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I have a "boyfriend" we met on the internet. At first all we did was talk on the internet. Then we moved to the phone. he sent me a pic and i sent him one... we saw each onther on cams(web cam) so hes not an icky old man or anything. we've been "together for a about 7 months and im just really confused.we talk about meeting each other but we never really can, we live about an hour from each other which kinda sucks. i mean i saw i love him.. but now im not really sure i do anymore. its just really confusing. i wanna be with him and meet him and do "couple" things and theres this side of me that wants to just be done with this. PLZ HELP!! (link)
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long distance relationships are rough, and if you really love him then you should meet (only if your ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE hes not a stalker.) If you really dont like him anymore then break up, your not doing anyone good by lying to him. Good luck w/ whatever you do..
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ok i have been best friends with my best friend since 6th grade and we r starting 9th...... we were so close in the beginning but now it's like when i go over her house.......she makes up stuff she has to do and when i call its like "o gotta clean bye " "babysitting bye " "watching jerry springer bye". is this like some kinda sign that we shouldnt be friends anymore or something? please answer ASAP (link)
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ask her why shes always busy. If shes ditching you without telling you why then screw her.
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Hey! This may sound weird but please help if you can:
There's this site and its like facebattle or w/e.. you put pictures up and talk to people through it. But its more of indie rock people. my friend told me about it today but i cant remeber t he site! does anyone know what im talking about. i'll rate anyone a 5 if they help me (link)
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www.facebattle.com
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im a freshman going into catholic highschool. we normally have to wear uniforms, but we have orientation on sept 1 and we can wear our own clothes. they said they have to be "dressy/casual" yet approriate, like no skin showing and whatnot. does dressy/casual mean that you should wear nice pants, or can you wear jeans? and im into REALLY standing out, i like wearing stripes, polka dots, bold bright colors, jewelry, bows... what do you think i should wear on that day... without being "inappropriate"? (link)
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you can wear jeans and a polka-dotted Tshirt if you want. Casual means every day clothes but dont go there wearing a marilyn manson shirt all chopped up into a belly shirt or something. That'd be odd.
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Sometimes I feel like my friends dont wanna be around me because im boring- sometimes i just get shy:-/ is there something drastic i could do? or something that would make it easier for me to be the ** life of the partyy ** (link)
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If your being yourself, then theres not much you can do but just try your best not to clam up and not talk. Keep your thoughts flowing and just say what your thinking (well not in all cases). Good luck, IM if you need more help.
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ok im like having a really hard time right now n stuff.
it seems like all my parents and sister do is yell at me and throw sh*t in my face. and its really making me MAD! i mean i cant be around them cause they'll just find some thing to yell at me or piss me off about. and this just adds to the stress of me going to a different high school from all my friends.
i was a cutter, but im not anymore, and im getting really bad urges because my parents n sis r pissing me off beyond belief. im about ready to tell them to f*ck off and just leave the house and go stay with my friend carl. grr!
wtf do i do? im soooooo mad! (link)
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talk to them and ask them why their taking it out on you???! Make sure your not the one making them mad though, sometimes even though it might now seem that way you think other people r btches but really its you (not saying you are)
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i have this guy friend who im crushin on... i wana invite him out to hang this weekend just to get to know eachother more- but the problem is that hes going to start going to our school this year, and is hanging out with all the "hoes". the thing is, im a smart kid but not excately well known but hes so nice and hes getting to know the real me so... im worried. that when he gets to my school he will totally ditch me. so does anyone have a clue what i should do? (link)
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keep going like you are. Going to a new school it would be good for him to have atleast one friend whos not a 'hoe'.
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my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do (link)
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you need to decide whos more important to you. Your best friend or her. If its her then tell her you still like her and if its him then you'll just have to wait and see what happens.
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i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u?? (link)
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tell him it will be better for the both of you. He will probably be mad for awhile but you just have to accept it and hope he can get over it and you can still be friends
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ok..i really need help..me sister liked my boyfriend. We went away for like 2 weeks and then came back. But she told someone that she hung out with my boyfriend and they were holding hands and she said he told her he liked her but he couldnt go out with he because he's with me. This was a while ago but I just found out and now it's really bothering me. I've talked to him about stuff like this before and he said he would never do that. And my sister has been known to lie about stuff..I just don't know who to trust..And I can't talk to my b/f about it because hes away and wont be back until like next week. I've been in a whole different mood and everything since I found out..Ive been crying over it since I found out like a couple days ago..Please help..What should I do to get my mind off of it..And what should I say when he comes back and I can talk to him..And should I trust my sister anymore? :'( and sorry this is soo long.. (link)
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if your sisters known to lie then maybe you should talk to her first. Make she understands that you know she likes him, and tell her straight up that hes your boyfriend and she can get her own. If she swears that shes telling the truth then its time to have a talk with your boyfriend... good luck
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Ugh.. alright.. me and this guy like each other.. and whenever we hangout.. my bestfriend always happens to be there with us.. kinda like.. the 3rd wheel.. sometimes i feel like she likes him.. and sometimes i feel like he likes her.. I dunno what to do.. so if you can help me in anyway.. let me know.. thanks (link)
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Tell her that you really like him and you need some alone to with him if your ever going to know if he really likes you! If you dont feel comfortable doing that then plan things with him when you know shes busy, like if she has a soccer game, then ask him if he can come over. Good luck!
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So, my brother's just found out that his girlfriend of 2 years, has been cheating on him for the last 4 months of their relationship. He's really down and I want to help him smile and be happy again. He's always there for me and helping me smile when I'm really down. I want to be there for him but I don't know what to do or say. Help? (link)
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get him out there and hanging with his friends a lot. The more hes out there the better the chance of him finding a new gf.
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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy* (link)
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Maria Mena- She was on Mtv for a bit and shes got some cool songs that most girls like. She became famous this year.
Switchfoot- u should check out their first CD, its cool.
Then theres.. the cure, jets to brazil, boys night out, and SOoooo much more.. IM me if you wanna hear more..
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i need to know some really great websites that I can go to to get some ideas for really cute hairstyles. i'm trying to experiment this year and i really need a website with like pictures and directions on how to do your hair!! if you can help in any way, please do!! please answer this!!!!! (link)
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www.themunsters.com their hott
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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do? (link)
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Hmm.. well you should totally molest him back. Good luck with that.
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i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?
sorry that was so confusing.
if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up. (link)
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You should deffinately go for Nathan. He is the one that you want more, and the one that you think about all the time. Dont ask out michael just because you can, ask out nathan because you like him and you cant stop thinking about him. Good luck, i hope he says yes!!
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im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
i rate well! (link)
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If you feel you know the guy your going to have sex with really well (like you should) then you would know that even if you looked like missy elliott he'd love you and except your body. Maybe before you check if someone else is cool with your body you should make sure you are. Good luck w/ whatever it is your gonna do..
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I broke up wit my boyfriend and I still love him to death.. And i cant stop but I broke up wit him cuz of parental reasons ** He's 15 and im 13 ** Now all i do is think of him... But what makes me feel worse is that he was cring the whole day :-( i dont know what to do.. Cuz If i didnt break up wit him i would get into troble, loose my trusts from my parents and never get to see him or talk to him.. But now that i broke up wit him i can talk to him and see him :-(
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you made the right choice, just remind him that this was the only way you two would ever beable to talk, or do anything. Maybe when your alittle older your parents will let you go out with him again if they see how good of friends you guys have been even though you wouldnt be dating. good luck
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In December my dad lost his job. But about a month later became self employed. By then my mom had been suspecting that hes cheating on her... now my mom has confroted him about it((about 3 months ago)) and he has admitted to having a "friendship" whith the lady.He tells my mom that hes nothin with her JUST friends. So my mom asked him to please tell her to stop callin and to just loose all contact.Thing is my mom tells me everything and my dad has always been a role model to me... well mom and i went to his work when he wasnt there and set up a caller id well we found out that shes still callin at like 1am and 2am when hes sopposly painting a car. Sometimes dad doesnt come home till 3 or so. I see how this effects my mom who literally does EVERYTHING in the house and it makes me ANGRY! She crys constantly only shes like me and shell hide before she crys. Well ive been catching her and it hurts me soo much soo then i get really mad at my dad and sometimes all i want to do is Scream in his face and kick him out of the house! I want to tell him to please leave the lady hes having an affair with but i dont know how i dont want him gettin mad at me. Thats when my whole "indenil" stage pops up! i start to think that hes not and when she brings it up i get fusturated and ignore her or justr say some rude comment. Which makes her cry more! I just wanna know what to do without making my dad mad and my mom cry... should i write him a letter telling him how i feel???? ALSO my mom says she doesnt want me talkin to him about it but its effect my relationship with him... WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?
Ps. i have a boifriend and hes really supportive about this he gives me a shoulder to cry on and a ear to listen to me with but i feel like i cant be happy with my mom goin through her problems cause i feel like im rubbing it in her face HELP ME.....
Backed up in a corner (link)
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I've been in a situation like this with my parents. Now you just have to realize that your dad is the one doing something wrong. Your mom must feel totally abandoned and unwanted. You have to try your best to be there for her bcuz you have your boyfriend to talk to, but she doesnt have anyone. Tell your dad how you feel this is ruining the relationship of all three of you, and anything else your feeling. Good luck and i hope things are alot better for you and your mom.
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im 14 nd i like this kid nd i know he really likes me, i think im ready to have sex but im not sure if my body is developed enough physically, i dunno if hes gunna be like omg, this gurl isnt full grown yet,ive gotten my period foir a year can u help me? (link)
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Until YOU are like 110% sure your ready to have sex, (and right now i dont know if you are bcuz you are asking us if you are) you probably shouldn't. You'll know when your ready. good luck in what you choose to do!
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