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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:)
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hey! Personally i think NOOOO! you two havent known eachother long enough...and well. Just trust me DONT!! Hope i helped ~ Michelle~
PS: please think about it<3
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OMG you`ve been goin out w/ this guy for 2 weeks and you have knew him 3 weeks b4 you were going out.. DONT do it!!! wait a while. why are you rushing? i knew my b/f since kindergarden and we haven`t had sex... neither one of us are in a rush! *hope i helped*
please think about it...
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DOn't do it. Obviously you're not ready. If you say : "But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not." or "Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin?" you're NOT READY!
You haven't known this guy long enough either. I mean, you should at least get to know him more before you do something this serious.
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You're only ready to have sex with someone if you're ready to bear their child and any horrible diseases they might carry. But jeeeeez, TWO WEEKS? You've been together FOREVER.
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if you want to wait to have sex then wait. Another thing is when you are ready you will know. You won't have any doubts or concerns. Don't think that after a certain amount of time you have to have sex. Every person is different I have friends they started having sex 3 weeks into their relationship and it ended soon after and then I have this other friend who's been going out with this girl for 15 months and they still haven't had sex because she isn't ready and he's perfectly happy with it and will wait forever. One last thing the sooner you have sex the sooner the relationship will end. After you have experienced everything with that one person and get bored its over and that could be after only a month of going out.
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If you were ready to have sex you wouldn't be asking this question. When the time is right, you will know it, without a doubt in your mind. Sex isn't something to take lightly, and 3 weeks in to a relationship is really to soon to be considering it. Just enjoy your relationship as is, and take some time to get to know each other. Don't complicate things by rushing in to sex.
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Ok um my advice is simpel... if your not ready for sex than your not ready. You said that you'r scared of the consequnces of sex and scared that sex will hurt. Well if your not physicaly ready or mentally ready than don't rush into sex. Just wait until your absoulutly ready.
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do NOT have sex until ur 100% sure ur ready. and if ur gonna in the future, make sure its with some one u care about and are sure their not in it juss for the booty...you have to fully trust that person that their not gonna go off and leave u and tell everyone and shit...wait wait wait...and since hes almost 18 if u do do it...dont tell ANYONE cuz he could get in trouble...jailbate major... k? be safe =D
*jesikuh
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I think you should wait until you are absolutely sure you are ready. Wait at least a month into your relationship, even if you're ready before then. You need to make sure that he could possibly be a guy you'll be with for awhile. Then if you do have sex, make sure he uses a condom AND the pill. Hope I helped. Leave one in my inbox if I can help you anymore! =c)
Love, RacheL
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wow..youve only been with the guy for a few weeks now..it doesnt really matter how long u guys were friends..friends and relationships are COMPLETLY diffrent! i would give it a few months..to make sure hes not in it to just get some! ((even if hes ah sweetie..some guys still are!:(:()) anyways..you seriously should consider that! but if you feel that your ready then tell him to be prepared no matter what with a condom. its the safest bet! also you should go to the dr. to get birth control before you have sex..its just SOO much safer that way!
((hope i helped!))
x0x-dani
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Well i think that you should wait until your exactly sure wether or not you want to have . Wait until you think your ready, if he pushes you at all you should get away cause no1 should make you do anything you dont want to do. Hope this helps!
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Well definitely wait until you are ready. With most girls it hurts, but it really all depends on your body... If you are to have sex make sure you use a condom so that you are atleast gaurantee'd that 99% of not getting pregnant
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