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I used one of those Ink Refill things for printer ink and now i have ink on my hands. what can i use to get it off? I tried soap, doesn't work. I tried rubbing alcohol, it doesn't work well at all.
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put on latex gloves they remove hair dye ink and marker. or rub the glove on your hands something in latex removes it
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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)
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thats exactly what i want for xmas lol no i think its a great gift do it
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Hey just one question, now i know earth quakes and volcanos and stuff like that are caused by the earths 'crust' moving and all, but why does it move?? and why is it divided into different parts, likke its hard to explain what im trying to say, but its just cause this isnt a school assignment so i dont know what all the proper names for these things are..but im trying to explain, by the erths crust i mean : you know hoe they say when to parts of the earths crust go apart, or krash into eachother suddenly there's a earth quake? yeah well ok i cant explain it..but i hope someone out there understands..i really need help explaining this to my little brother. He just heard our aunt died and is asking me a bunch of questions about this stuff..but yoah so 1) why does the different parts of the 'earths crust' move? and why isnt th earths crust all in one piece?
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ok i hope i can explain this. the earth is has fault lines. some faults are older some are newer. the older fault lines get covered up over the years and have less activity. newer fault lines have more activity. on these fault lines are also plates
the plates are parralel. if they slip and cross you get the earth shaking aka earthquake.
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i drink diet coke all the time. my friends say it will give me cancer. is that true? becuase i dont want the calories and carbs and sugar from soda or juice but i dont love water either.
sooo is diet coke cancerous?
what are some healthy alternatines? (i dont like milk)
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im sure its bad for you but so is everything else. maybe you can try those organic sodas at trader joes if the chemicals in regular diet sodas scare ya but you want the "fizz" fix. or maybe try carbonated flavored water. i know fizz is yummy and im a diet coke freak. but i have to add that water is your best friend if you can aquire the habit of drinking it.
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ok you know those white marks under your nail?? like you can see them on it, not the part that gross out but near it, its like a white mark. you can get em anywhere on your nail i guess, it looks kindve soft. i heard its if you're dehydrated. does anyone know what it is??
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calcium depletion take some supplements. lol my mom use to tell me when i was little that if i had white spots on my nails it means i told her a lie lol
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If a couple broke up, and the guy was on crystal meth the night that it happened, and it's likely he's been strung out on it ever since, is it possible that it hasn't hit him yet what happened? Like, he knows what happened he's just so messed up he doesn't care?
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thats not an odd question. chances are hes in his own personal hurricane. people that are on drugs dont really care whats going on around them they only think of there first love the "drugs". so when they come down they may be remorseful but trust me if they had to choose the drugs or the relationship it will be the drugs that win hands down and a person who decides to stay with someone because they are remorseful would only be setting themselves up for disappointment time after time. noone can love another person until they love themselves and putting meth in your body is not loving ones self. so if he doesnt"get"what happened chances are he wont "get"it till you have been hurt by the damages he is causing. sounds like drama to me get out fast!
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I didn't know what category to put for this so ... Anyways, getting to the point. I have oily skin between my eyebrows so I was wondereing if anyone knew any home remedies or inexpenesive products to take care of this, not cover up tho! Thx, i rate high (that is... if u helped! LOL) By the way Im 15/f, if that matters. (link)
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take egg white and put them on the oily spots. its an old home remedy and i swear it works. rinse it off when done.
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alright, so i have this feeling like i constantly have to pee almost, or like i need to pee a lil.. its hard to explain. i guess almost like im peeing in my pants.. but im not. wats wrong with me lol? thanks =) (link)
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sounds like a bladder infection see a doc
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ok ....so ill be like rubbing myself down there and ill get really really wet and then ill have to stop because its like i cant explain but it feels good but weird and then when i try to rub myself again i cant because it hurts i would have to wait for like 2 mins...is this an orgasam??if not then is it normal and what is it? (link)
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yes thats a an orgasm. not a vaginal orgasim its a cliterous orgasim. it will throb and hurt a lil but a good hurt like you wanna keep going but it is tooo sensitive. if thats what you are feeling you are having a goooooooooooood time. let the good times roll!hurts so good lol!
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I've had my long distance boyfriend for one and a half years. We are both very loving and cuddly and act like we've known each other forever, even when in person, we've never met. We'll both be 18 in a little over a year, and we plan on moving in and basically marrying each other as soon as we can. My problem is, he is shy sexually, and myself.. I would love for us to have that type of relationship. How can I get him to open up to me, talk dirty, maybe masturbate together on webcam or the phone.. I have told him I'm open to anything, that he turns me on, and all that, but his response is just that I'm beautiful and other lovely compliments. How can I tell him that I need 'that'.. without seeming too perverted. (link)
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i really dont think its that hes shy i think it seems deeper then that. maybe he cherishs you and doesnt want to treat you "dirty". maybe you should tell him that you are his "nice" girl that wants to be "bad" with only him and guide him into it. some guys need you to take the lead. im sure he wants to make you happy so express how you feel and im sure things will change just dont pressure him too much. and you never know maybe you should have a heart to heart talk about what his fantasies may be and you might be suprised. maybe hes turned on by the innocent types
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hello luckybutt.. im am a 13 year old female and i have had a boyfriend for 2 years... we are both 13 and he will turn 14 in 2 weeks... well we recently started talkiing about having sex.... but... he isnt a virgin..... he told me this straight off and he said he aleready was tested.... but i told him i was a virgin but really im not(it wasnt my fault and it is a horrifing story)but can he find out about this..... and do u think 13 is to young to have sex?
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well, i know things have changed since i was 13 or 14 alot i know they are starting to mess around sexually earlier but to be honest i do think its really young. the reason i feel its too young is because sex has great consequences for a 13 or 14 year old to deal with. i mean if you do it use protection and all that stuff but if you havent been with him long he may use you and the sad feeling of being used wouldnt be nice. also at his age no i dont think he would be able to tell if you were a virgin or not but why lie. just say you arent and tell him its something taht you feel you may or maynot discuss in the future. being that you are both young i advise against having sex with him. im sure the feeling is there and you may want to experiment with him which is normal, but let me put it to you this way..... all it will be is a experiment for him and u because the chances of a real relationship at thirteen are slim to none i mean you know as well as i do that you arent gonna marry him i mean what if you got pregnant are you on birth control? if having sex is something you are seriously planning on doing and have the desire to experiment contact planned parenthood they will give you a year of birthcontrol for a donation of 10 dollers and an exam all is confidential and only you will know about your birthcontrol
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I need some advice on getting my 3 year old to sleep in her own bedroom,she has slept with her father and I since she was a baby.Lately her father & I have been having some relationship difficulties,and she is very insecure about everyone being there when she wakes up. (link)
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wow i have been through that also. what i did is i put her in her bed with a night light. when she would cry i would not respond. it was tough but after about 3 days she realized that i wasnt going to cave in and come get her. if she gets out of bed take her back to bed without talking... make it strictly business. make sure before she goes to bed that she had a drink and used the potty and all that garbage so she wont have them as excuses to get up. then if she makes it and sleeps in her bed all night tell her what a big kid she or he is and congratulate her. maybe reward her with a favorite form of attention during the day for one week of sleeping alone. hope i helped
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Ok. So i just got six new babie jack russels from my brother's dog. The only problem is I don't know what to name the one we are keeping. It's to young to determine if its a boy or girl so plz give me both! I'lll rate 5's on everyone if you follow the guidline. Here's the Guidline...example names:
Boy names Girl names
Spot Ginger
Bingo Sugar
Grizzly Lady
Flash Lassie
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Thank you so much for all your answers. Plz give at least 2 names for both. I appreciate it greatly!!!! (link)
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jessie,jackie,pupper,ziggy,zoey,
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Something really bad happened to me when I was a senior in highschool with a guy. I thought that I had put it behind me and had moved on, but the thing is my tenth year reunion is coming up next summer and I'm terrified of running into him again.
I still get nightmares of what happened. Well he was really popular and I was a nerd. He found out I liked him and basically made sure I would be either humiliated or uncomfortable around him. He never once talked to me but he would wait for me to walk down the hall and then make out with his beautiful and popular girlfriend just to see my reaction. He would laugh whenever he caught me blushing, and would come right up to one of his friends whose locker was next to mine just to see me skirm. At my prom he walked right up to my best friend and hit on her and ignored me. He also treated me like this my first year of university because his girlfriend went to the same school as me. The last time I saw him was at the bar when I was 19. I walked up to him to tell him it was my birthday and he just ignored me and walked away.
Well the reunion is coming up and if he's going to be there I know I'm not going to have a good time, it will just drag up all these memories. The worst part is that I never told any of my highschool friends about this because they all liked him and thought he was a great guy, and I didnt want it to get out. It would just make me look bad and he would deny it anyways.
How should I act at the reuinion if he is there? (link)
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first off.... he sounds like he was a real asshole! personbally i wouldnt give a rats ass how he is and i would go and have the time of my life. ya see.... peopel like that like to make others feel insecure because they themselves are insecure. look at it like this... he may have gained 90 lbs of lard in his gut over 10 years so you may be suprised. so honey dont waste your precious minutes of your life that you cant get back worrying about the punk asshole in highschool that probaly deserved your rejestion. all i advise you to do is go there with a shit eating grin on your face and pay him back with a huge smile and show him you won by being happy. ya see, im sure that he mustve known you liked him in school or he wouldnt have made such an effort to hurt you the way he did. he was a hurtful creep then and hopefully hes changed over the years, but always remember that people can change thier ways but not thier nature.good luck hun and realize that its not your problem its his.
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ok im 13/f and me and my bf have been goin out for like 3 weeks now and our birthdays are really close (3 days). he dosent have money so he felt bad he didnt get me anything... i mean REALLY bad. so bad that one of my friends told him i was crying over it! he stil feels bad but honestly... I DONT CARE! i mean sure it would be nice to get something from him but yea i dont care. well heres the thing... he said hes going to get me somthing for x-mas and i shouldnt get him anything since he didnt get me anything for my birthday. but..... he said that about his birthday present that i gave him, i didnt want to get him one b/c it would make him feel bad but then everyone was like "omg its not going to make him feel bad! get him somthing!" so yea i did.
i dont no if i should get him anything. PLZZZZ HELP!!!!
if you think i should then tell me what i should get him.... i have already heard about gift cars (but i cant do that b/c thats what i got him for his birthday), CDs, music, but i need a lot more ideas!!!
HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well i think that being that you are 13 and have only been together 3 weeks that you really have no obligation to him to buy him anything., but if you feel really bad about it then you should get him a small token gift, something that shows you care. im really not sure what to tell you to get him because i dont know him you do but some ideas are music downloads, magazine subscription to favorite topic example sports computers or whatever he likes, maybe a personalized something from things remembered at the mall, maybe a cologne they have curve on sale at walmart right now in a gift pack from 12.99 to 18.99. at least he'll smell nice for you ...now thats the gift that keeps on giving.hope i helped a little.
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ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..
so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
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i am against abortion. i am a mother of a beautiful 5 year old daughter and i think wow if i aborted her this little sweet child wouldnt be here which is kind of like murder. well actually i feel it is. i mean god is the only authority in my opinion that can give or take a life. i mean think about it if the pregnancy wasnt supose to be it would end in miscarriage. i mean so many people that could make this plce a better world if people didnt abort them.what if you were aborted what if some of the greatest people known to man were aborted like thomas edison henery ford my god we would sure be living different wouldnt we. to me life all has a reason . a young girl may have an abortion out of fear of the unknown....but the unknown may be what will make her stronger for reasons only god has. also ya have to remember with anything a person does there is a consequence so if ya dont want to get pregnant dont have sex .anyways im sure alot disagree but thats my opinion. also i remember in high school they showed a video of of a fetus being aborted it looked like it was screaming and it was being all sucked apart like a gummy bear.so think about that. its just all terribly sad.
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My mom recently got remarried over the summer and my step dad and I do not get along at all. I've always loved my mom and loved living with her but I cannot stand her husband and he doesn't think too much of me either. I tried to make it work with her but I can't keep trying.
Yesterday we were in an argument and he suggested that I move in with my dad. At first I just got really up set that he said that and called him an asshole. But then I realized that it might be a good idea.
My dad is great and he is a good parent--I'm just used to living with my mom. My mom refuses to let me live with him. But they have joint custody of me so can I still move in if my mom says no?
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pray about it hun
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how long after you're pregnant until you become noticable bigger?
and also, if you buy a pregnancy test, can that test only be used once? (link)
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5 months 4 months if you had a previous pregnancy and yes you can only use it once hun
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lovehandles are the uhh "flab" above ur waist and next to ur abs right?
if so, how do i get rid of them (link)
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do crunches but twist as you come up also u can hold a towel in both hands above your head and do side twist and bends also lay off the breads rice and cereal carbs in general.eat vegetables and meat and cheese
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alright, i need a new screen name.
i am open to all options.
i am a 14 year old girl.
likes vintage clothes. not really into "preps"
i was thinking something like
vintagex beauty.
but please help me.
and soon!
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thrift store goddess
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