Okay hun just calm down and i can tell you really love him and if you and him were suppose to be together then you would be together right now or you both will get back together again. I think you did the right thing by breaking up with him and i clap for you for that! Your just going to have to do nothing except try to get over him.

-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me.

Okay well you are just going to have to tell him how you feel about him and if he doesn't like you like that then he is not the boy for you! I know it is hard being gay but your going to have to try and deal with it.

-Katie

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Hun email me at katelynmmardis@yahoo.com and we can talk about this on there... okay?

-Katie

"hey what's up?" that is what i always use to start any conversation even with my boyfriend.

-Katie

NO it isn't wrong to tell him that you love him! Here is a poem that should help you, if you love someone tell them because hearts are broken by words unspoken. That is true you must tell him how you feel about him because he might still have feelings for you and think you don't love him still.

-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me.

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 1 year and i beleive i am in love with him and i am also 15! It isn't the "puppy love" because i can see me and him getting married and having a family together so yes i 100% beleive you can love at the age of 15.

-Katie

If you think your ready then go a head and sleep with him but make sure you use pretection because you don't want to be a mother.... Be careful plus if you can trust him then go for it girl!

-Katie

To 69 is when you give head to the boy while he eats you out. You both lay down and do this. He lays one way and you the other way.

-Katie

Okay sweetie if this person is like your mom or dad then there is no way of getting them off your mind. I know it will be hard on you with school and all and your loved one in the hospital getting surgery for cancer but it is going to be okay. If you have friends then have them help you with your school work and don't be afriad to ask them for anything i mean they are your friends and that is what they are there for. Be there for your loved one and try as hard as you can in school. It will be okay. I hope i helped you as much as i could.

-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me.

Yes i do wear thongs and they are okay but i am in 9th grade that is why but you should wear them if you want to not because all your friends are... It is your choice not theirs or mine.

-Katie

I guess you can if you like this person and the feelings are the same from them. There should be no problem.

-Katie

Okay well hun all you have to do is still your boyfriend down and talk to him and you MUST tell him about the party as much as you don't want to but you have to. Your realationship might be over if you don't. You don't want him finding out from one of your friends or his! That is the worst thing... He will never forgive you if he finds out from someone besides you! Hun you know what you have to do, Tell him the truth!

-Katie

Okay sweetie just think this over, do you love this boy? If he does this again (loving this other girl) will he come back to you? You ask him to his face, "Since we are getting closer again if something happens will you be there for me?" I don't like guys like this, but i am having a similar problem with my ex boyfriend also and i thought i was the only girl with this problem but i guess not. You have every right to be afriad of him doing this to you again, show him who is boss and tell him to his face what you fear! You go girl...

-Katie

No that is not a stupid question thanks for asking me... Well what i always do when i am making out with my boyfriend is i put my hand on the back of his neck because some how it makes me feel safe. Plus i also put my fingers through his hair. Just do whatever you think is right because everyone has their own hand places when making out. You can try some of mine though. I hope i helped you out.

-Katie
.....If you need anything else just ask me.

Oh and i was just thinking maybe the reason he feels around is because he can't beleive he has you there making out with him. He is probably happy.

Okay first signs of pregnancy are you either skipped a period or haven't had one that month. Morning sickness, moody, every lil thing you do can make you throw up. Just if you had sex with someone and didn't use pretection then maybe you should go and get a pregnancy test. I hope i helped.

-Katie
... If you need anything else just ask me.

Okay Kaitlin this is what your going to have to do, your going to have to go to school because school is important! I know school is boring and there is no one that is interested in school except nerds! And i don't like school either and i am in 9th grade and i go! Just think if you don't go to school then they (the school) has the right to hold you back (i don't think you want that!) Either you go to school and get it done with or you take it over later! Either way your going to have to face school Kaitlin. If you have a boyfriend then that should be your reason of wakeing up to go to school in the morning... or if your single then go to school and see the boys you like! Find something that is in the school that interests you like a person or something and go because of that!

-Katie
....If you need anything else just ask me and drop on in my mail box or email me!

It is probably not you why he signed off his mom or dad or someone probably came into the room and he was probably grounded from the computer and didn't want anyone to know he was on so he signed off. Just calm down and when he comes back online just talk to him. Don't think it was your fault he signed off. Oh and just remember if he doesn't like you still and is mean to you everything happens for a reason and you and him were probably not ment to be if he is an ass to you.

-Katie
....If you need ANYTHING ELSE just email me at katelynmmardis@yahoo.com or drop a letter in my mail box!

And remember he probably doesn't deserve you kati your better then that to keep going back to the past. But do what ever makes you happy and i hope things go as the way you plan and i am here for you whenever you need me or my advice!

Well thanks Lucy and to your question here is the answer... Maybe you should give him another chance boys screw up ALOT and just give him 1 more chance if he does it again then dump him and get over him hun! It is best for you and him!

-Katie

Hun just ask her, there is nothing to be embarassed about she has been there before and she will probably be honored that you asked her and not someone else!

-Katie
....If you need anything else then just drop a letter in my mail box.

I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.





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Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
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Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
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Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
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Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
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Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
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