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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!!
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well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))

It's only your second time! Your body's natural cycle changes all the time. You may be adjusting to your moms cycle, b/c women who live together normally get their period around the same time. Don't worry about anything, your period will come. Also, sometimes in the beginning, you can skip months. But, eventually it will even out. If it doesnt after a year or more, talk to your doctor.
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I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour?

Well, first there are such things as open MRI's for people like you. Also, if you freak out, they will like sedate you or w/e so you dont move. Nothing to worry about, just relax and stay calm.
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heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks

Ok, hun, its not your straightener! When it is humid out, your hair curls. Straightening it is not gonna make it immune to the humidity. When it is humid, wear your hair up, wear it wavy, or try something else. There's no point in straightening your hair when its going to get curly. Wait till October and you probably wont have this problem again until next summer.
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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

First of all, never have sex with him again if he refuses to use a condom! He does need to cum for the sperm to travel in, but theres something called pre-ejaculation fluid (this comes out before he cums), and that sometimes contains sperm. Also, he may not always pull it out on time! Not only are you at risk of getting pregant, but of STDS. Once he has cummed, he cant wipe it out. Don't listen to him. USE A CONDOM!
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Ok I am starting high school next week except i don't know how to wear my hair? what should i do? i have sholder length stait really dark brown hair thanks a mil

A cute simple way to do your hair for the first day of school, is to put a couple large rollers in it (Not hot rollers!), i'd say about 5 - 9 ( i dont rele know, but as many as u can fit!). Do this when your hair is dry, then take a blow dryer to it, and blow dry for about 5 minutes, and leave the rollers in while you do your makeup. Then, remove the rollers, and you'll have more volume and your hair will have a slight curl to it. Test this out at home before the first day, to make sure your satisfied with the results. No need for more chaos on the first day of school then there already is.
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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

Probably. If shes younger, she probably wont freak out. But, hey its your choice. If your 18, she cant stop you. Marry who you want.
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what does bipolar mean?

Bipolar is a disease. Its where a person has rele bad mood swings. Like rele bad, one minute they are happy and then literally, the next second they are very angry. also, they become so depressed at times that they feel they can never be happy again. people have to take special medication for it to stop the swings. I learned about bipolar from MTV, they had a True Life about it. I'll bet they still show it on MTV2 or tell about it on mtv.com. hope i helped!
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Ok well I need some REALLY good make-up tips! Im afraid that tomorrow, my crush will come up and talk to me cause one of my friends told him i wanted to talk to him and i want to look REALLY good!!!! Oh yeah I have blue eyes, strawberry blonde hair and im addicted to eyeliner so yeah!


I WILL rate HIGH!

Well, for your eyes, what i do is base it with like a beige ish white color, like all over my eye (up to my eyebrows) It should be really pale so you can barely see it. Then with an angle brush, wet it a little, then use brown eyeshadow and put it on as eyeliner. Then on the bottom of my eye i just use a line of black eyeliner, then go over it a little with the brown like i did on the top. on your eyelashes, make sure you use some on your bottom lashes too! then apply mascara to the top and bottom eyelashes and comb through the clumps. if you have large eyes, a little mascara goes a long way. if you have small eyes, use a bit more mascara for more of an effect. For your cheeks just use a little bronzer and maybe a little pink blush. Im addicted to eyeliner to so i thought sharing what i do might help! If you have anymore questions, just ask!
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what does it mean when a guy "eats a girl out" or when a girl gives a guy "head"???

Theres no real nice way of saying this..but when a guy eats a girl out he licks her vagina. When a girl gives a guy head he sucks his penis.
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my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice

All of my friends are super skinny so i know how ya feel! If you think you'll feel better about yourself if you loose weight, then maybe you should try. You're DEFINATELY not fat though. It seems like it upsets you though, so maybe if you loose weight you'll be a lot happier. You definately do not have to though.
hope i helped..!
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hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG

Yes, but be careful! I put toothpaste on a HUGE pimple i had, and it def. made it 1,000 times worse. The toothpaste burned my skin and i had a HUGE scabby like burn thing on my face, it was traumatizing. Make sure that when you put the toothpaste on, the burning sensation goes away. And do not leave it on for like more then 30 minutes. If it is burning you for more then 2 minutes, wipe it off!! Try some facewash or something! Anythings better then a huge burn scabby thing!
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ok..well me and my bf have been going out for 5 months and we want to take it further..we have made out and felt eachother up..but he wants to finger me and i want to give him a hand job..i'm a little nervous about it though and i was wondering if anyone had any advice??

Well, first of all, the hand job should be no problem, juss use a little lube to make it more pleasant for your guy. he'll probably tell you how he likes it (fast, slow, any special movements). Then, when he fingers you, make sure you shave first, and then relax and enjoy it. If you dont feel ready to do this, then don't do it. Do what you feel comfortable with.
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Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol

Well, basically go by the FOUR F'S -- French, Feel, Finger, Fuck.
1st-French
2nd-Feel (hand jobs r under here)
3rd-Finger
4th-Fuck (sex)
Yah i guess you could put oral and shit under third, i alwayz went by the four f's
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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx

OK: a C-Section is where they make an insicion like on your stomach ( i dont think its always in the shape of a c ) and they pull the babies out. You wont have to go through all the long stages of labor and all the god damn pain. You are like pretty much numbed/out cold when they do it. If you are still curious, watch a baby story on TLC .. they have C-Sections a lot, and they are rele graphic and show like everything. Also, ask your doctor. He/She will tell you everything you need to know. Since you are having twins, you probably will have a C-Section anyways to protect the babies.
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hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!

but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes??

If you are on the pill/patch/shot w/e .. you still can have mannny problems from smoking. The effects are not emidiate though. You would have to smoke on and be on the pill for about 3 years time for you to actually see horrible side effects. after 3 years of smoking and being on the pill, your doctor wont perscribe it anymore. So, decide wat you want more .. the pill/patch or w/e .. or cigarettes.
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Whats the chance of a condom breaking?

There's a very low percentage of the condom breaking. Condoms are 90% effective and most of 10% they are ineffective is when they are put on wrong. Make sure you put it on right, and your chances are slim to getting pregant from it breaking.
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wats a cherry and how does it pop

Basically, a guy pops your 'cherry' the first time you have sex. They call it a cherry because you normally bleed after its popped. I guess u could say its like a piece of skin that breaks and then bleeds. But, it can pop at other times, not just from sex. It can pop from prolonged biking and intense horseback riding. I think it can even pop from fingering, but im not totally sure. if you have any more questions about it, ask!
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My sweet 16 (which also happens 2 b my Golden birthday) is coming up soon! I really wanna have an awesome party this year 4 my bday, except I don't exactly have a cool house 2 party at. Could any1 give me any ideas that I could (hopefully) do @ home? (I'm also willing 2 take ideas that wouldn't b @ my house.)

Thx!

first of all, you probably want to have it on a sunny day so you can be outside and stuff. If you say that your house isn't 'cool' you can do a few things to spice it up::
-Rent a MoonBounce (you can get them anywheres)
-Hire a DJ
-Have a waterballoon fight
-Watch a movie
-Go swimming in a kiddie pool
-Slip 'N Slide
-anything else you can think of that would b fun
invite tons of people and your party is sure to b awesome `=D
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hey everybody! i was just wondering if anybody knows of any really good workouts or anything that really work your legs.. i really want my calfs to be bigger (muscular) anybody got any really good ideas?! thanks a lot, ill rate high!

Walking or Runnings really good..or bike riding? If you don't have a bike just go use the bikes at the gym! Those things are really good for your calves.
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Hey i have only gotten my period 2wice and usually get my period for 7 days and this time it is stopping today and its the 3rd day!what is happening?

Don't worry! It's your bodys natural cycle! It can vary how long you get your period. Once you've had your period, for maybe a year or so, you will know exactly how long it will last and how much blood u have on each of the days. As you get older, it will regulate and start to become more normal (probably a 5 day cycle). You don't have anything to worry about!
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