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Happily Married... But Am I a Lesbian?
Although happily married to a man, for 5 years, I find myself increasingly more attracted to women. How do I find out for sure without conducting an "experiment"?
thanks,
Karen
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I can understand your situation because if you're honest, your husband will want to join in and that would ruin everything you want to achieve. The best thing to do would be to try a little friend date. Find a woman that your attracted to and go on a few lunch, coffee. movie or mall dates. See how you feel when you're with her. If you get a little more brave, go out for drinks and let yourself get a little loose and give her a kiss goodnight. I've been married for almost 5 yrs myself but I still get the urge to be with a woman. I think it's perfectly normal to love your husband but want to have sex with a woman. There are things that a woman can do that a man can't fulfill and of course, it works both ways. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Are you attracted to men? Do you find them sexually appealing? ..
If you do and still find woman to be appealing as well, Perhaps you are bisexual.
If you don't find your husband to be appealing sexually, Then you are probably lesbian.
However, If you are not happy in your marriage then the right thing to do would be to be honest about it.
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Well it could be that you are subconsciously looking at other options in your life or probably admiring other women. I think you may want to try mental scenarios. Think of how you would act with a woman you have seen and then try the same thing with your husband.
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If you're happily married, you shouldn't care.
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well kiss a gal and if you like it then stick to a girl but if you feel uncomftable and guilty tell your husband what your going through and have him help you go through it. :)
P.S. Don't feel bad People go through this and you can too. stick to what you want and have a nice day Good Luck to you and who you going to be with
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