girlaboutglobe answered Monday July 23 2007, 10:39 am: As far as my experience goes, oral sex is pretty standard run-of-the-mill stuff. It can be really pleasurable for both sexes. If both people have recently showered it's really not that dirty. Urine does not contain bacteria, it's perfectly safe provided that STDs aren't involved. Also yeast infections can spread this way, but under normal healthy circumstances there's really nothing to worry about. I'm female, so I can't vouch for the experience of going down on a lady, but "giving a bj" is pretty simple. There are different techniques, but basically you can suck on it much like you would a popsicle, or lick the shaft, or whatever. It's up to the person giving it, but it is a really effective form of foreplay. With a respectful partner who lets a girl take time to warm up to the idea there shouldn't be any trouble. A person should just go at whatever pace they feel comfortable with, and if they decide they don't like it then that's okay too.
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orphans answered Sunday July 22 2007, 10:52 pm: To pleasure their partner. It's actually not that gross as long as they didn't just go to the bathroom and you do it. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday July 22 2007, 9:43 pm: it's to please their partner simple as that. and honestly most girls as they get older enjoy it and don't mind doing it just so long as their partner shows the same consideration for them and pleases her too. people who refuse to do it i think it's pretty inconsiderate, especially since straight sex between two people would get old after a while. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
karisue answered Sunday July 22 2007, 9:04 pm: people do it to please their partner.
yes the thought is weird & gross, but if you feel comfortable enough with someone, then that doesn't matter.
it's okay to not like oral sex.
i know a lot of people who refuse to do it. because it is very unclean & very strange, but some people just choose to do so because they are willing to go to outerlimits to make their partner aroused.
there really isn't any reason as to why. kind of like anal sex, some people like it & yet others think it's totally & utterly disgusting. [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
duckydork14 answered Sunday July 22 2007, 9:00 pm: Thank u Thank u- It is so gross all those bacteria they are putting in their mouths-usualy people who do it have no respect for themselves it is so gross!!!!!!!!!! [ duckydork14's advice column | Ask duckydork14 A Question ]
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