karisue answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 9:18 pm: in my opinion, there is no specific way to tell whether a guy is in love with you or not.
there are ways to tell if he cares about you, and you don't need me to give you those, because they are beyond the obvious.
i don't see anything wrong with a girl telling a guy she loves him, before he says it to her, but there are risks of him not saying it back & risks of you getting hurt.
try hinting things around if you want him to say those 3 words.
let him know how much you care for him & just give it time.
if he loves you, then he'll let you know.
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Smallazn4lyfe answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 8:59 pm: As i am a guy right now, i think the guys should say i love you first, but usually guys dont say 'i love you' until they think they're ready to say it. These days, girls say i love you first then the guys reply saying i love you too, or i love you more. So basically, no, it't not a bad idea for the girl to say i love you first.
Stephi-Giles answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 8:43 pm: If you feel it's the right time to say it , say it.The girl in a relationship now-a-days can do anything first second or third haha.So just go for it BUT tell him he doesn't have to say it back if he doesn't feel it.Hope I helped !!
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