ok well my brother is 15 and he just moved to our house from his dads. My best friend is not allowed to come over because my mom is worried they are going to do stuff (if ya kno wat i mean) anywayz she is 13 and brother wouldnt do that. wat should i do?!? thanx 4 the help!!
cowgurl answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:34 pm: talk to ur mom. Tell her u will be with ur friend at all times and then sit her down with ur brother and let him tell her that he wouldnt do sumthing like that. Im not saying this will work, cuz my mom is the same but hey, its worth a shot! good luck!
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xo_underneath answered Sunday July 4 2004, 2:46 am: It may be because your mom doesn't know that much about your brother since he just moved in. You should explain to your mom that you know he won't do anything bad with your friend. He and your mom can work out a deal like his door stays open if they're in his room or something like that. I hope it all works out for you all. =) [ xo_underneath's advice column | Ask xo_underneath A Question ]
StArLiTeStArBrItE08 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 8:27 pm: Hey...
Well, I am assuming your brother and your best friend go out as bf/gf rite? I know what you mean when you say your mom is worried they will do stuff. I am shure that they wouldn't because of their ages. If your brotha really likes your best friend, then he won't push her to do anything she doesn't want to do. I would suggest talking to your mom and having a heart-to-heart. Tell her how you really feel. Let her know that the relationship between your brother and your best friend is more of a friendship than boyfriend/girlfriend. Make shure she understands that he wouldn't make her feel uncomfortable in any way. I know that your brother and your best friend are probably pretty close and are just more of a hang-out couple. If this doesn't help much try talking to your brother about it and having him convince your mom that what's going on between the two of them is nothing too intimate(if you know what I mean!) I hope this helps..and please rate me! Thanks gurl!**Let me kno what happens and good luck!!**~Come to me anytime for advice!~
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cowsoink answered Saturday July 3 2004, 8:26 pm: My advice is to try to explain to your mother how your bro wouldn't do that. Have your brother explain to her how he wouldn't do stuff like that to a 13 year old girl. She should understand if you went through all that to tell her. I sure hope your friend can come over soon and she'll feel comfterable about it. Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~ [ cowsoink's advice column | Ask cowsoink A Question ]
SexyHal answered Saturday July 3 2004, 7:51 pm: talk to your brother about it and ur friend and then i think yall should all three go talk to your mom and explain to her that they arent going to do nething and that u would like to be able to have ur friend over sometimes and if she still doesnt think its a good idea then ask her if ur friend can come over a day that ur brother isnt there good luck
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dancestar24701 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 7:11 pm: Have your brother talk to your mom so she knows that nothing would happen between them and that he wouldnt even think of doing that!
AmericanBeauty answered Saturday July 3 2004, 6:11 pm: Talk to your mom and say thatu know ur friend wouldnt do that, ecspecially in ur house!! Tell ur mom she shouldnt be so judgmental of ur friends. Tell her u pick friends, not sluts and that you can trust them!!!! Hope i helped!
XoTruebrunettExO answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:45 pm: explain to your mom that they're not going to do stuff, that you pick better friends than that and no one would do that when everyone else is home .. & tell her that your best friend was your bestfriend before he moved in and you want her as your friend still even though he has moved in.. tell her that it doesn't effect your friend and him moving in shouldn't get in between your friendship.
Hillarie answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:40 pm: Well that's kind of wierd. She's your best friend! She should be able to come over no matter what. Tell your mom your brother wouldnt do something like that. [ Hillarie's advice column | Ask Hillarie A Question ]
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:37 pm: Tell your mom that ur brother wouldnt do that.I think its kinda wierd that ur BFF cant come ova anymore jus cuz ur brother is movin in.Good luck!
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