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My boyfriend
hello luckybutt.. im am a 13 year old female and i have had a boyfriend for 2 years... we are both 13 and he will turn 14 in 2 weeks... well we recently started talkiing about having sex.... but... he isnt a virgin..... he told me this straight off and he said he aleready was tested.... but i told him i was a virgin but really im not(it wasnt my fault and it is a horrifing story)but can he find out about this..... and do u think 13 is to young to have sex?
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well, i know things have changed since i was 13 or 14 alot i know they are starting to mess around sexually earlier but to be honest i do think its really young. the reason i feel its too young is because sex has great consequences for a 13 or 14 year old to deal with. i mean if you do it use protection and all that stuff but if you havent been with him long he may use you and the sad feeling of being used wouldnt be nice. also at his age no i dont think he would be able to tell if you were a virgin or not but why lie. just say you arent and tell him its something taht you feel you may or maynot discuss in the future. being that you are both young i advise against having sex with him. im sure the feeling is there and you may want to experiment with him which is normal, but let me put it to you this way..... all it will be is a experiment for him and u because the chances of a real relationship at thirteen are slim to none i mean you know as well as i do that you arent gonna marry him i mean what if you got pregnant are you on birth control? if having sex is something you are seriously planning on doing and have the desire to experiment contact planned parenthood they will give you a year of birthcontrol for a donation of 10 dollers and an exam all is confidential and only you will know about your birthcontrol
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