Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 12:04 pm
Okay, one of my best friends (a guy) is going out with one of my old friends who i dont really hang out with anymore but we're still nice and evrythng 2 each othr. But my best friend seems like he doesn't like her as much anymore but shes in love. I recently discovered that i really like him a lot but when they break up shes going to be soo upset but i really wana make a move. What should i do?
babigurl46 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 8:50 pm: Well ur not friends with her anymore But at least consider her feelings but if he doesnt like her its not ur fault and its not ur fault u Like her boyfriend Make a MOVE go for it IF he likes you UR friend will understand in love or not [ babigurl46's advice column | Ask babigurl46 A Question ]
sarahadelson answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 6:48 pm: Fuck her. You aint friends no more. Or I guess you could compromise with her ass! Have a threesome. Fun Fun For Everyone. God and what the hell is your problem? You vein little shit maybe they wont break up.
xoRachel answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:36 pm: If I were you I would wait a little bit until she gets over him.. just try like a week and a half - 3 weeks or something. By then she won't be as sad or angry about it, but if she is then just try to wait a little longer. If she still is after 3 weeks then just say that you really like him, and then make your move. Hope I helped =c). Leave me one if I can do anything for you!!
Love, RacheL [ xoRachel's advice column | Ask xoRachel A Question ]
sxyxbabii answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 4:26 pm: hmm well talk to your best friend-be there for her at all times n if shes REALLY upset then just forget about it.. its better to be a good friend rather than a bad friend n do shit w/ the guy your best friend is in love with.. just fight your feelings for right now until you think its a good time for her to understand n THEN talk to him about it.. i wouldn't tell him that you like him just yet because guys are guys and their going to flirt n all that shit n its going to lead to more n definitely hurt your friend.. this might sound like abd advice but i really think its the thing to do. a friend is better than a boyfriend--a friendship could last a lifetime if you think about it with a relationship no one "stays together forever" your eventually going to break up anyways and whos going to guarantee your best friend is still going to want to be your best friend? but be a good friend n listen when she needs help n take her out so she doesnt feel as bad n she can get her mind off him for awhile!! [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:33 pm: Give it sum time after they break up... i knO its gonna be hard... but you need to let him have time to himself once they break up... & u dont wanna catch him on the rebound... dont be too worried bout what his X thinks... since u dont talk much anymore it shouldnt be a big deal... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
snickers3192 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 12:35 pm: That's kinda tough. Think about how much you really like this guy. When (or IF) they break up, wait a little, see if it's really that serious. If you truly feel like you can't live without him, talk to you're friend, if she's nice, she'll understand. But if she doesn't, or you know she won't, is he worth ruining you're friendship? [ snickers3192's advice column | Ask snickers3192 A Question ]
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