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I have this friend and him and i are real close. Like good friends you know and i dont want to do anything to ruin it and i dont think he does either. Everytime i talk to him he seems like he wants to tell me something but i cant quite figure it out. Everytime i talk to him i want to shout I LOVE YOU to him a million times for no reason. I dont think i have feelings like "relationship" wise but then again i love him so much. I have no clue on how i am feeling or what he needs to tell me. what should i do?

He might want to tell you that he likes you, but doesn't know quite how to say it. You should tell him that you like him and let him know how you feel. Say you don't want to ruin your friendship though, and if he doesn't like you back then it's ok. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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I have a best friend. He is going to be 18 and im only 15 and 1/2. I fell madly in love with him but my parents say hes too old for me. So no one knows I love him as more then a friend. I dont know if i should tell him, he might not return the feeling. even if he does return the feeling, theres my parents. so should i not tell anyone?

Somebody is never too old or too young for you. Your parents can't necessarily control who you're in love with. I would say that you tell him that you've liked him for awhile and say that you just thought he had to know. If he doesn't return the feeling then it's ok, at least you tried and now he knows how you feel about him so this problem won't come up in the future. If he returns the feeling though, you should talk to your parents about how much you like him and that age doesn't matter. If they don't listen then you could consider seeing him without your parents knowing or saying you're just seeing his in the friendly way. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Hey, I'm 21 years old and female. I have a problem. My boyfriend of 4 years (5 October 3rd!) and I havent had sex yet. He is really not that kindof guy to ask for sex or anything. He's really patient and all we have do is makeout. We were best friends for 2 years before going out and he really respects me. I am ready to lose my virginity to him, because after 5 years of going out shouldent it be time to have some fun? lol I have been on birth control for 2 months just incase when I do ask him if he wants to have sex, he will say yes. I want to tell him I want to lose it on our anniversary but I'm really scared because how am I gonna start the conversation of sex? And since he really respects me and cares for me I think he wouldent want to. But I'm not 16 anymore, I'm a woman and I want to do this. I love him a lot and I just dont know how to ask if he wants to do this! We are talking about marriage so should we just wait till were married? Help!

I'm thinking that if he hasn't brought it up yet and he hasn't said anything about it, or made any move then he wants to wait until after marrige. You can talk to him about it, but he might not want to have sex just yet. If you're getting married soon, as in the next year or something, then I would wait. But if you're not then say that for your anniversary you want to do something special and if he asks what tell him you think you're ready for sex. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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someone at my skool started a website wheres theres a list of top 10 prettiest girls and top 10 ugliest girls.. so yeah its really mean. ive been winning for prettiest girl the whole time so everyone thinks that im the one doing it and im not! any advice?? lol thanx

I would take it as a compliment that you're winning for the pretty list. You should try to find out who made it though and tell them to take it off. People are jealous of you because you're winning. Just try to find out who did it and talk to them about it. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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well these mean fat chicks at my skool started rumors that im anorexic (which im NOT) bcuz im 5'5 and i weigh 98 and sadly ppl believed them and now there like "o theres the anorexic girl" and other crap like that. :( what should i do

Ignore them. That's a normal weight for somebody your height. You know that you're not anorexic and that's all that matters. As long as you know the truth you shouldnt care what they think. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything else for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch

You can start hanging out with him and get to know him better. Hang out with that group of friends more to get closer to him to know what he's like. Then I'm sure you'll figure out what to do. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if you need anything! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Okay .. well My Friend is like 13 yr old n weighs 80 lbs. She's always Complaining on How Fat she is like when she's the most skinnest girl in school! She even went on a diet! Now sometimes she skips school Lunches! Im Very Worried that she might get sick or something! How can i help her.. whatever u say 2 her DOESNT WORK! please help me out.. She's my BEST FRIEND in the word!!! Thank u !

I would talk to her parents about it. You might not be able to talk some sense into her, but parents can =c). Also talk to the school counselor and have her talk to her. You can say you have to talk to her and bring her along and then make her talk to her. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Okay I have acne. Not that bad. And i would love to clear it up b4 school starts which is 8 days away. what can I do to clear the acne. Is there anything that actually works in 8 dayds or less. please I need to get rid of this acneee...

I heard proactive or whatever it's called is pretty good... and pretty expensive. Watch tv and look at the commercials they might have some stuff. Leave me one in my inbox if I can be of any more help! =c)
Love, RacheL

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theres a hurricane coming and im rlly scared. we dnt have shutters. im going to stay at a friends house wut should i bring from my room.i want to bring evrything but i cant. i rlly need to noe hurry thanks

Bring stuff that's really valuable to you first. Then grab your clothes, money, any pictures you want to save, that sort of stuff. There's a chance that your room might not get destroyed, so don't count on everything being ruined. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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I NEED YOUR HELP! Tomorrow i have school again and i need a reallly good hairdo. But im telling you my hair will not curl or scrunch so whatever i do if any hairs down it has to be straightened. If you could give me good details or steps on a hairdo that would be appreciated.

if it helps, im a girl, and im wearing a skirt tomorrow.

If you want it curly have somebody french braid it tonight and then in the morning take it out. My moms hair is like that and it doesn't curl but when I french braided it and made her sleep like that it comees out curly and it's really cute. It'd look great with a skirt =c). But it's not TOO curly or anything. But if that doesn't work for some reason then I would suggest putting it up in a messy bun where hair like goes all over! It looks really cool. You can try doing that half up too =cP. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you!
Love, RacheL

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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:)

I think you should wait until you are absolutely sure you are ready. Wait at least a month into your relationship, even if you're ready before then. You need to make sure that he could possibly be a guy you'll be with for awhile. Then if you do have sex, make sure he uses a condom AND the pill. Hope I helped. Leave one in my inbox if I can help you anymore! =c)
Love, RacheL

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Okay, one of my best friends (a guy) is going out with one of my old friends who i dont really hang out with anymore but we're still nice and evrythng 2 each othr. But my best friend seems like he doesn't like her as much anymore but shes in love. I recently discovered that i really like him a lot but when they break up shes going to be soo upset but i really wana make a move. What should i do?

If I were you I would wait a little bit until she gets over him.. just try like a week and a half - 3 weeks or something. By then she won't be as sad or angry about it, but if she is then just try to wait a little longer. If she still is after 3 weeks then just say that you really like him, and then make your move. Hope I helped =c). Leave me one if I can do anything for you!!
Love, RacheL

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what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME!

If you want a guy to like you be yourself. Don't dress like a slut. Try to be funny around him but not soo funny that you're making fun of people and being mean. Just try to be yourself! Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can help you anymore!
Love, RacheL

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hi i was wondering does any 1 know where to get online hugs? like there is this thing wher eu clik and says give _ mor ehugs and i think its really cool! can some1 plz tell me where i can get it ? thx bunches and mods plz dont delete

I know what you're talking about, but I'm not sure where you get them exactly. I've found them a lot of times just surfing around the web. I think one of the places was like funnyjunk.com or something with funny or jokes in it. Leave me one in my inbox if you need any more help! =c)
Love, RacheL

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I really love to play guitar.Its my favorite thing.But now that i play guitar i wanna start writing lyrics and songs.But the thing is ive got nothing.What should i do?

**I love the guitar too! What I do to make up songs is I'll usually just thing about what I want the lyrics to be and while I'm doing that I'll start messing around with my guitar and experiencing with different notes... and usually something comes to me. Actually now that I've been writing songs it's like everywhere I go some new tune or chorus is going through my head and I have to write it down somewhere. Things will come to you sooner or later. You can also try to listen to other songs and get ideas of tunes ((but not stealing them =c) )) and that might work. Leave one in my inbox if you have any questions or need any more help!**
Love, RacheL

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ok well see I used to like this guy named ray..we never really talked by I thought he liked me too but he didn't..soo I just kinda gave up on him..but I still sorta have feelings for him just a LITTLE..but now I like this guy named joe..and we talk alot and we're good friends and we have alot in common..problem is ray asked me out! what do I do? please don't say follow your heart...cuz its going different ways?!

This happened to me before =c). What I did is I went out with the guy that asked me out because I figured, hey maybe I'll start liking him more. It didn't work... I still liked the other guy and its been a year and I still like the same guy. But what I would do is go out with Ray and see if you start liking him, if you don't then dump him. Hope I helped you! Leave me one in my inbox if I can do anything for you!
Love, RacheL

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Okay , u said i could ask u another questiona dn u answered the other one really good. i am a very sporty gurl and i think i am fat but ppl say i am amdd skinny i am 5'4 and i wegh 114lbs but besides that i dotn liket o wear tights shrits i love to wear tight jeans though. i dont kno what to wear for the 1st day of school. i think i am going to wear tight dark blue jeans and a green shrit soo it can bring out my curly hair ? is that okay or do u got something else that is better please help

thanxs so much
Nicky

First off, trust me, you are not fat. One of my friends is 5'5 and she weighs around 125 lbs and shes not fat at all. So don't think you're fat.. you need to be more comfortable with yourself and you'll feel a lot better. But for your actual question I think that what you're wearing would be great! You might even want to put some sparkles in your hair if you have any because that would make you look extra pretty. I think that with the green shirt, it'll bring out your hair a lot. Hope I helped! Leave me one if you need anything! =c)
Love, RacheL

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okay i am on my sis computer again- > i go bac to school thusday and i really need help. I am about 5'4. I already know what i am going to wear. I am wearin dark blue jeans with no pockets in the back and a green shrirt that i got from WeT SeaL . I am getting my hair done tomoorw and i am getting it conrolled half of my head. My hair is madd curly. Ont eh frsit day of school should i wear my hair in a messy bun my hair down the curls or strightin my hair ..
please dont selate this i really need help

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Nicky

You could do a mix of two things! You could put it half up in a messy bun and then you could leave it curly on bottom and see how you like it. If you don't like it then you can straighten the bottom. Hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can help you more!
Love, RacheL

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Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do?

If guys know you like them then they will tend to get nervous around you and avoid you. Just talk to him in the halls or something after a couple of days you will both not be nervous anymore. You'll feel more comfortable around him after awhile and the same will be for him to you. Drop one in my inbox if I can help you more!
Love, RacheL

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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

Its ok! Guys shouldn't like you for the size of your chest! They will grow, probably in the few months or year or so, so don't worry! Guys should like you for who you are, not your size. If they don't like you for YOU then they weren't worth goin out with in the first place. But you could buy a waterbra I guess it'll make them a little bigger. Or you could get a bigger bra and fill lyke a balloon or ziplock things with water but when you do those kind of things, people tend to find out. So it's up to you! Hope I helped! Leave one in my inbox if I can do anything for you or help you more! Good luck!
Love, RacheL

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