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Think anything changed?
So I have a boyfriend whom I've been with over 3 months with.And recently we played truth or dare.And the truths turned out serious ones and so.He asked me if I had feelings for anyone.And considering I do for my ex.. I was hesisitant.I didn't want to answer because I would be worried about his answer back,But then again.I needed to be truthful and we never talk about stuff like that.I answered "Not enough" and he responded with.. "Not enough what? and I simply said. "Not enough to like" then we went on to ask.. So what about deep down deep in your heart.. who? And I was like.. Can't I do the dare..? And he was like.. I really just want to know the answer.And I go.. maybe.. something? And he was was like with who? And I was like you already know. And said my ex's name.And he kind of went back and looked up.And asked me how could I like someone when you hate him and talk shit about him all the time.I don't understand and I put my face into a pillow and responded.. "I can't help it!" and he turned my face to where I could see him and said "I love you" and I kissed back and said it back.So it was his turn and he got a truth.I asked him who he lost it to.And he got kind of uncomfortable with it.He told me to guess and I didn't feel like guessing so he told me.I was like wow.. and I go .. what were you thinking.. basically because he was 17 at that time and the girl was 20 or 21 or something.He said he was stupid back then and bad.That he's more mature now.And I was like was it good?Just to ask.And he was like.Want to embarrass me more?More questions since we're on the topic.I was like I could be worse you know.Anyways.Then he asked me why I didn't want to.. have sex.But before he asked he told me this wasn't to pursuad me or pressure or anything.He was just wondering why I wouldn't.And I said that in our case.. it's too soon in the relationship to even think about it and plus I wasn't ready.And he was like and that's okay.I'm fine with that.You understand that right.And I go yes.Then I asked him what he wanted the most and at first he said moneyy and I go moneyy ehh?And he goes.. but no really, I want it to last and I go meaning? And he says us.. me and you to last.It was cute.I really don't know what I'm trying to get with this but.. I'm wondering if with what I said and stuff.. think things changed between me and him.Do you think he thinks that it going to change the way I feel about him and what do you think I should do?I just want to be honest with him and have everything good in the relationship.. So what do you guys think about this..?
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well for one, it's normal to have feelings for your ex, and it's a good thing that you told him because as you said you wanted to be open with him.
if you seriously, seriously miss your ex & don't want to be with your current boyfriend, then i don't advise to stay in this relationship.
but by the fact that he wasn't mad whenever you told him that you still had feelings for your ex, shows that he really cares for you. some boys would just break up with the girl right then & there. you're a lucky one. & this boy sounds like a keeper.
if you don't want to have sex, then don't. just wait a while to make sure this kid really is going to stick around.
he sounds sweet.
i don't think anything changed. if you feel as if you regret what you told him because you don't miss your ex, then let your boyfriend now that he is who you want to be with, not your ex. just be honest. things will work out fine.
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