get the same effect of cutting but it's not harmful. good luck and whenever ur mad just listen to music, punch a pillow, snap a rubber band, or even write. good luck, don't worry be happy!
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