Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 10:07 pm
I have a "boyfriend" we met on the internet. At first all we did was talk on the internet. Then we moved to the phone. he sent me a pic and i sent him one... we saw each onther on cams(web cam) so hes not an icky old man or anything. we've been "together for a about 7 months and im just really confused.we talk about meeting each other but we never really can, we live about an hour from each other which kinda sucks. i mean i saw i love him.. but now im not really sure i do anymore. its just really confusing. i wanna be with him and meet him and do "couple" things and theres this side of me that wants to just be done with this. PLZ HELP!!
the_haha_boat answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:23 am: long distance relationships are rough, and if you really love him then you should meet (only if your ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE hes not a stalker.) If you really dont like him anymore then break up, your not doing anyone good by lying to him. Good luck w/ whatever you do.. [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
AskMeL123 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:59 pm: Ok...I'm not quite sure that I would call this guy your "boyfriend". I mean maybe someone that you are "talking" to, but not someone that you are seriously dating. Shouldn't be that hard to break up with him since you've never actually met him yet, but I DO understand how feelings could be caught. Just let him know that you are kind of having second thoughts about the situation and that you'd honestly, meet and see how things go from there. Otherwise, if you feel that your heart isn't with it, let him know that you don't want to persue anything anymore. Best of luck with whatever you do. *Melissa* [ AskMeL123's advice column | Ask AskMeL123 A Question ]
SweetiePie777 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:01 pm: If you know you are never ever going to meet your hottie, be done with it. What good is having a boyfriend if you can't even see him? If you can meet him, go ahead and meet him. spend a day together or something and see how it goes. Hope i helped!!!
~Cayd [ SweetiePie777's advice column | Ask SweetiePie777 A Question ]
*tasha* answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 10:55 pm: Well don't waste your time w/ him if you KNOW that you will never meet cuz that would be stupid.And if you really LOVE him adn think you will meet up soon then just make it happen!GOOD LUCK!
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