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aight there's this guy i've liked ever since summer. we were going out but then we stopped talking for a long time.. like 2 months? so i figured he forgot about me and didn't care, and i moved on. but then i found out why we hadn't talked, he had to go away for an emergency, and he wants to be still together with me, but i dunno if thats a good idea because we'll never get to see each other and we go to different schools. any advice?
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If he doesn't live too far I say go for it. I think it's good not to go to the same school as your boyfriend because then you don't have to deal with your friends and his friends and blah blah blah
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From my experience with Long distance.. its really hard... If you really love each other.. then u can probably make it work.. but its hard and takes A LOT of sacrifice.. my bf and I hardly ever see each other... but we try to make it work..
If u do go for it.. Call each other alot.. and try to see each other when theres an opportunity.. It makes it a little easier just talkin to them.. but its still hard!!
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it all depends on how much you like him. i had a boyfriend once that i was in love with, or so i thought, and he lived an hour away. we only got to hang out a few times, and it didn't work out. so i would say it's not a good idea to continue seeing him. but do whatever you want, just because it didn't work for me doesn't mean it won't work out for you. glad to try and help. good luck
Sierra (arlo)
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If you guys won't be able to see eachother much then why bother? You've already moved on so it's probably best to completely end it now instead of setting yourself up to get hurt and then having to move on again.
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I was watching Oprah the other day and they were talking about this book called "He's Just Not That Into You" and by your scenario, I think you should move on cause, he is into you, its just that anything can happen while yall are at school or something!
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well, first off it wusn't ur fault dat u moved on, cuz u didn't no where he wus. maybe now ur interested in another dude cuz u were lookin while he wus gone. it all depends on the other guys that there mite be. if at ur skool, there r sum possible guys dat u mite wanna be wit den maybe goin out wit sum1 who goes 2 a diff skool izn't such a good idea. also (not sayin dat this guy iz this way) he cud see girls at his skool dat he may like better and flirt cuz "u'll never no". look at other guys b4 makin ur choice. maybe u cud go out wit him 4 a while and if thins just rn't workin out den end it :)
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Tell him you're not sure because you don't know if you would ever see him. Hang out with him on weekends for awhile or after school and if you really start liking him again then go out with him.. you would still be able to see him on the weekends and stuff =c). Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL
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You believe that emregency bull? Look an emergency would be at the most, a week. he didnt call or anything? I dont suggest going out with this guy again. You said you moved on, so just find new guys.
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