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We made up, but now it's a little sad.
My boyfriend and I just got over a huge fight we had today.
It started when my boyfriend texted me. He said he was looking at other girls breasts. I got really upset. He jokes a lot, and I am kinda sensitive, but I have learned to accept his playful attitude. However, when I told him I was upset and he knows saying that is hurtful, he said he didn't know what I was talking about. I told him it was extremely hurtful, and even though I know I should trust him, my insecurities get to me. He didn't answer for about an hour and we got in a huge fight. He was upset that I didn't trust him and he told me he couldn't believe the way I was acting. I was rather hurt too. I told him I didn't mean to overreact and I wanted to stay together. So we both worked it out and decided to only learn from it and become closer.
I'm happy we worked it out. But while we were texting I felt on edge and like we weren't going to work out. I have second thoughts because I caused such a hard time. I feel like he deserves better than insecure, crazy me. But at the same time I know he wouldn't ever hurt me. I want us to be back to normal before I made a mistake.
Help?
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Things become a bit weird after fights! But you will be normal after a while, trust me :)
And you are not crazy, okay?
Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes it's hard to trust people.. I've made plenty of mistakes exactly like yours.
You should just work together to make it better from here on.
Hope I helped!
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Sometimes in a relationship theres always going to be some kind of conflict because NO relationship is perfect theres always going to be something wrong with a relationship weather its trust issues or something simple but its the conflict which brings people closer together :) sometimes its hard but in the end the result it great and you'll know so much about each other .
hope i helped
just stay strong and try not to focus on the negative things about your self and focus on the postive :)
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You guys did good by working it out. Always remember that conflicts only let you learn about one another. Don't worry about what you caused. What matters is that you two are still together. After all its about how you feel about him right? Dont worry about how you are. You're not going to be like that with him all the time and you know that. Dont think about it. And dont worry. Things will be fine. :)
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