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alright i didnt know what to put this under. But im going back to school tomorrow and vacations over :-(....for the past week i have been staying up late and sleeping in late like...like id go to bed at 1:30 and than wake up at 12..well now that schools starting i need to go to bed early but im not going to be tired...what are some good tips to fall asleep earilier?

ILL RATEE !

i have the same problem.......
YOU CAN..

*watch something really ralyy boring on t.v.
*stare at the wall until your eyes hurt
*during the day do something active that will get you really tierd
*get on the computer and dont sit in a chair stand up for the whole time your online
*do something with your hands until you get really board then fall asleep
*take a shower for about an hour !!

hope I helped ♥ xOx_LoOvE_xOx!

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hey

ok my friend just a car and for her birthday i want to get her like cool seat covers and stering wheel cover . . where would i go to get that . .would like wal-mart or k-mart carry it??

Thanks!

Yea wal-mart and k-mart have them but they might not be that cute !! You can go to autozone,target,sears[in the mall],etc. You can probably find seat covers at any department store !!

♥ hope i helped !!

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I need a new Screen Name.
If anyone could please help me make a new screen name that'd be great.
I was thinking something along the lines with either Hollister (My Favorite store.) or even something with Wish because its cute.
So, if you could please help me that'd be great (*(I rate HIGH!!)*)

&hearts
Jessy:-*

HOLLiiSTER_LOV3
PRECIOUSXX_WISH
WISH_ON_A_STAR
HOLLiSTER_xOx
HOLLiiSTER_CO.
xOx_HOLLiiSTER_xOx
HOLLiiSTER_X_WISHES

♥ hope I helped !!

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17/f

For my boyfriend's birthday, I got him a gag gift.. and then i got him a polo from American Eagle. But I'm having second thoughts as to whether or not he will like it.. do guys like getting clothes as a gift?

It really depends on what kind of boifriend you have !! if hes a prep or sum he WILL enjoy the gift i assure you that but if hes more into MANLY stuff ex.tools,hardware,fixing things,etc. he probably wouldnt like it !! ask him and tell him does he want to xchange it or nott !!

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alright well im 13/f and still prude.. and there's this guy i like and thinks im not purde and wants to hookup with me.. but im kinda nervous and idk what about..how can i not be nervous and just do it?? i appreciate any help and i will rate fives

I think you should just go for it . It also depends on how you wanna kiss him. You should start off by kissing on the lips but not french kissing or tounge kissing. If your nervous just tell him your prude if he really likes you for what you are he'll understand and if your nervous but dont wanna tell him just take it sloww until you are really confident in kissing him. Besides you are at a normal rate at yor age and its normal being prude !!

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

Scince your 14 I would say you have about 4 more years to go to be able to live by yourself. I think when your around 18 you become an adult ofically and you can do more mature stuff. Still wait till your 18 and then think it through you mite not even want to move out of your parents home.

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I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade?

I know some good face washes against acne and bumps and stuff like that :

*Clearasil Ultra
*Nutrogena Daily Face Wash
*Proactiv -works the BEST

Those are all I can think of rite now.... remember if you dont wanna try any of those you can just use a bar of soap rubb it on your skin let it dry and wash it of !! and it REALLY WORKS!!

hope I helped [♥]

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ya see i am an only child and sometimes i get stuck on wat i should do, sometimes i have a friend over but people at my house get on my nerves messing with my stuff always wanting my attention, don't get me wrong i like hanging out but if there out my house in about 2hours i get bored ya see my parents are preety strickt so my friends are boring and imature
so if you can give me advice on some cool things to do like maybe a list or somthing i'd be real happy thanks
and remember i rate 5's to every one who tries

OMGG !!
Finally a person wth my kind of problem . See Im also an only child ... and i get board with my "me time " too. My parents are REALLY strict about my friends if some one is acting "all grown up " my parents dont alow me hanging with them. So i would usually try some of the thing below :

1. GOO SHOPPING (always makes me happy !!)
2. rent movie (cures the "only child" pains away)
3.get online (nothing like going online and giving advice or playing a game )
4.take a walk or do something active
5.start a dancing,gymnasticss,karate,baseball,soccer,etc. club

thats all i can think of right now !!

HOPE I HELPED !!

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Where can u buy cute trucker hats for girls? Like Von Dutch or something.. I rate!

You can buy cute hats at:
prep stores in the mall
shoe stores suck as finifh line,
footlocker,champion
you can try
flea markets
department stores
little butiques!!

HOPE I HELPED
♥ xOx_LoOvE_xOx

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i got my first period the last day of november. when should i be like preparred to get it again?

You should probably get in the last day of December. It all depends. You might get it earlier or even later!!

hope i helped
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what is the youngest that you, or anyone you know has had sex? im scared my sister in 6th grade is sexual active, and so i was wondering if thats normal? thanks

I think she is way too young. If you have sex before youre 18 its almost as being raped. You should talk with her about sex and tell her to enjoy her childhood being drug and sex free. In my opinion she is WAYY too young. The youngest i ever heard is about 13/14.

hopr i helped !!
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um im not sure just go under GIVE ADVICE and view questions ..which you have probably been doing! haha there are many short questions that ive answered that have rated me high..aww so sweet! haha well have a good night hun
♥ Kristen

ok thankss!!
good nite to you to!!
are you gonna get off or something?? i was wondering cause you said good nite lol lamo !!

thnkxx again and it is wat i have been doing lol !!

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I've been in love with this boy for 3 years.
And we broke up.
And He doesnt seem to care,
he wont talk to me.
And I'm dying here..
And its for sure over.
What can I do to ease the heartache..
anything?

I rate high for sincere answers.

My opinion is that you should try to look for someone else. You can go out shopping with friends(always helps) or you can do other activites that have NOTHING to do with your old "ex". You probably heard this quote "theres pleanty of figh in the sea" !!
hope i helped

&hearts: Suejla

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I have a motorala phone I just recently got and whenever I cut it on it says SIM blocked...it is a Motorola V170...does anyone know how I can get it unblocked? If so please answer this question for me...I rate High!

There is no way you can unblock the security thing. You can call the company and ask them can you trade or get a refund. Hope i helped !!

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hey everyone

whats a good song out now?

some good songs are :

Laffy Taffy-d4l
Fireman-lil wanye
Run It-chris brown
Stikwitu-pussy cat dolls
excuse me miss-chris brown
because of you-kelly clarkson
grillz-nelly ft.paul wall
wen im gone-eminem
chech on it-beyonce
my humps-black eyed peas
dont lie-black eyed peas

♥ xOx_LoOvE_xOx

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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!

I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…

I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?!

I think you should keep the present. If he really doesnt like it buy him a gift certificate as a backup present and if hes pleased with the present keep the gift card for your self (lol)

hope i helped ♥

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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male??

Noo !! there is nothing wrong with liking a boy or girl with oppisite race than you. You should tell your friends what bothers then about your "crush". Sometimes people like that get on my nerves.

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is it okay to wear thongs to bed cuz i did the other day cuz i slept at my friends house and i forgot to change, or is it like, bad for you. j/w

It's not bad at all. It all depends if you can sleep in them otherwise is absolutly ok !!

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I was at work the other day and this creep came up to me while i was pricing clothes for the boxing day sale. He knew me back from when I used to volunteer at the local food bank. He came up to me and demanded I give him my phone number. He got angry because I wouldnt, and then said in a mean voice "just put your little pen in your little hand and write your number down on your piece of paper and give it to me". The nerve!! I tried not to get angry and told him how busy I was. He finally left.
So my question was is this sexual harrassment?

Its not considered as sexual harrasment . Maybe he was pissed about something and wanted your fone number but just said it in a "wrong" way. Anyway if itn was sexual harrasment he would of grabbed you or "touched" you or something so im pretty sure its not !!

ps-if it occurs again you should report it to the police ir something !!

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