My best friend Julz is goin out w/ my favorite cousin Jon!! Julz is turning 14 in october and Jon is turning 13 this september. i really hate them goin out, cuz he's changed ever since they started goin out!! they broke up and they just got back together!! i dont wanna tell julz that i cant stand it cuz she's my best friend and she'll get mad, but i think i have to. ive talked to jon about it but they like eachother so much!! what should i do?? --Chels
p.s. please help me out here cuz i give you guys advice!! return the favor lol
LykViolencUhavMe answered Saturday July 3 2004, 7:39 pm: well u really have no place breaking them up but telling them that it makes you uncomfortable is fine. when you tell your friend just tell her how he acts different and how it bothers you and not that you dont want them to be happy but it really bothers you. u have a right to say it bothers you but you do have to respect their desicion especially if its ur best friend. u should never do anything that would ruin her happiness just for your own. [ LykViolencUhavMe's advice column | Ask LykViolencUhavMe A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:50 pm: Unless there is a huge reason why they shouldn't be going out, other then you don't like it (and write otherwise in my inbox if there is) ,but if not then i think that you should just let them be with each other.. i mean if they really like each other, why do you want to ruin it for them? if you do talk to your friend, what if she breaks up with him and they could have something great, and also she could go another way and get mad at you about it, cuz if you don't have a reason other then you don't like it then i don't think she'll react the way you want her to (breaking up with him) she will consider your feelings, but if she's got a guy she really likes she probably will stay with him.
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Saturday July 3 2004, 5:35 pm: I think you should try talkin to her bout it.I dont really think its her fault tho (Not sayin that u think that).But ya see wut happens.
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