Im just a normal guy wanting to give people a piece of my wisdom. Feel free to ask me anything. I'd be happy to be your friend.
Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Age: 21
Yahoo: the_burnout_legend@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 28, 2011
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I'm from Berlin, Germany. I can read and write English almost as well as anyone else. Recently I have lost my dear identical twin brother, tragically. My father doesn't seem to care much, he didn't even blink when he died but I can't stop feeling this hole. I feel lost now, and confused. I can't cry for some reason. I'm depressed and alone. My mother is with my brother and my father is always at the bar. So what can I do to ease this pain inside of me? (link)
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Remember who your brother was and honor the life he had. We are never truly dead until we are forgotten. I wish I could say more but this is what I did and it has helped me realize that there will always be good times and bad times. We just have to make the best of the bad times. I hope that this helps. And I am truly sorry for your loss.
-Manny
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Ok, so its my little brothers birthday today. We're not that far apart, just about 2 years. He's turning 11 and the only thing he wants is a Pokemon game, but he's already buying himself that with his own $. If I tell him not to buy that, then he'll question. And I seriously can't lie. So can someone please tell what I should buy him! I'm serious, he don't want anything else than that. So can someone tell me a gift that is under 25$ that'll surprise him. None of my family members would help me.
Thank you guys! (link)
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How about a pokemon plushie?
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She dresses like a freak, does stupid things, sticks her tongue out like an idiot, appears naked in her music videos, and literally only sings one song these days. WTF? She used to be my role model, but now I hate that stupid bitch. I know Ariana Grande defended her, but she defends everybody. What my friends say about Mileys “wrecking ball" is,“good song, bad singer" what is wrong with her? (link)
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Because I dislike Miley so much I don't have a great answer... However, she pretty much wants to keep her audience and since most of this generation is all about YOLO ans SWAG and rebelling and all that crap she's put out this image for her fans that they don't have to listen to their parents and that they have all the time in the world to go out and be crazy and party. At least that's how I see it.
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So my boyfriend & I recently discovered we both had chlyamdia. I got it cured. But my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't yet. He went but they sent him somewhere else, anyways we were messing around we been using condoms since we found out but I was messing around & I was teasing him & didn't think anything of it but I just licked the top of his dick (the head) & just remembered you can get chlymadia through oral. I didn't think about it, but it was literally just a lick. Not a suck or anything. One lick! Lol he didn't cum or anything. Is there a chance I have a chlymadia? Please answer asap! (link)
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Its a high risk even if he didn't cum... So there might be a chance. Check to make sure otherwise you'll regret not being sure.
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I'm of shy nature, but I love making videos. I personally think I've got good ideas to entertain people with bad movie reviews, sketches, top 10, etc. The only thing is... I'm scared that people end up mocking me and/or dislike me.
I know you cannot be loved by everyone, but I'm scared I get more hate than appreciation. I really want to do this though, should I take a risk or being a liked youtuber is excessively hard? (link)
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Being a youtuber isn't about getting liked by people. No matter how much it may seem that way. The only reason you see people trying to get as many likes and subs is because eventually the youtube staff will notice and then soon enough they are basically working for youtube to make money. If you want to be a youtuber then I say go for it. If it doesn't work out, you can always reinvent your stuff. Don't worry about the haters. Without them we cant find out how good we can be. Do what you enjoy and try what you have always wanted to try. I hope this helps.
- Manny
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Im in this relationship with this guy that i've liked for a few years now. AT first he was only my bestfriend but then it got more when i told him i liked him. We went out once for about 3weeks and then i broke it off. About 2-3months later we got back together. Anyways its been a year now, and this guy, well he's the type of person that girls will be bestfriends with. Our relationship is great, and im crazy for this guy. Its just, i dont want to be. I hate that i care, and i hate that with him i get jealous. I dont want to care for anyone this much, this young. Ive tried not talking to him, ive tried ignoring him. Iv tried to tell myself, remind myself thats its only a crush. That it will end soon, but im lying to myself. But somehow, he always has me answering the phones, he has me waiting for his phones calls, i dont want to be tied down this young. But i cant help it. He just makes me smile everyday, he just makes life better. How do i STOP caring about this guy? (link)
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I know how you feel. But you cant just stop caring about someone overnight. Try taking things back to when you guys were best friends. focus on your life and be there for him when he needs you. There are alot things that you can get yourself into that could help you through this. You jsut gotta find out what it is. Just dont let go of the friendship you guys used to have. I really hope this helps and i hope you get through this in the best way.
Good Luck,
Manny
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Hi! Im a 15 year old girl. And my boyfriend is 14 years old. I just to shy to kiss him. Everyone wants us to kiss and i know that he is ready. Homecoming is coming up. How do i kiss him there in front of everyone? What do i do? (link)
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Well, you could kiss him and get it over with. Or you can wait until you both feel that its a good time to do so. Its mainly up to you. Just don't let peer pressure get to you. Hope this helps.
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Is their really no such thing as believing in God and Evolution??? Really? Am I the only one? I mean everyone I tell this too gives me crap about how there's no such thing. In my perfect ideal mind, God is not discriminative against gays, bi's or lesbians, skin color, or form of religion. He created the world (well, more like lives amongst the universe) as is and created it to change and shift forms along with the products living among it. Animals are just as important as human beings and God loves and is not to be feared.
My parents are Catholic maniacs and their ways of thinking and belief are just not the kinds of things I belive and feel are truely correct. If their God is the real God I may as well be down in hell right now! I mean what the heck? Is there anyone out there who sees things the way I do? (link)
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I definitely have the same beliefs as you. I feel that God would accept everything they way it is. If the Bible says to love your enemy and the world and stuff, then it should be as such. I don't understand why people think that God would disgrace gays or skin color or something like that. I feel that some of what the Bible says conflicts with what God is. And through the thousands of years of its existence, the Bible may have been altered slightly to make God seem like he is scary if you don't follow him.
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ok so i have my ex best friends and ex boyfriend saying crap about me and spreading it around. im 15 and i feel like people are starting to talk about me behind my back? i dont think my current friends are but i definitely know that my ex best friends are because they keep giving me really bad looks. i dont care what people think about me i never did and never will because i always know the truth but still i dont want this getting out of control because it's starting to a bit. what can i do about it? (link)
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Just as TuscanSun said, it is a part of life. But its worth the part because it can teach you how to handle situations like this. Understand that people are stupid and they will do whatever they can to feel good about themselves even if it hurts people. As for you, don't get too stressed about it. If you show no interest in what they do or say they will eventually leave you alone. However, if they keep up, that is when you are going to find out who your real friends are. If you have friends you can trust, you should tell them about this problem. That's what i would do. Either that or ignore it. If you want me to help you out more just send me a message of what you think of my advice. Maybe we can figure this out if your up for it.
Hope this helps,
-Manny
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My wife is having an affairs with another man.and she is not she called this man in my house every day on phone.she even said. She want to be with this man.advise me should I devoice her for him? (link)
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I would take the initiative and divorce her. It is not worth having a marriage if one person is not going to commit to the relationship. But don't think it is your fault because it's not. She's the one who screwed up. So just leave her. Its not worth getting hurt over if you know you can find someone more faithful.
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I'm 17 turning 18 in September and I'm from NY. Early in 2010, my mom decided she wanted to move to North Carolina to move in with her parents (my grandparents) so she could save up money, have less expenses, etc, so that she could put a down payment on a house a few years later. I said I would attend college down there and so that was kind of the plan, and my grandparents were excited and everything. And, well, as the time closely approaches I have been having second thoughts about wanting to go. The first thing is the cost of an out of state college, I can't afford it so I can't start down there right away anyway because I am not a resident and they would charge me A LOT of money for it. So I can't start it right away anyway (dont qualify for help). Another thing is my friends. I will miss them terribly. And mostly everyone's going to the local community college! And my boyfriend's here too. DOn't get me wrong, I know the whole friends/boyfriend thing is stupid to miss but I will, I'm young, of course I'm going to miss them. One other thing about moving down there would mean I'd have to share a room with my mom :/, what teenager wants to do that? Anyway, overall, I told my mom that I want to stay here, and her best friend said I could live with her and attend the communtiy college, etc. My mom, of course, said "no" because "your 17, your staying with me until your 18. then you can do whatever you want." So, unfortunately, I have to go down there from August-end of October (when my bday hits), then I'm coming back up. The dilemma is, however, how do I tell my grandparents that I want to come back to NY? they were all excited and I feel really bad! How do I tell them that I changed my mind about wanting to stay there and that I'm going back to NY? It's not like im going back up and doing nothing. I'm getting a job and going to school. I'll visit them of course. Please help!!
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I'm 18 as well but im in a much less situation than you. But i will try to help. Moving is hard. So is out of state colleges. So your right about the expenses. If you can convince your mom to let you stay up in NY then your good to go, right? However, It depends if you are capable of maintaining things by yourself. If you can manage that, then things should be more easy for you. But for now, You are going to have to start making plans and backup plans in case you are able to go back up north. Dont give up. But if things get worse, well, it can only get worse before it gets better. But hang in there.
- Manny
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i have no friends everywhere, i feel sad :(
i love to make friends but it does not work
i'm approachable to everyone, but why it's hard?
still no friends, i just need someone to talk to and hang out with. (link)
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When it comes to making friends, You must keep in mind that its not just having someone to talk to. Its also being there for them. So in making friends, Remember to mention hanging out and stuff. If you can manage to give the people you meet a chance to get to know you then becoming friends shouldn't be that difficult. Try and find the right people to be friends with. Make sure you trust them and that they can understand you. If there is any part of this that you do not understand, feel free to message me.
Hope i have contributed to your solution.
- Manny
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hi im 13/f
well this guy, adrian likes me and i like him. ut i know NOTHING about him AT ALL!and today he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said "i dont know" and my friend ashley yelled out "YES!" and i didnt say that and he thinks we are dating.
so then his EX,briana comes to me and tells me "im gonna kill you " and she ran off to try to convince adrian to not go out with me. i was gonna say yes but everything happened so fast.
then after the bell rang we all went to our periods. then after he asked me "what did briana tell you?" and i replyed "she said that she was gonna kill me and i think she still likes you" and then he hugged me.
i feel so wierd when he hugs me because i DONT KNOW HIM he's a stranger. but i like him.
and i just came home to check my facebook and he already changed his facebook status to "in a relationship"
i dont know what to do.
-darkangel (link)
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This doesn't sound good obviously. But no worries. You can get through this. First. Take some time to know this guy. And take it slow. Don't let him rush into things. As for Briana, keep an eye out for her. Dealing with her will be hard. Make sure you have friends you can trust to help you with her. Try to talk some sense into that girl. if that doesn't work, just avoid her. Back to Adrian. Remember, get to know him. Ask questions and hang out a bit. Just don't let him rush you into things. The best of luck to you. I hope this helps. I f you need anything just message me.
- Manny
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My boyfriend and I just got over a huge fight we had today.
It started when my boyfriend texted me. He said he was looking at other girls breasts. I got really upset. He jokes a lot, and I am kinda sensitive, but I have learned to accept his playful attitude. However, when I told him I was upset and he knows saying that is hurtful, he said he didn't know what I was talking about. I told him it was extremely hurtful, and even though I know I should trust him, my insecurities get to me. He didn't answer for about an hour and we got in a huge fight. He was upset that I didn't trust him and he told me he couldn't believe the way I was acting. I was rather hurt too. I told him I didn't mean to overreact and I wanted to stay together. So we both worked it out and decided to only learn from it and become closer.
I'm happy we worked it out. But while we were texting I felt on edge and like we weren't going to work out. I have second thoughts because I caused such a hard time. I feel like he deserves better than insecure, crazy me. But at the same time I know he wouldn't ever hurt me. I want us to be back to normal before I made a mistake.
Help? (link)
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You guys did good by working it out. Always remember that conflicts only let you learn about one another. Don't worry about what you caused. What matters is that you two are still together. After all its about how you feel about him right? Dont worry about how you are. You're not going to be like that with him all the time and you know that. Dont think about it. And dont worry. Things will be fine. :)
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hi guys, i have been very stressed lately and i raelly dont know what about. I guess relationship things, family stress, and school stress. Does anyone have a good way to just sit home and relax? Just to let everything escape from your mind that you havent been able to go a day without thinking about in a few months. To have a completely empty head. I've been thinking so much for the past few months, the things i think about follow me to my dreams when that was the only place i could escape them, and ive had a constant headache for about 2 or 3 weeks. how do i compltely relax my brain, and my body and forget everything just for a day while staying at home? Thank you so much to who ever answers this, it will be highly apperciated! (link)
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Music. Thats what i do to chill and relax. Find a song that send you somewhere else in your mind. and just sit back and relax. It may work if u find the right kind. Try it out.
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Hello,
I very rarely contribute to this site, although find it to be very beneficial and I'm glad it's around. I've had some questions answered through other posters, so I often lurk, I just very rarely contribute.
That being said, I'm seeking some advice.. I'm good friends this this girl from a town nearby. She attends public school, while I'm homeschooled. This limits us from seeing one another very often, although we talk very often online and fairly often on the telephone. Currently, we're not seeing each other in person, but every few months. This will change if this relationship ever develops into something more.
The girl is currently dating a guy and their relationship appears to be fairly decent. I've gotten some vibes from her that seem to imply she has an interest in me. She tells me she loves me (which is something I am hesitant in saying in return, as the young age of 15, I feel love is a hard thing to understand) and she's also sent me some photos of herself that her boyfriend would probably not appreciate. Now why that generally would indicate she's a wee bit on the skanky side, that's not the case, she's just a girl that trusts me, as we've been real close friends for a long time.
That said, I really want to see our relationship move on, but is it worth it? I suppose my real question is, what to do? Part of me wants to pursue this further, since she's implied she likes me, but another part of me makes me hesitant, as if she is in a relationship now and liking another guy, I could very well end up being cheated one if I were to pursue this.
I'm a real selective guy (I know that sounds contradictory, a hormonal teenager being selective), but I have standards and she is really a wonderful girl. I just think she's maybe a little confused, I certainly don't want to think that she is interested in me and wants to have me around on the side, along with her boyfriend.
Thanks in Advance,
Chase, 15/M (link)
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Ok so from what i understand. You want to work this out as discrete and non-violent as possible right? Well two things to consider: 1. You can pursue this opportunity to be with her or 2. You can just stay friends. Personally i'd stay friends with her. Even though she may trust you the fact that she's a bit on the "skanky" side may suggest that over time that part of her may act up. But trust me. Its better to keep a friendship with someone than it is to lose that friendship over love. Love is a widely misinterpreted concept. However, if you want to get with her then you need to make sure it will work out. I'm saying to think of every possible thing that can happen based on how both of you are with each other. If you get a good feel out of it then i'd say go for it.
Thats about all i can advise. Be careful and good luck.
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So there's this guy I text. We've texted for awhile on and off and we have a class together. Well lately he's been telling me to text him after school more. He has a girlfriend and something happened to where we don't openly talk anymore like we used to. We give subtle hints about things but we mainly watch what we say I know he likes me and I'm not looking for advice on that or criticism on him texting me and flirting when he has a girlfriend.. I just want to know what are things that can keep our convo interesting. I try to think of things to actually get him to really talk to me. He's kinda private.
PLEASE & THANK YOU (link)
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If you wanna talk about anything, then you should talk about everything. Start with something random. Be spontaneous. Or talk politics. Debate on butter or margarine. Be creative. There so much to talk about and so many ways to make it interesting. The possibilities are endless!
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I met my best friend in high school. We got along like sisters. But my friend made lots of poor choices. She had her first 3 kids while we were still teenagers. She drank heavily, had abusive relationships, was promiscious, etc.
When my friend had her fifth child, I agreed to move in with her and her newest husband to help care for the kids.
It was a bad idea. They were always angry with me, wanting me to watch the kids longer hours, keep the house cleaner, train the dogs better, etc.
When their dog had puppies, they gave me one... but then would torture me by yelling at and hitting the puppy, locking it in the cage for days, threatening to take it to the pound, etc.
I stayed mostly because I was very attached to the children.
I moved out last month. After I moved out, they became very angry and accused me of stealing from them. They made nasty phone calls to me, posted things on my Facebook, and otherwise tormented me however they could. I did everything I could to cut them out of my life, even though it meant I'd never see the children again.
The problem is I've been having nightmares. Every night I dream about them. Many of my dreams involve my former friend not allowing me to leave her house, or trying to take my puppy away. I also dream about the kids a lot. I wake up sad or frightened, every morning.
I feel like they are still controlling me, even though I no longer live with them or see them.
How can I get these people out of my head????!!! (link)
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Well there is a few things you can do to handle the situation. You could just let it go. Or, make everything right. For me honestly those two people are expendable. I'd worry more about the children and the animals. I'd recommend you report them and have the kids put in better homes. and the animals put in better homes too. But do not be afraid of your ex friend and her husband. When times get tough I'd say stand your ground for what's right. And those kids and the dogs need a better life. But thats how I would handle it. You can consider this as an option but i hope a more simple and discrete option that you may feel comfortable with can be available. Hope this may be helpful.
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so im a 16m. First to start off this is regarding a girl. So weve been just talking during a class and we seem to get along she hanged out with me a couple of times. Then one of those times she asked me for my number but for whatever reason i was in a bad mood and kind of said something like i dont have a number. So just the other day we were talking and we just had a conversation and she mentioned something and then hessitated to tell me then she said something about some kid she liked in the class. So i was kind of just thinking to my self wtf. So i was thinking should i like ask her to do something this weekend or go to this party im going to or something or should i just kind of let it go and just be friends kind of thing. I dont really know i feal as if ive had alot of missed opportunities because im a really moodie person and just sometimes everibody seems to annoy me why? I dont know. Please tell me what i should and or shouldnt do. (link)
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Dude, speak your heart out. If your cool with this girl then tell her how you feel. and be respectful in how you do it. And definitely give her your number if you really liker her. Just be careful of what you say, be nice about how you feel about her, and be honest and it will work out.
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ow can a people steal debit card numbers from different states?
My mom got $300 dollars withdrawn out of her account by someone in who lives in Florida and we live in Texas. The bank said they will investigate, but they don't know if my mom gave the person in Florida consent to use her card. We don't even know the person who used her card in Florida. My mom thinks that someone got her card information off of the internet but she has not used her card for anything on the internet for over a year. How did a person from a different state get my moms debit card information?
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It could have been someone who randomly compiled credit card numbers and somehow managed to match a number with your mom's card. I dont know if that could be the answer but it seems plausible.
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