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Does anyone have any tips on how to really project through an entire auditorium while you're singing?

My Choral teacher made us do these breathing exersices, where you'd breath in for six counts or so, hold for ten, and let out for twelve. Also try singing from your diaphragm. (I can't spell, sorry lol) =)

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Hey i was wondering what is high school like is it hard fun what?im a little scared and nervous about starting high school will i make alot of new friends do people pick on u.i rate:-]

High school is a mix of both hard and fun. I just started last year. lol. You should join clubs so you can meet new people and make friends. And, I'm not saying someone won't pick on you, because it seems to happen a lot with other people, but remember rumors are stupid. lol. Have fun on your first day! =)

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How often a day should you brush your teeth?

At least twice a day.

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hey im 16 f i was just wondering wehat r some websites for online hournals. I wanna have an online journal but i dont know any websites. please tell me some thanx

There's a lot of sites. Livejournal, greatestjournal, blurty, xanga, diaryland, and kiwibox are the only ones I know of.

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hhow do u get cool designs on ur advice column.? i dont know where u could get them. if anybody nos where i can get them please help!
thx!
xoxo
sweetheart00

I know a place to get backgrounds and things at. It's really for this site called neopets, but they have codes for anywhere else as well. The site is soup-faerie.com. =) You can also try searching yahoo or google for site backgrounds and things.

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Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them?

Just ignore what they're saying. Pretend it doesn't bother you. I did that and I haven't heard of anyone talking about me anymore. Just talk to people around you that you know from class and things like that. It'll help you get your mind off of them. Skipping your classes will just make it worse. Be confident so they won't judge you anymore. =)

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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all!

It'll take some time. But you can hang out with your friends and do things to take your mind off of him. =)

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I've seen a bunch of people who have layouts for their Xanga or LiveJournals and I was wondering where can I get those?? The places I've looked at cost $25 and I was hoping to get one for free. So does anyone know where can i get a cute layout for my Live Journal??
thanx for the help

For Xanga, I know a site. It's createblog.com. I'm not sure if they have LJ layouts on there because I haven't really looked around it, but maybe you can find some.

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What are some websites that are like xprofiles, that you can put pictures and graphics on? I tried live journal and xanga, but you cant put lots of graphic stuff on those. Do you know any more?

geocities.com, photobucket.com, snapfish.com, you can also use greatestjournal.com. They give you a journal and a photo album when you sign up, but some people just use the photo album. =)

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Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss

I'm the same way! I started 9th grade last year and I was scared to death of not making new friends. Just be yourself. Someone who has your classes will eventually come around to being your friend. =) People I didn't even really like were in my class (we had 5 classes all together both semesters) and they turned out to be my friends. We had two small classes though (8 people lol) and I think that made us bond more and stuff. Good luck with meeting new people! =)

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Does anybody have any good ideas for cool clothes you can make yourself?

Try cutting up some old shirts and make them look like the styles you see now. You could also add patches or gemstones to pants and make them creative. =)

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Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day.

Nope. You need at least three meals a day. One meal a day just slows down your metabolism and will make you gain weight. You might wanna consider eating three meals a day from now on.

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ok ima be a freshman this year n im afraid i wont fit in!!! i was 1 of da most popular girl in middle skool but now its high skool!!! i have friends in h.s but i dunno im just afraid! like the reason i got to were i was, was bcuz of my ex-boyfriend..(the typical bad-ass,hot populat guy)well im afraid of losing everything i have right now cuz like ima be in LA, NY n puero rico for da rest of da summa n i wont be able to be with my friends n stuff.... wut should i be prepared for in h.s?

Don't worry about it. You should have some friends that are going to be freshman as well, right? Well, hang with them. You should still be as popular as you were. And since you'll be away most of the summer, you should get your friends phone or cell numbers and addresses so you can keep in contact with them.

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i'm 13 and all i ever want is to sing and listen to music. I really want to get alot better but besides lessons idk how. i just want to be a good singer that people want to hear.
how do i do that?

Take lessons, get into Choral/Chorus class (if your school has one) and just sing whenever you can. =)

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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly?

I just went through it last year and it flew by. It's was all right, the teachers were more strict than the ones in middle school. I almost failed a couple of classes, but I hope you won't have that problem. =)

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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hang out with her everyday until she moves. You should also get her address and phone number so you guys can keep in touch. =)

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ok well my brother is 15 and he just moved to our house from his dads. My best friend is not allowed to come over because my mom is worried they are going to do stuff (if ya kno wat i mean) anywayz she is 13 and brother wouldnt do that. wat should i do?!? thanx 4 the help!!

xoxo,
me

It may be because your mom doesn't know that much about your brother since he just moved in. You should explain to your mom that you know he won't do anything bad with your friend. He and your mom can work out a deal like his door stays open if they're in his room or something like that. I hope it all works out for you all. =)

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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone.

Don't be scared to go alone. This trip will give you a chance to meet the people from the church and enjoy the camp at Florida. From what I've heard, church camps are very fun. And if your cousin's going, it might give her a chance to get to know you better. =)

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ok , im 14 yrs. old and i have NEVER had a boyfriend in my life . i have never even kisses a guy before . is that strange ? i know alll my friends have had many b/f's . but i havent . i lie to them telling them i have . i cant say i havent cuz then they would talk shit about me . can anyone please answer my question!!??

Don't worry, there's lots of girls who are your age who haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed. I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend either, and I'm your age. You shouldn't lie though to your friends. They deserve the truth. But just tell them something like "Don't think of me different because I've never had a boyfriend."

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im 13 and 5'4 and weigh 108.. is that ok?

Yep. =)

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