ok , im 14 yrs. old and i have NEVER had a boyfriend in my life . i have never even kisses a guy before . is that strange ? i know alll my friends have had many b/f's . but i havent . i lie to them telling them i have . i cant say i havent cuz then they would talk shit about me . can anyone please answer my question!!??
JayJay answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:06 pm: Hey listen my sister has never either , only because she bets up on them alot but if u just be ur self guys might notice u, trust me it works on me aloot!!!! HOPE this helped , any more details go to my column and tell me Jenipher [ JayJay's advice column | Ask JayJay A Question ]
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:43 pm: No its not strange.Try bein more open.If u like a guy tell him that u like him.Or just get to kno him.=) much <3
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:06 pm: It's perfectly normal, m'dear. I didn't get my first kiss until I was a freshman. I was fourteen, and I'm normal...well, as normal as I can get, lol.
It's fine not to have had a boyfriend, and you have nothing to worry about. So you haven't gone out with a bunch of idiots and had your heart broken...Oh, my. What a huge loss. Trust me, you're not missing much. Lol. Don't worry so much about normality.
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
drpeppaqueen18 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:57 pm: Theres nothing wrong with dat. its just prolly not ur thing. if day talk shit about u den they rn't real friends!! just tell dem da truth and if day do dat den tell dem to screw off!! hope i helped!!
~Amy~ [ drpeppaqueen18's advice column | Ask drpeppaqueen18 A Question ]
lynx_wings answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:20 pm: I'm also 14 years old, and like you, I've never had a boyfriend either. Not even close.
If they're really your friends, they won't say bad thing about you. Tell your closest friends, and, if you're really embarassed, ask them not to tell anyone. [ lynx_wings's advice column | Ask lynx_wings A Question ]
xo_underneath answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:18 pm: Don't worry, there's lots of girls who are your age who haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed. I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend either, and I'm your age. You shouldn't lie though to your friends. They deserve the truth. But just tell them something like "Don't think of me different because I've never had a boyfriend." [ xo_underneath's advice column | Ask xo_underneath A Question ]
dancer_freak05 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 1:46 pm: It is not strange that you havent had a boyfriend yet. :) You dont have to lie to your friends, and im shure if they were good friends they wouldnt talk bad about you... Some people are just "late bloomers" Guess what, I didnt have my first REAL kiss until I was 15..... It will come when the times right... If your shy, then that could be part of the problem too because I was also shy.. Just learn to suck it up. :) [ dancer_freak05's advice column | Ask dancer_freak05 A Question ]
~AshHedgepath~ answered Saturday July 3 2004, 1:38 pm: It is a bit odd that yuo haven't had one boyfriend, but a lot of girls your age havent. it just means you are going to wait and get the right guy, and not waste your time with childish relationships. thats very mature. o and not many girls your age have has kisses [ ~AshHedgepath~'s advice column | Ask ~AshHedgepath~ A Question ]
AskSpanky answered Saturday July 3 2004, 1:37 pm: Well your 'friends' really aren't friends if they'd talk about you behind your back just because you haven't had a boyfriend. Tell them about it, then ditch the ones that are stupid about it.
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