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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."

i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
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is there a way i can get songs on my iPOD shuffle without cds or iTUNES. Like is there a way i can download any song i want without paying ot using a CD? thanks. (link)
www.limewire.com
www.kazaa.com
either download those ^^
or visit this website;
e-mp3s.eu

they are illegal. just be aware of what you're risking.


on the episode of hannah montana where she looses her voice and has to get the surgery, what is the song her and her mom are singing in her dream? its something like "its you and me, together". is that an actual song? if so, who sings it and what is it called? and what are the lyrics to it? (link)
You & Me Together; Hannah Montana

Looks like we found ourselves
Up against a wall
In need of a little help
But no one wants to call
After all we been through
Do we let our friendship end

You need me and I need you
No, we will not break
Never break
But even if we bend

Yeah it's you and me together
I'm always on your side
No one,no one,no one,can ever change it,
Come on let em try
'Cause it's you and me together now

Anyone can have a day
When their heart is on their sleeve
No one wants to see it our way
Can't agree to disagree
You'd think it'd be easier
But it feels like you just can't win
But somehow we'll make it work

Cause we deserve it
You know we're worth it
You can't give up on friends

Cause it's you and me together
I'm always on your side
No one, no one, no one, can ever change it
Come on let em try
Cause it's you and me together now ...

Together now ...

Ohh... now now now

Cause it's you and me together
I'm always on your side ...ohhhh...
No one, no one, no one, can ever change it
Come on let em try
Cause it's you and me together now

Cause it's you and me together
I'm always on your side
No one, no one, no one, can ever change it
Come on let em try
Cause it's you and me together now


Heyy Dudes & Dudettes ,

Okay , Well see theres this guy he's my ex and I still really like him.. and I just started to talk to him not to long ago .. and like he's always liked me but I don't know if he still does.. so I decided to be like hey im going to invite him to go to the movies and stuff so I called him and stuff and he calls me back and says sure :) and stuff like that .. is there any possibilty that maybe in the future he would go back out with me?

Thank you.
Betty. (link)
if he is going to go on a date with you, then i would say that there is a pretty decent chance that you guys have another future together.

just keep talking to him, keep his interest peeked [:

good luck.


On MTV, there's a new commercial for the season premiere of the Hills.

It basically explains the whole Heidi/Lauren broken friendship thing, haha. But there's a song in the background, and I really wanna know if anyone knows who sings it and what's the name of it. All I remember is that at one part, when there was actually no talk, it said "all good things..come to an end" or something.


Thanks in advance (link)
All Good Things (Come to an End); Nelly Furtado


..i don't really know this song but i know the category it would be placed in, would be like, r&b or hip hop.

but the beginning part of the chorus goes,

" my girl got a girlfriend"...then after a while he goes...convict...then does that akon thing.
it's kinda new, if that helps in any way. (link)
My Girl Got A Girlfriend; T-pain


Can someone give me some rock/indie/r&b songs about liking someone who likes someone else?
Like depressing indie songs, or hard rock or pop songs...I don't care what kind of music, just not country. (link)
Approach The Bench; The Audition
What Goes Around Comes Around; Justin Timberlake
The Last Song; All American Rejects
Part of My Past; Daphne Loves Derby
Hopeless Love; Daphne Loves Derby
This Photograph is Proof; Taking Back Sunday
Our Sick Story; Atreyu [it's screamo, but if you read the lyrics, it's gorgeous]
Audrey, Start the Revolution; Anberlin
When You're Gone; Avril Lavigne
So Much For My Happy Ending; Avril Lavigne
Don't Lie; Black Eyed Peas
Diary of Jane; Breaking Benjamin
Until The End; Diary of Jane
I'll Cry Tomorrow; Cauterize
Midnight Bottle; Colbie Caillat
Happens All The Time; Cold


That's a pretty decent list.
if you like any one of those songs inparticular, let me know through my inbox & i can send you a list of songs like that one :]


I don't know if i should tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him. He's asked me before but i never gave a straight answer. We started going together at the begining of the school year last year but broke up like a week later. By the end of the school year we started acting like we were when we first started going out. I don't kow if i should tell him how i feel about him or keep it a secret. It's just that i really like him. He's like the best person in the world and the sweetest. What should i do? (link)
my answer isn't going to be as detailed as all the others, but i know more about this subject than probably anyone.
i know exactly what it feels like to have strong feelings for your exboyfriend.

my ex & i had been together for 2 years & he broke up with me randomly out of no where. we've been broken up for 6 months, but we still hung out/hooked up every now & then.
i never truly got over him.
i'm still not completely over him.

and it was killing me. so the other night i messaged my best friend, asked her for advice & she told me to completely tell him how i felt.
so i gained up all the nerve i had & just 3 days ago, i finally told him that i was still in love with him. my exact words were:

"i want to be with you.
i can't pretend like i don't have feelings for you anymore. i can't hold this in any longer.
you told me to give other guys a fair shot, so i did. & it only made me realize that you are the only guy i can see myself with. you are the only guy i ever want to be with. you & i are supposed to be together. i want to take as much time as possible to rebuild what we had. i want you. & if you don't feel the same way about me, i understand. i just don't want to live a lie anymore.
& if you don't feel the same, i don't want things to change just because of what i said. even if you don't feel as if we are ever going to get a second chance, i still want us to be here for eachother. i've changed a lot, i really have. but there's only one thing that hasn't changed, & that's the fact that i am still in love with you."

& in all honesty, i think you should do the same thing.
even though i haven't heard from my ex since then, i feel so much more relieved to know that he actually knows how i feel about him. it kind of makes me nervous, but it's worth it.


do people really have a glow after sex? is it called the afterglow? why? do they get shiny or something? after exercise people do look nicer because theyre done sweating and stuff? i dunno (link)
it's just a figure of speech really. people say others are happier after just having sex, meaning they have a 'glow' about them. not an actual shiny glow, just a happiness. no one can look at you and tell if you've just had sex. so don't worry about that.


So I have a boyfriend whom I've been with over 3 months with.And recently we played truth or dare.And the truths turned out serious ones and so.He asked me if I had feelings for anyone.And considering I do for my ex.. I was hesisitant.I didn't want to answer because I would be worried about his answer back,But then again.I needed to be truthful and we never talk about stuff like that.I answered "Not enough" and he responded with.. "Not enough what? and I simply said. "Not enough to like" then we went on to ask.. So what about deep down deep in your heart.. who? And I was like.. Can't I do the dare..? And he was like.. I really just want to know the answer.And I go.. maybe.. something? And he was was like with who? And I was like you already know. And said my ex's name.And he kind of went back and looked up.And asked me how could I like someone when you hate him and talk shit about him all the time.I don't understand and I put my face into a pillow and responded.. "I can't help it!" and he turned my face to where I could see him and said "I love you" and I kissed back and said it back.So it was his turn and he got a truth.I asked him who he lost it to.And he got kind of uncomfortable with it.He told me to guess and I didn't feel like guessing so he told me.I was like wow.. and I go .. what were you thinking.. basically because he was 17 at that time and the girl was 20 or 21 or something.He said he was stupid back then and bad.That he's more mature now.And I was like was it good?Just to ask.And he was like.Want to embarrass me more?More questions since we're on the topic.I was like I could be worse you know.Anyways.Then he asked me why I didn't want to.. have sex.But before he asked he told me this wasn't to pursuad me or pressure or anything.He was just wondering why I wouldn't.And I said that in our case.. it's too soon in the relationship to even think about it and plus I wasn't ready.And he was like and that's okay.I'm fine with that.You understand that right.And I go yes.Then I asked him what he wanted the most and at first he said moneyy and I go moneyy ehh?And he goes.. but no really, I want it to last and I go meaning? And he says us.. me and you to last.It was cute.I really don't know what I'm trying to get with this but.. I'm wondering if with what I said and stuff.. think things changed between me and him.Do you think he thinks that it going to change the way I feel about him and what do you think I should do?I just want to be honest with him and have everything good in the relationship.. So what do you guys think about this..? (link)
well for one, it's normal to have feelings for your ex, and it's a good thing that you told him because as you said you wanted to be open with him.
if you seriously, seriously miss your ex & don't want to be with your current boyfriend, then i don't advise to stay in this relationship.

but by the fact that he wasn't mad whenever you told him that you still had feelings for your ex, shows that he really cares for you. some boys would just break up with the girl right then & there. you're a lucky one. & this boy sounds like a keeper.

if you don't want to have sex, then don't. just wait a while to make sure this kid really is going to stick around.

he sounds sweet.
i don't think anything changed. if you feel as if you regret what you told him because you don't miss your ex, then let your boyfriend now that he is who you want to be with, not your ex. just be honest. things will work out fine.


i dont understand bjs. im immature i guess but why put your mouth where the other person pees? its kind of weird. (link)
people do it to please their partner.
yes the thought is weird & gross, but if you feel comfortable enough with someone, then that doesn't matter.

it's okay to not like oral sex.
i know a lot of people who refuse to do it. because it is very unclean & very strange, but some people just choose to do so because they are willing to go to outerlimits to make their partner aroused.
there really isn't any reason as to why. kind of like anal sex, some people like it & yet others think it's totally & utterly disgusting.


did anyone ever use a store-bought pattern and made a shirt/dress from it? are they easy to follow? (link)
if you can sew, then they are pretty simple to make.
some patterns have difficulty levels & try finding ones with an easy rating. therefore making it easier on you, as a beginner.

my mamaw makes dresses, shirts & skirts all the time from those patterns, she doesn't have any trouble, & you won't either if you just keep practicing.


is there a way to make the most out of a perfume sample in an advertisement? like i can even use it and rub it on my skin but how to extract it? (link)
perfume samples aren't made to last long, that's why they are called 'samples'
you are really only able to use it like once, sometimes twice if you're lucky.

there really isn't much you can do with it, but rub it on your skin like you said.
i'm sorry :/


Well I put a whole bunch of stuff in my hair, but it never seems to work, it just poofs and either one side is curlier then the other or flatter.It sucks the sides never look the smae, and if they did i would keep it down. but they dont. one side is always different. but as my hair gets longer will it be easier to maintain? The first picture you showed me of your hiar. the only reason why your hiar looks like tha tis becuse its longer, mine is shorter so it isnt going to be soo flatt.. but if i thin it out and let it grow, it will lok better right? (link)
continue to let it grow, & get it thinned every now & then.
when i had shorter hair, it was harder for me to get it to curl & straighten right.
but it's harder to take care of when it's longer.

maybe the products you are using, aren't right for you. some hair responds differently to certain products. Catwalks 'Curls Rock' is pretty good. & so is Aussie's sprunch gel.
like i said, try letting your hair airdry a bit, then put gel in it, by scrunching your hair, and then blowdry it a little. not completely, that risks getting frizzy. & then re-scrunch it with water & then hairspray it with Aussie's sprunch spray.
try using volumizing shampoo too, that may work for you also =)


My hair is very thick.
It is past my shoulders
I am trying to grow it out past my boobs,
So it will have that lose curl look you know?
Like the girl off of degrassi- darcy?
Well I think it is really pretty.
What can I do when my hair grows out so that it will look liek that.
If I grow it out do you think it wil have that type of look?
People say if I get it thinned out and layered kinda it shoudl have that curl to it.
\But i think it wil just be fizzy and have a wave to it.
What should i do.
Right now I have to straighten it everyday for it too look good.
I just wnat ot be able to grow it out
Get out of the shower put a little prodct in it, and be done, and have it look really pretty, with a littel lose curl to it.
Is that possible.
please help me get my hair to look like that
(link)
darcy curls her hair with a curling iron.
if you have thick hair, growing is out is only going to make it feel heavy & give you headaches.

i have really thick curly hair too.
& there are tons of ways i fix my hair.

for example;
whenever i first get out of the shower, i let it airdry a bit & then i use herbal essences scrunch gel & lather it all in my hair & then half/dry it with a blowdryer & then scrunch it with water & aussie's sprunch spray to make it look like this;
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a344/__karixsue/Pictures%20Of%20Me/100_2919.jpg

or i use a straightening iron, called a 'chi' it is a little pricey, but it's definately worth the money & it makes my hair look like this;
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a344/__karixsue/Pictures%20Of%20Me/100_31042.jpg

or you can straighten your hair & then use a curling iron on it, like darcy & make it look like this;
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a344/__karixsue/Pictures%20Of%20Me/100_7609.jpg

when you have thick, wavy hair, you have to take time with it.
my hair is the exact way.
good luck.


How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?? what are the signs of him wanting a kiss? (link)
there's no way of telling if a guy wants to kiss you or not, but you can pinpoint certain signs.
for example;
maybe he tries to get closer to you a few times.

or maybe he kisses your cheek, or tells you something really really intimate or sweet.

if you want to kiss him, then go for it.
there's nothing wrong with the girl going for first base ;)


what are some bands like fall out boy, the academy is, boys like girls, and plain white ts? theyre my new addiction haha (link)
the higher
hit the lights
my chemical romance
panic at the disco
the used
the audition
hellogoodbye
the spill canvas
story of the year
sugarcult
something corporate
taking back sunday
daphne loves derby
matchbook romance
secondhand serenade
senses fail
say anything
30 seconds to mars
classic crime
adair
cartel
dashboard confessional
death cab for a cutie
rise against
escape the fate
hawk nelson
hawthorne heights
hollywood undead
houstan calls
four letter lie
paramore
the pink spiders
the red jumpsuit apparatus


theres this song on a commerical and it goes;
"can i have it like that? you got it like that. Can I have it like that? You got it like that"
does ne one know what that song is and hoo sings it? thanks. (link)
can i have it like that - gwen stefani ft. pharell


I want to be sad.
List the best break up songs, please. as many as you can. I don't care about the genre.

Thanks. (link)
Thnks Fr Th Mmrs - Fall Out Boy
No Booty Calls - Kelly Likes Shoes
Text message Breakup - Kelly Likes Shoes
Better Than Me - Hinder
Over You - Chris Daughtry
You Were Mine - Dixie Chicks
Not Ready To Make Nice - Dixie Chicks
Men Don't Change - Amy Dalley
It Ends Tonight - All American Rejects
So Much For My Happy Ending - Avril Lavigne
Our Sick Story - Atreyu
I'll Cry Tomorrow - Cauterize
I Must Hold On - Cold
You're Gone - Diamond Rio
Hopeless Love - Daphne Loves Derby
The Coldest Heart - The Classic Crime
My Black Dahlia - Hollywood Undead [this is my favorite]
What Goes Around Comes Around - Justin Timberlake
My World's Over Without You - Kenny Rogers
If I Told You I Loved You Would I Get It Any Faster - KillWhitneyDead
Look At me Now - Nights Like These
What Hurts The Most - Rascal Flatts
Lets Be Us Again - Lonestar
With This Knife - Smile Empty Soul
She Will be Loved - Maroon 5
Part of My Past - Daphne Loves Derby
Hopeless Love - Daphne Loves Derby


how do you know if your boyfriends in love with you? and hes told you how he feels about you and everything
but he hasnt said those 3 words.

like how do they act and what do they say??


is it a bad idea if the girl says i love you first? or should the guy say it?


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in my opinion, there is no specific way to tell whether a guy is in love with you or not.
there are ways to tell if he cares about you, and you don't need me to give you those, because they are beyond the obvious.

i don't see anything wrong with a girl telling a guy she loves him, before he says it to her, but there are risks of him not saying it back & risks of you getting hurt.

try hinting things around if you want him to say those 3 words.
let him know how much you care for him & just give it time.
if he loves you, then he'll let you know.
trust me.


14/f -well i still like my ex & i really want him back. i know he likes these 2 girls but they're both taken & he took a really long time to get over me, so i figured we'd like always love each other. WRONG. well we broke up on may 18th i think it was? but we went out twice since november. i know, iknow, there's a reason it didn't work out, but i'm willing to make it work. are there any tips anyone has for making him like me again? like duh hang out with him more, but i don't have anything specific i'm looking for cause i don't know what i need. please help! (link)
i know from experience that is hard to get over your ex-boyfriend, especially if they were your first love.

my boyfriend & i have been seperated for 6 months now & i literally tried everything to get him back. but nothing worked.

with you, try telling him how you feel.
asking him out on dates.
invite him over.
make him wish he had never lost you.




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