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presents 4 my bf
ok im 13/f and me and my bf have been goin out for like 3 weeks now and our birthdays are really close (3 days). he dosent have money so he felt bad he didnt get me anything... i mean REALLY bad. so bad that one of my friends told him i was crying over it! he stil feels bad but honestly... I DONT CARE! i mean sure it would be nice to get something from him but yea i dont care. well heres the thing... he said hes going to get me somthing for x-mas and i shouldnt get him anything since he didnt get me anything for my birthday. but..... he said that about his birthday present that i gave him, i didnt want to get him one b/c it would make him feel bad but then everyone was like "omg its not going to make him feel bad! get him somthing!" so yea i did.
i dont no if i should get him anything. PLZZZZ HELP!!!!
if you think i should then tell me what i should get him.... i have already heard about gift cars (but i cant do that b/c thats what i got him for his birthday), CDs, music, but i need a lot more ideas!!!
HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Go ahead and get him something. Just assure him you got it because you wanted to, not because you "had" to or anything. Make it a simple thing. A CD of his favorite band, some fresh-baked cookies, or a subscription to a magazine he likes, perhaps.
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I would get him something. Just a little something, maybe a movie or a cd. And a Christmas card. He definetly should have got you something for your birthday though. But just because he didn't, doesn't mean you have to get him back by not buying him anything for Christmas. Christmas is about giving, so give. Hope this helps.
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well i think that being that you are 13 and have only been together 3 weeks that you really have no obligation to him to buy him anything., but if you feel really bad about it then you should get him a small token gift, something that shows you care. im really not sure what to tell you to get him because i dont know him you do but some ideas are music downloads, magazine subscription to favorite topic example sports computers or whatever he likes, maybe a personalized something from things remembered at the mall, maybe a cologne they have curve on sale at walmart right now in a gift pack from 12.99 to 18.99. at least he'll smell nice for you ...now thats the gift that keeps on giving.hope i helped a little.
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relax, first :]
He will not hate you if you don't get him something. But, yes, I think if you can you should get him something. Someone in my family is doing poorly financially and cant give out presents this year. She told us not to give any gifts to her family, but of course, we're not the ones financially struggling (thank god), so we're still giving them gifts. I think as long as you can afford something, you should make an attempt to get something.
And what to get him? Well, I did notice alot of people on this website were writing up an "100 things I love about you" type thing. Which, I think is adorable!
Maybe you can get him some movies? And maybe like his favorite candy? That would be really super cute. Or however he dresses get him an outfit from a nice store, just find out his sizes.
I have no clue what he actually wears, but American Eagle is ADORABLE on preppy guys. Even if a guy isnt that preppy, it's still cute. But I guess it depends on what he usually wears.
Beyond that, anything cute/personal/meaningful to you guys. TONS of girls are asking this question...so I advise you go scroll around to find these questions so that maybe you're not missing out on any of the cute ideas.
don't stress && happy holidays
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Make him something. Or get him something really small but sentimental. A picture frame with a picture of you two in it is a good but inexpensive Idea. A mixed cd of all the songs that he loves, that you two share, or that remind you of him is a good Idea too. Take him to dinner, all your treat, or to the movies. Make a collage of pictures of you two. No matter what you get him, make a card and write a cute and meaningful message in it.
Good luck, Hope he loves whatever you get him.
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Just get him something to show you care. you don't even have to spend much. Make him a card or a cd mix he'd like.
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hey! ok well i think you should get him something for x-mas anywayz! cuz yes it would be sweet and it would show that you really care even if he says oh no that's ok. hmm and wat to get him?? well lets seeee....does he like to wear like hats?? baseball, pimp style, w/e that would be good. along w/ that you could do like just something little like gum or candy that he likes or something like that.
xoxo helpachick
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