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hey everyone im maria and i love giving advice. im pretty good, at it i must say. so if you have a question just drop it in my inbox. lots of love ♥

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What do you guys think of the idea of having sex with your ex boyfriend that you are thinking about getting back together with?

I just want to know if y'all think its a good idea or not and why.

Background info:
It was a nutural break up
We broke up becasue we kind of just got sick of each other
It was getting too serious for me (not him)
He was my first
I wasn't his first
We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
And we do entend on getting back together...eventually

i'm 17/f and he's 19/m

no. thats a bad idea. its just wrond to get back with your ex especially if youre gonna have sex with him

Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy?

i dont but some do.

One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.

She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.

She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!

I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.

Am i overreacting to being upset?

no, your friend is crazy!!! drop her ass like a hot potatoe.

I don't know if I'm going through a phase or not, but I have just suddenly been feeling EXTREMELY self/consious.

I feel SO ugly, SO fat, SO unpopular, and everything else teenagers feel, except all at the same time. (And yeah, I've heard the "Don't worry about whats other think" routine.) I just hate myself. I hate the way I act, look, and am period. I dont think I'll EVER got a boyfriend that's actaully not a geek. I never felt this way before, but all these emotions are coming at me!!! What do I do?!?!?!

believe me, almost every teenager feels that all at the same time.eventually you will learn to love yourself. most of my friends and i have learned that. im only 13. and most of my friends are too. the pain will end soon. just dont cut yourself, attempt suicide, get an eating disorder, anything like that.

Why do females regret losing their virginty when they did? What's the average age that a female loses her virginity? There is no way to get over losing your virginity is there? What if u only did it one time, then u wait like 20 years will it be tight again?

maybe they feel like 'oh my god, i just had sex. i can never take it back no. damn!' thats how i would feel.

im a 13 year old girl and im 5 feet and 1 inch and 105 pounds and i no thats not overweight but i have fat that i waould love to get rid of like a little in my stomache and on my side and my lower legs and i hate it

do crunches and run or jog. youll lose that fat in no time.

okay so i want to make a myspace but i have no idea what to do. i know how to go there and all that but what are some main tips and stuff for making it. also where is a place to get layouts? and when i find one where do i put it!

thanks i know its a lot but thanks!

use xanga. its much easier and you can do better things. and its way more fun. www.xanga.com. if you get one comment me at www.xanga.com/ria_rocks_your_socks.good luck!!

does getting stressed out really give you pimples...?

yeah, but it makes you fat more

i put ny clothes in the wash and i did not notice i put my white top in and my jeans have died it how can i get it back white with out bleaching it? please help

you should just bleach it. it's easier than anything else.

Ok so i have a friend Maria and i have a crush Adam. I have liked Adam for so long and one day Adam telles my bestfriend Maria that he likes her. I am totally emotianal. What should i do? I need serious advice on this one.
~Andrea~

flirt with him a lot. and act like you know your sexy. play hard to get as he gets to like you. good luck

my hair is straight and thin and its hard to do anything with it, but i really want to make it wavy, i want it to look like i just let my hair air dry and it went really cute wavy, but since my hair doesnt naturally do that, how do i make it look that way

use hot curlers or a curling iron. good luck

i need some good advice to give to my little brother, he is madly in love with a girl alot younger than him. she is 16 and he will be 22 in dec. they dont have a physical relationship, that i know of, god i hope they dont, but anyway he has asked me if i think it is wrong to be in love with her. i am trying to not be to sisterly and bossy about my answer to him i just need some advice on how to tell him how i feel about it. i think it is wrong, but at the same time i want him to be happy. please help

just tell him calm and cool. say something like 'i dont knwo if you should be in love with her. shes kinda young. btu ya know i dont care. i just want you to be happy.' good luck

Please only answer this question if you know a lot about singing and have musical knowledge. Thanks!

I've been singing for about 3-4 years now, and I've always been an Alto (I'm a female, by the way).
My voice isn't that great though (in my opinion), even though I've been singing for a long time.

I have a vibrato (For those of you that don't know, that's when your voice shakes a bit when you sing. I can control it, though). My question is, is there any way I can improve my voice and make it higher, like to a second Soprano?

Thanks so much!

i take voice lessons.(im not saying that to be like 'oh im better than you') but any way, i take voice lessons and there is no way to make your voice higher unless you sing notes as high as yu can and every day try to get it higher. its called stretching your voice. you could also taking voice lessons and ask your instructor/teacher. good luck

Does anyone know the song that goes like were goin down down in an earlier round and sugar were going down swinging

yeah its called sugar were going down by fall out boy(i think)

Are ceramic hair straighteners better for your hair than regular straighteners?

yes, they dont even damage yor hair. yeah that means no frizz, do split ends, nothing.

ok so this guy who i L-O-V-E !! found out i liked him by my friend (i wasnt mad or nething cause i KIND OF told her to). he told me he knew nd i was like yea bla bla bla. then he said i think for rite now we should b friends cause i dont kno ut hat well. so im like ok about a week l8er he told me i should kinda of get over it because he wasnt going to ask me out netime soon (that may seem harsh but im not adding EVERY single detail, so trust me it was fine ). i told him i kinda got over it that week. he said ok good bla bla bla. i rlly wasnt over him at all thou. i tried to b nd tried to like someone else, but couldnt. but now he, like a week l8er weve become real close and stuff and he flirts with me like CRAZY!!!! its sooooo much flirting! lol and i flirt back and all. were turning into "cute" friends.

so should i see if he likes me by asking him, having a mutual friend find out, leave it alone, give it more time (ahh the hardest thing ever) which?

thank you so much. c ya

btw-im a girl in 7th grade nd hes a guy in 7th grade whos 9 months younger than me

ask him if he likes you. say somehting like "do you like me or something because i noticed you flirting with me and i just want to know" if he says yes then tell him that you like him too.

Well I have some boyfriend but I really want to have one. But I don't want to ask anyone else also I dont want to look like a fool.
So if anyone can Help me please reply

pick one of your boyfriends (i think its sooooo wrong to have more than 1 boyfriend) then break up with all the other ones.if you cant pick make pro and con lists. good luck

Here is my problem I have known this guy for eleven years and I have liked him more then a friend but I haven't talked to him in five years. I heard from his sistr that he joined the army in 02 and I have been trying to get a hold of him because he is in Iraq. But I don't know what should I tell him when I write him a letter because I am afraid if I tell him that I like him more then a friend that he won't want to be anything more then a friend so what should I do. Please help me.

start out with keeping it on the down low. tell him that you miss him nd that you hope he comes home soon. then tell him how youre doing and ask him how hes doing. ask him to right back. then after hee rights back and you right back a few times you could tell him how you feel. good luck!

ok i liked this guy in 7th grade... and now i'm in 8th grade and he asked me out... i don't like him anymore and (to tell the truth) he's kinda a geek! i know i shouldn't not go out w/him b/c he's a geek... it's b/c i don't like him... i was talking to my friends and they think that it must've taken a lot of courage to ask me that... and it'll probably break his heart if i turn him down... so would this be a good and easy way to let him down?

-right now i don't think i can handle a boyfriend w/volleyball, orchestra, and school because it'd be too hectic. i like you as my friend and i want to stay friends.. but nothing more-
would that be too harsh?

well.....tell him that you apriciate that somebody likes you enough to ask you out and that he has a lot of guts to do that. just tell him that you should be friends for now. hopefully hell understand

is it true that if you were born in the 1990's that you cant egt your licences until you are 18? i live in california and i was wondering if it is true. thanks so much. i will rate.

its not true. they threaten that every year to new drivers.

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