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if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman.
have you ever asked him why you guys havent had sex in awhile? i dont know what to say to that.. i guess if that ever happens again, and he comes up with new things to do in bed, ask him whered he learn that from.. but not in a suspicious manner, try asking it excitedly. if hes been with another woman, you might catch his bluff.
Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
first, i think you should ask your best friend how he'd feel if you told him that you like her. dont do it too quickly, wait it out for a couple days or so. if he doesnt like the fact that you have feelings for this girl, then i think maybe you shouldnt ask this grl out bc that would destroy the friendship you and him have. if hes alright with it, tell him that you want to ask her out and you wanted to go to him about it first because you respect him
what does eating butt taste like?
you should fuckin know, HENTHIA!!!!!! i heard that was your expertise
hi how do i make a picture smaller? im trying to upload one, but it says its larger than 15. how can i make it smaller?
you have to go into the photoshop where your picture is located at and resize the image
I'm 13, and I am 5`1. Is there any ways I can grow taller? I heard that after you get your period, you stop growing, but i want to keep growing, because I got mine at an early age (9). My mom said that Yoga will add PLENTY of inches (maybe up to 5`6) , but is there another way that I can get taller? Thanks.
you definitely dont stop growing at thirteen. dont worry too much about it. you have up until youre abouy 18 to stop growing. periods dont effect growth too much
hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal?
yeah thats normal.. but dont go sticking your fingers up there, that can cause an infection cause hands are dirty and they have lots of bacteria on them
This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!
yeah you should. it would be the right thing to do, to pay your respects. especially since you knew him and everything.
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
its quite obvious that this guy only wants you for sex. yeah, he sounds like a fuckin asshole. first of all, if that dude said that shit to me, i would literally punch him in the fuckin lip. secondly, i believe that you should keep your legs closed up until you find the right guy who loves you for who you are and not for having a hole between your legs. this guy is definitely not worth it baby girl. find some one who will appreciate you for who you are
see , my boyfriend and I stayed up until 3:54am last night and he emailed me today and I was talking to my other friend that is a boy on my AIM and he said that my pics that I showed him was just nice and HE needed time alone and It hurt my feelings!!!
What do I do?!
well, i guess your boyfriend is jealous at the fact that you were showing pictures of you to another guy. maybe you should talk to him about it and make him feel more secure of your feelings towards him so he doesnt think that anything is going on with you and that other guy
when a girl orgasms....does that mean she cums also?
lol yeah pretty much. a female doesnt "cum" the same way that a guy does. youd release liquid but its not white like guys and it doesnt just squirt out or anything. its like your wet, but extremely wet. well not extremely extremely, just extremely extremely if you get that mutiple orgasm shit. now thats that shit right there ;D
if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing.
i dont think thatd be weird at all. i mean if they know you have sex and everything already, and youve had an orgasm before, then why not tell them when they ask? i dont think a person would make fun of you for that. its not like its a bad thing lol. orgasms are fuckin awesome ;D
whats a good style of sneakers or brand or specific sneaker that i can wear to go back to school that not everyone will have but still come off as really cute.
im a girl.. if you didnt realize by now. Haha.. thanks for the help
air force ones.. you can never go wrong with them.
or dunks, theyre cute too.
yes, i am now asking for some help in return to all the questions i've answered on here..
what is the absolute best hair crimper you can buy? where do you get it? and about how much?
--i have medium length, THICK hair and the only hair crimpers i've used have made my hair either frizzy, or simply had no effect what-so-ever..
Thanx..xO`Lexi
Also..need advice, i'm here and am willing to do my best to help... Sweetie2oo4
you can get crimpers from anywhere, like target or hair stores like sallys. umm, they range from about 15- 30 dollars.
when you crimp your hair, make sure you spray the part youre doing before you put the crimper onto your hair. that way, it stands out more and its not frizzy.
btw, i wouldnt use a small crimper for your hair length, you should try the 3 barrel crimpers. thats the one with the bigger waves.
Alright, I asked a question here.and most answers came out that i might have an infection. I am soooooooooo scared to ask my mosther if she knows anything about my prob. Can sumone help?
My ratings are as good as the answer
are you talking about the yeast infections? i never got one, but i know that you can get one of those yeast infection pills or whatever they are, from local drug stores; like cvs, rite aid, wal greens etc. im pretty sure its called monostat or something like that. you can find it in the aisle where they sell condoms and pregnancy tests. so if youre afraid to go to your mother about it, just bring a couple dollars with you and go to a drug store.
how do i know if i need a bra?
if you can see your boobs through your shirt.
i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.
please, never ever kill yourself over a guy. because think about it, once your gone, its not like hes going to dwell over you. hes going to go right back on to dating other girls. you shouldnt kill yourself period. for any reason at all. be strong.. i know you dont want to hear this, but this guy that you love is a complete idiot. he knows you love him with all your heart and hes playing fuckin games with you. you dont need to be involved with a total jackass who doesnt realize that youre something good, and its standing right infront of his face. how many times did you guys get back together? and how many times has he told you he loved YOU but dumped you for other females? how many times do you have to cry for him? believe me, he doesnt deserve a girl like you. you can find plenty of other guys out there wholl respect you as a person, and wont do the things like cheating on you and lying to you. i know that its going to be hard for you to step aside and say "fuck him. i dont need him. and i deserve better," because when youre in love, or think that you are, thats the only person you think about. i dont know if im much help.. but i understand what youre going through and what you feel. just try youre best to get over him. whether its by finding a new guy or just going out with friends or doing what you enjoy doing. please.. just dont do anything to hurt yourself.. trust me, things will get better for you eventually. i just hope its sooner for you than later..
ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can
ill even rate you 5'z
there should be a logical answer to why he hasnt called. im sure if theyve been going out with each other for over a year, that he wouldnt just leave her hanging like that. since he hasnt called, maybe you guys should call him and see whats going on. maybe hes waiting for her to call instead.
My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!
maybe you should high light your hair, or give it low lights. i dont think you could ever go wrong with them. but if you get tired of putting your hair in pony tails all of the time, try straightening out and wearing it down, scrunching it, crimping it with the 3 barrel.. or stuff like that. well, crimping takes up too much time.. but you can always wear your hair half up half down, or in a side pony tail
Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?
yeah, i dont think guys like to be kissed when the girl has that gooey shit on their lips. i guess lip gloss is okay, just not the kind where its too much. chap stick, the flavored kind, theyre pretty tasty. i normally kiss without anything on my lips though. i dont know.. different strokes for different folks