Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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I was watching a video on YouTube (it wasn't porn) that really turned me on, and I had this feeling in you know where but inside that felt good in a weird way. I twitched a little then felt like I peed myself but when I ran to the bathroom nothing happened. Was this an orgasm? What was it? Thank you for reading this whole awkward question. (link)
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thats what it sounds like to me. the great thing about being a girl is that we can have an orgasm without even touching ourselves. all we have to do is cross our legs the right way. :) congrats, i guess?
take care
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ok so in home and careers aka homo and queers to the guys who misbehave in my class , there is always a bunch of kids ( guys) who tell the teachers to shut up and they tell the teacher that the room smells like sweaty balls and when they get detention slips, when the teacher goes to hand the slip to them, they refuse to take it, and they scream all class long and the portion of the class that actually wants to learn, cant because they cant concetrate with all the screaming and profanities from the guys. these guys refuse to take any notes and they always get lolipops (i dont know why) but my teacher just cant handle them all and some kids cant learn because of the boys constant distractions. do you think its ok that these guys can get away without doing any work while the rest of us kids have to work our butts off and that they can just sit ther and scream like mental patients while we r trying 2 actually learn something? also, why do you think kids are like this nowadays, but back in the day, they were good listeners and respectful? please share all views and opinions! thanks. (link)
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sad to say, some people frankly just don't give a shit about school. the thing about our generation is that with all this new music and technology, we're becoming lazier. some of us, like you, still see the importance of paying attention in class. other kids are too lazy to try or too stupid to care. no this isn't cool, but what can you do?
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OK here goes nothing. I have this friend (best friend) ive known since i moved to califonia. I was 13 then, im 23 now. We're still friends and she has my godson. In a nutshell.. I've done everything for this girl. watched her son for free, skipped appts to take her places. Basically helped out whenever she needed me to. She's helped me out too but not half as much as i have with her. I moved away for 3 and a half years (2 and a half hours away)... and now ive come back and its been a little over a year. I finally get to see my godson etc etc etc... ANYWAY...so ive bent over backwards for this girl.
Back to what i was getting at...Lately i have been noticing that she never hits me up unless its to go somewhere with her.. because she "doesnt want to go by herself".. wtf?!?! ok.. ive done everything but now its hitting me like a ton of bricks. For example: i ACCIDENTALLY broke something of hers that costs approx. $150.00 and i told her i would repay her.. as soon as i can. Now .. not to mention she knows im filing for bankruptcy and the transmission on my car is sitting in the trunk of my car...waiting to be A. fixed or B. voluntary repossessed AND SHE KNOWS ABOUT THESE THINGS!!!! so the thing i accidently broke was her boyfriends and im pretty sure hes going through her to get through to me to pay, BBUUUTTTTT before any of THIS happened.. ive noticed ive been feeling "used" by her..
we all know what that feels like at some point... right??? well im no stranger to it.. just because im a nice person and i wear my heart on my sleeve...it seems that people (even my BF) want to walk all over me.
She is moving with her boyfriend and her son (my godson) 45 minutes away. Now when i moved people would say "oh yea ill come visit you.. " yada yada yada etc etc etc... BLAH!!! yea right!... 2 people not including my best friend came to see me ONCE!!! now she said this the other day and i quote. "yea people said they would come to see me, make a special trip to come out"... i replied "do you know how many times ive heard that before??".. she says "well just goes to show who nyour true friends are".. are you f**** kidding me?... well then honey.. your not my true friend like i thought you were..
please tell me your opinion on this.. i know i may not have been very clear on what this whole situation is about.. but i need some clarity on what i should do. sorry i wrote so much.. this is the first time im talking about it... (link)
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I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL. my friend and i have been friends for about 13 years and let me tell you, it won't get any better. i've talked to her. i've explained to her how she treats me and how i feel used, it never gets through.
what i would do if i were you? just end it. right there. pay her back whatever you owe her and NOTHING more. even if you talk to this girl, she'll never change. people say that they can change, but guess what? they don't. i understand you might wanna see your godson, and you guys have a lot of history..whatever. but none of that matters. you sound like a damn good friend. and damn good friends do not deserve to be walked all over. i've been letting people walk all over me my entire life and i recently decided to make it stop. i'm sick of being treated like shit, aren't you? i'd end it there and then. maybe she'll get the picture and change, then that would be cool. right now, she is not the type of person you need in your life. you have enough on your plate without your so-called "friend" stressing you out.
hope i helped, and take care.
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First off this question is really weird.
I am 13 years old and have a boy friend.
When we first started off i planned to give him my virginity.
we are in a 7 or 8 month relationship(I dont keep track).
ANYWAYS
to the weird part...>.
When i think about him I get these liek feelings in my vagina.like if its being squeesed and sumtimes when i look in my underwear i see white stuff in it(I think its cum i really dont know).
When im with him i get that same feeling but stronger.
Why is that????O_O (link)
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its called being horny. you feel sexual feelings towards your boyfriend. a girl's vagina releases discharge either for cleaning out the system, or when she's horny in order to make sexual relations easier.
considering you didn't know any of this, i'd say you are WAY too young to have sex. 13 is young, anyways. wait a few more years. its not a race :)
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I don't do happy endings. For 12 years I've been exposed to all sad, depressing stories and movies. If a story makes me cry, I know there's a lot of emotion in there, and I like being able to write a story that brings a tear to someone's eye. Thing is, I'm still learning. I'm currently working on a story where a small child finds and befriends an ancient monster. In the end he dies. How can I really cram some emotion in this without making it seem overdone or exaggerated? All answerers, thank you!
~Also. Sorry if this is in the wrong category. (link)
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maybe make the kid fall in love with the monster, like its some little girl thats been turned into a monster and has been for centuries. or the child's parents die and the monster is the only thing he has in the world. or, maybe there could be a "twist", like we find out the monster is really the child, himself, just a different part of him. like, the shy, sad side. and then when the monster dies, the kid does, as well.
i don't know, just spit-balling. :) good luck
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i feel left out of my own relationship sometimes. i try to think about the things i need to do to keep everything in check but he doesnt say thank you and give me a kiss like he used to. i dont get help from him and he doesnt really listen when i talk about our problems i can ask him to repeat what i just said and he cant do it i dont know if its a concious effort on his part or not but it bugs. he wants to fix things after we discuss it and i cry but the next day its like nothing happened. am i not trying hard enough? have i not gotten the kind of communication down? i dont know what the hell the problem is i just know we got one and i cant seem to fix it HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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he obviously can't listen or doesn't want to. and its no help that you're the only one throwing in any effort. its time to have a serious one on one talk with him. if he's going to keep being like this, its not worth your time and tears anymore. a relationship is a two way street that you both have to halfway meet in, and right now you're walking a little bit past halfway while he's not even stepping in yet. i'm sorry to say this but i think it may be time to reconsider staying with this person. maybe its time to move on and let him grow up a little, no?
anyways, hope i helped. take care.
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I am an 18 year old female who is a virgin. If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin? (link)
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yes. losing your virginity means a guy has inserted his penis into your vagina, which you have not.
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i just cant take any more of this life... i have lost my wife,i.e she left me. it kills me ever time i see her when i pick up my kids.. nd when i have to take them back to her.....i love her nd my kids so much but i know its just going to kill me that day she meets someone...i know it will hurt them but in time they will be ok (link)
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this is probably the least responsible thing you can do. yeah, you feel bad now, but what about your kids? how do you think they're going to take the news that daddy has died, let alone killed himself? you said that they'll be okay in time, but guess what? you are wrong. children never move on from the death of one of their parents. one of my friend's father killed himself seven years ago and she still gets upset when we talk about suicide in school.
you're a grownup, you need to stop thinking about yourself and whats best for everyone else. your wife leaving you is very tough, yes, but this is something you'll actually be able to move on from, if you let yourself. the only thing standing in the way of you being happy is you. love never dies. but a broken heart can be fixed.
think for a second, what if one of your kids was planning to end their life, would you let them? would you be perfectly okay with them grabbing a gun and putting it to their head? of course not! i don't know you, but i know you're a good father. family doesn't let family do something drastic like that. i'm not saying to tell your kids that you're contemplating suicide, but tell them that you're sad. tell them you miss mommy and just need a little bit of time and help to get over her. try dating. get a hobby. maybe a new job. anything it takes for a change in your horizon. it will get better, i promise. death does not mean happiness.
take care.
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I have a best friend or so i thought he was and something happened between us and now were not as close. he knows a secret that involves me and he wont tell me what it is about. I know its silly to get into a fight over this its just that he told me he cant tell me because he doesnt want to break the trust of the person who told him. but he told somebody else about it and she told me what he said. So he lied and is being a hypocrite about not telling secrets. this may seem like a dumb thing to get into a fight over but this isnt the first time hes done something like this. My other best friend can't stand him becuase she thinks hes a bad person and after what he did now i'm starting to believe her. He's a bad person and we haven't spoken in a week and we normally text everyday. I don't know what to do. (link)
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first off, he's not a bad person. he just made a bad mistake. and as friends, you guys need to be able to be honest with eachother. this includes you. you need to confront him. ask him why he didn't tell you but told someone else. its the only thing thats going to solve this. you guys just need to talk it out. everyone has either done something or has a friend that has done something stupid to jeopardize a good bond between friends, but it works out in the end if someone is willing to cop to it, say that they did something wrong. and its the other friend's job to forgive them.
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what are the chances of getting pregnant just using a condom? how would i be able to lessen the possibilities? ive never had sex, i have taken sex ed though, twice. also, is there a way of obtaining birth control without a parental guardian? are there different types for different people? do i need a prescription? thanks (link)
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condoms are 85% accurate at preventing pregnancy. to lessen the possibilites of becoming pregnant, you could get on birth control and use a condom. that way, it should be damn near impossible.
you can go to planned parenthood and get birth control and condoms without a prescription, i'm pretty sure. depends on your age. i think if you're over 17 you can without a prescription. if you're younger, then just use a condom and pull out before the guy ejaculated. remember, even with a condom, you can still get pregnant. especially if you let him ejaculate while still inside you and the condom broke during sex or something.
my boyfriend and i use the pull out method. have been for about 3 years and it works well for us, but not for everyone. like i said, a condom and pulling out should be good enough :) hope i helped.
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i've been thru wayyyy 2 much for a young age. And i want to do drugs, cut myself, die, scream, yell, cuss ppl out, cry, i have emotional panick attacks all the time, my grades have dropped and im seeing a therapist, and even tho i recently made a big breakthru i still feel depressed. if some1 wants to rly help me,send me a message. its hard...life..it rly is. My life b4 this was as easy as breathing, and since then has taken a dramatic turn. i live in a violent household, mentally abused. i cant describe it. i have the most fucked up life in my grade. Sometimes i think im kidding myself when i sat to myself "evrything will ok" trying to be posititve. i fucking hate evrything. nothing will change. give the best advice if u've ever been in my place. thank you. (link)
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you know what this sounds like to me? you sound like the average teenager. i've been through all of that, still going through it. drugs are nice, but they'll only keep you numb for a tiny bit of time. then you'll have to deal with life alone. i used to cut, and it helped. then after awhile you have to deal with hiding scars, and new cuts, and then you get thrown into a psychward. seriously though, damn near every teenager goes through the "fuck everything and everyone" phase and tries to use drugs and violence and anger to prove that they truely don't give a shit. family is difficult, but guess what? we all have problems, either from school or friends or boys or family and we all have to find a way to move the fuck on. this won't last forever, i swear to you. i'm still depressed and anxious but its not half as bad as it was when i was 15 and 16. i'm not 18, i've been to two theropists and my GPA has gone from all B's to C's and D's. life is still a bitch and you're right, it never changes. but it gets easier as we grow. not that we've learned to not hurt as much, it just means we've grown.
i'm sorry you're going through a rough time, but some people have it way worse than you. most of the problems in my life, i've caused. maybe you've done the same. and thats just something you have to figure out for yourself.
sorry if this response seems a bit harsh, but i'm not a sugarcoater. take care.
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When I shave my underarms, I get bad red irritation bumps by the next day. Is there any suggestions as to how I can fix this problem? Any help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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there is absolutely nothing wrong with putting some shaving cream there before you shave. also, make sure that the razor is moist, likewise with your underarms. then just add a dollup of regular women's shaving cream and go for it. it relaxes the area and keeps it moisterized. afterwards, you can put a tiny bit of lotion on the area.
this should help. if not, i've heard waxing works really well.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. I'm 19 and he's 21. I absolutely love him, he's my world and I honestly think he makes me a better person. However. We got into a fight the other day over a HUGE misunderstanding. (that's a whole nother story, it's not really that important). Anyway. Big fight right? Well. It got to a point where we were both screeeeaming and I backed up and leaned against a wall. He came over to me and we just stared at eachother for like ten seconds in hatred. And then all of the sudden he takes my hand in his left and with his right hand, punches a hole in the wall. Yep. Clean through. It was about a foot and a half to the side and a few inches higher than my head. I was in shock. Then he just started kissing me! But the weird thing is it was the most gentle kiss ever. I started crying though caus he literally scared the SHIT out of me. Who does that! I screamed at him and told him to get out (even though it was his apartment...) and he did. We worked out the fight later it wasnt even like real... A misunderstanding an it was so STUPID. Ugh. We talked later and he said he was sorry about showing that kind of anger around me. And I know that wasn't him. Ive jnown him since i was 12 and hes never had a temper that drove him to something like that, and I KNOW that but I still feel... Weird. I know he'd never hurt me or lay a hand on me like that but still, it was just scary... There's no way I'm throwing everything we had away over this but what do I do to get through this?? And what am I feeling right now...? (link)
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you're still in shock, sweetie. you know how when you're on your period, you might say some things to friends or parents or your boyfriend that you don't mean? well, think of this time as one of them. lets face it, you just admitted that you were staring at eachother in hatred for ten seconds. you were both extremely angry! the difference between both your angers is that he's a full grown man. hell, my boyfriend was 15 and punched a hole in the wall. all guys have done it, honestly. and he started kissing you afterward because he could probably tell it really scared you.
DO NOT throw away your relationship over this. of course he'd never hurt you! thats why he hit the wall, three inches ABOVE you. when you're mad you don't really know where to put your anger, and men being the alpha species, misplaced anger makes them even more angry and can result in throwing furniture, punching and kicking holes in walls, and what may seem like an abusive behavior. but more than half of them wouldn't lay a hand on their girlfriend or wife even if someone paid them to.
trust me, you have nothing to worry about. like i said, my boyfriend has punched his fair share of holes in walls, chopped down his door with an axe, broke his knuckles hitting bricks, threw furniture around the house, and he has NEVER ever even touched me. just remember, he's only human. he'll get mad. if it helps, ask him to go see an anger managment professional if you still have some insecurities. i'm sure he'll oblige.
hope i helped, and take care :)
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Does anyone have a list of really good anime shows like;
Fruits Basket, Naruto, Inuyasha.
With some romance in it?
Please don't suggest anything currently being aired on Adult swim.
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sailor moon was my absolute favourite as a child. sorry, i don't know anymore romance ones. after sailor moon, all i watched was blood and guts anime ^.^
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okay so me and my girlfriend were getting coffee and since it was night and the noise from the cars and people went away, we thought that it was okay to have some fun . so we started playing on the park slides and when we got to the monkey bars we started kissing and soon we were making out and when i held her i found out she was wet and we were about to take it to the next level and we did but is this illegal because i dont want us to get in trouble (link)
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you're only breaking the law if you get caught, which it sounds like you didn't. and i don't know anyone who puts security cameras up in playgrounds. everything is fine, just be more careful.
oh, and theres nothing wrong with having sex in a bed, you know. :)
take care and always remember to use a condom.
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what is a orgasman and how do you have one ??? (link)
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and orgasm is the sexual climax you reach during sex or masturbation. being redundant, you can achieve it by having sex or masturbating.
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If you say anything about "There's a reason for you to be here" or anything about God or giving life a second chance, shove it. I'm 22, have had diabetes since I was 9, have had multiple sclerosis for over a year, have been the president of a club on faith, and have done so many other things that people have suggested. No one gives a shit about me, and that is that. People who I've taken care of for years don't care about me.Life, is bull shit. What is the best way to end it, in your guy's opinion? The least amount of mess too, I've thought about using my pistol, but then there will be brain matter for others to clean up. What is the easiest and cleanest way to commit suicide? (link)
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there is no easy or clean way. if you take too many pills, your body might eject them from your system before they do the job. drinking a lot leaves you in a lot of pain. too many pain killers can cause pain, as well. to shoot yourself, you have to aim at an exact location of your brain, which i'm not going to tell you where that is.
and do you know why? because if i do, indeed, tell you how to kill yourself, i will probably get into a lot of legal trouble.
and if you're so sick of people and life, why are you so concerned about leaving blood for people to clean? you must still care about something or you wouldn't even be typing this question.
think long and hard before you do anything.
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I am a 16 year old verginis that strange??how dose it feel when you cherry gets poped? ??? And dose sex hurt for the very first time?? (link)
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its different for everyone. sometimes you don't feel your hymen (cherry) being torn. it can happen when putting a tampon in, you could break it riding a bike, or you may not even have one.
sex is also different for everyone. all of my friends said it didn't hurt them, but it really hurt me. a LOT.
just be sure to have plenty of lubrication and make sure you're actually AROUSED so you're not tight :) oh, and definitely have plenty of protection.
good luck :)
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Is love worth fighting for. Its just things are really tense right now and I'm not sure if I should go through all the stress for this or if I should just give it time and let things settle down. Opinions??? (link)
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well thats really up to you. me, i'd fight for it anyday. most of the guys i know wouldn't give a fuck it comes or goes; girls are more emotional than that. i don't know your gender, but i'm assuming you're female.
love can go two ways: good or bad. on the one hand, you could be with a really great person forever. when its good, its probably the best feeling. maybe even better than drugs. (my opinion) on the other hand, you could get your heart ripped out, stomped on, and blended into a dirty, bloody mess and no one can mend it, since the murderer could also be the mender, given the chance. (dramatization. although i've had my heart broken, it is very painful...not as bad as that, though.)
do you wanna risk it? love is definitely worth it, but is the person you're in love with worth it? someone once said "love means putting your heart in danger, sometimes it can be worth the risk)
i can't answer your question completely, i'm sorry. only you can. good luck :)
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it's an older song i think, from like 2006 or something? and it has music like "get crazy" by LMFAO. and it's like techno rap i guess? theres a guy thats singing "put your hands in the air.. put your hands in the air" i REALLY wanna find this song. thanks((: (link)
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"in the ayer" by flo rida and will. i. am.? thats the only one that sounds remotely close to that, that i can think of.
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