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If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin?
I am an 18 year old female who is a virgin. If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Personally, I considered myself a virgin until I had penetrative sex, as did the majority of my friends. If you ask someone when they lost their virginity, most people will tell you when they had sexual intercourse for the first time.
However, as those below have said, it's a grey area. All that should matter is whether or not you consider yourself to be a virgin or not.
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Virginity is a social construct. There is no real set definition of virginity. IF you really want to get technical, a virgin is somebody who has not engaged in sexual behavior, this may be very specific or very general. My point is, you get to define your virginity on your own terms. People make a big deal about girls losing their virginity, but they don't put up the same fuss about guys... it's not fair and it puts a lot of pressure on girls to fit an ill-defined ideal.
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Hi, Let me start by saying I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I am an advisor on this web site to answer questions just like yours so that you get the right answers based on my knowledge and my wisdom.
Description of virginity - American Heritage® Dictionary:
1.The quality or condition of being a virgin:
I would take this to be, for the female; that sexual intercourse and penetration of the vagina has not happened.
2.The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.
My definition of this would mean that you have not engaged in any sexual activity at all. This would mean. Any intimate sex act which involves nudity and stimulation with the goal of orgasm counts as sex; therefore a loss of virginity.
By definition virginity can either be emotional or physical. For most of us the physical act of first intercourse where they Hymen is broken is the definition of virginity.
So the answer to your question could be yes; if you believe that virginity is a physical act of first penetration of the vagina by a penis.
Should you take literally the definition as written in the dictionary then the answer is no.
The true answer to your question is what you believe. It truly does not matter what I or anyone else thinks or believes. This is your body, your beliefs. You can take the physical definition or the emotional definition of virginity and no one should think any less of you. You are an adult now and entitled to make your own decision about such things as your sex life.
If you want to remain a physical virgin then the giving of oral and receiving of oral sex is a good way to relieve pent up sexual desire.
Should you want to remain a true virgin then oral sex and masturbation should not be indulged in.
As I said the choice is yours and yours alone, no one else can answer this question for you.
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No, you will no longer be a virgin.
Virginity have nothing to do with what is between your legs.
When you are a virgin, male or female, it means that you have NO emotional baggage from sexual encounters, and you have NEVER done anything that could give you an STD.
If you have ever given oral, you may have an STD because of it. Therefore, how does it look when you tell someone you are a virgin, then give them a sexually transmitted disease?
See the point?
If virginity had to do with your hymen, then no guy could EVER be a virgin, and a girl doing gymnastics (or anything else that might break her hymen) would automatically not be a virgin.
This is the only way virginity means anything: Keeping yourself completely clean, emotionally and disease-wise, for the person you want to give your virginity to.
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Look people this is a place for any questions that includes dumb ones don't answer someones questions if your going to be rude thats just immature and ridiculous. I agree that you shouldn't do anything your not ready to do and i will nicely tell you that oral sex is not taking your Virginity and im sorry but if you have sex and your cherry doesn't get popped thats still loosing your virginity so that was a dumb answer.
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yes. losing your virginity means a guy has inserted his penis into your vagina, which you have not.
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I have to agree this is a dumb question, u r still a virgin until a man has popped ur cherry
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Please don't perform oral sex on a guy who is trying to convince you to do so by saying you will still be a virgin. Yes, you will still be a virgin. But if you have to talk about this...maybe you're not ready? Good luck and be safe!
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