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I'm going to a party soon...and i want to wear a short dress, with like spandex pants (or something like that) under it and a pair of high heels. Can anyone tell me wear i can find a cute dress thats short...and/or a "day dress" kind of thing...thats like the new Kimono trend.

THanks so much!!

FOREVER21
=]
--ashley

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http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:o1qNPyIPT5ZA_M:http://blubanana.co.uk/shop

what kind of shoes are these???

and do you think they would look good with this dress??-
http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:0wo_7k-rywVqSM:http://img.slate.com/media/44000/44320/tn-3-Rouff-coctailDress.jpg

do you think they would look good together for like prom or somthing...i want to look different then anyone else...
Can anyone find me maybe a better dress to go with those shoes cuz i love the shoes?!?!?

if you do war the dress then i would go for a light pink (like the ribbon on the dress) color of shoe!!
but i think youve done a good job with the style of shoes cause they look compfy yet they look formal and they look causal at the same time, thats really good to war with a kind of dress you have! the dress is more formal so they complament eather without overdoing it!

now the shoes will also look good with a more simpler dress too, but not TO simple, or the whole outfit will look casual!

also black is a nice formal classy sophicated color and you cant go rong with black, but i personaly would never wear a black dress to a prom punk or not!! i just think color could look classy too you wanna stand out at a party like this not blend in! i put these together, there all from northstrom (sp)

this dress
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2889631/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381736?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381736&P=4

with this purse
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2893442/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2385274?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2385274&P=2

with these shoes (in gold not black)
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2875449/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381739?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381739&P=1

with mabie these asserieys (sp)
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2896255/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2385274?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2385274&P=2
and a simple necklace
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2923691/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2385274?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2385274&P=1
makeup!!
i would go for nutrual colors and a nice soft red GLOSS on the lips

or if you like black..... (this dress comes in black)
ttp://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2931934/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381736?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381736&P=1
with this purse
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2910149/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2385274?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2385274&P=1
with these shoes!
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2877109/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2381739?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2381739&P=1
with theseaccessories!
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2881325/0~2378467~2378483~2379598~2385274?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2385274&P=1

just ideas! but i think your dress is pretty with those shoes if you wear the right accessories!

--ashley
hope i helped and sorry if thigs are confuseing and long =]

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13/f
alright so i was watching spongebob the other night and squidward said his line and it was, "I QUIT WORKING AT THE KRUSTY KRAB!" so then i thought to myself "well what is squidward going to do for income?" im thinking like it's some reality!! and that's when i caught myself that i do that all the time about thing,...
what's wrong with me???

it mean you have a brain congratuations

your just mature and think things in realty

it just shows why spngebob is a kids show
the people who make it, dont have the best of brains, cause they just make the show from a kids pont of view

but see you dont have to worry about squidward's income cause least its a kids show.....you just know at the end everyone will make up and be freinds again...squidward will get his job back...and then when its over you think....wow that was stupid

welsome to realty you got BRAIN now hopefully youll use it one day before you say "i quit" unlike squidward

haha =]
--ashley

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I am 16/f, just to get that out of my way.

Let me just start off by saying, I have been in and out of maybe 6 relationships ever since 9th grade, I am now in 10th, and those have never lasted longer than 2 weeks. Various reasons to be broadly stated.

So I've been off dating field for about 6 months when I meet this great guy and things went good so now we are going out and I am surprise to say that we have been going out for about 3 weeks...(ha yes, 3 weeks isn't long time but it is to me compared to other relationships) and just couple days ago my bf told me, "i know this is a day late(referring to valentines day), but I love you"

and i was COMPLETELY shocked by this. My head is going out of control thinking, how could you love me? how can someone LOVE someone when they known each other for less than a month and have been going out for little over 2 weeks?

I mean i didnt tell him, I just told him that I am really not ready to say I love him, but i really do like him a lot. Which I am glad that he understood perfectly well and wasn't upset in any way.

So I don't regret anything on that, but What my real question is, Is it possible for someone to love someone in that short amount of time?

I mean, I am not doubting his affection for me and his respect for me nor am I really going to ask him but on the back of my mind, I can't help but to wonder, is he really saying that because he mean it?

I mean i did ask if he meant it and he looked at me straight in the eye with serious face...

and also, how do I know if i LOVE him? obviously I have never loved somebody... Yeah i know I am suppose to just "know" if its love but still...

I was thinking of asking him that question... "Define Love"

Thank you

awww you have a very sweet boyfreind to begin with!
dont worry about haveing to tell weather you luv him or not! you have forever to figure out, get to know him better, and dont feel presured.

youll just KNOW if you love him "love if not a mbaie thing youll exactly know with no doughts if you LOVE him"

just tell him you simply dont want to say somehting your not sure about how you feel, LOVE is REALLY new to you and you dont know much about the feeling,you 2 should just enjoy being together without haveing to be stressed about weather you truely love eachother!

people say hate is a strong word
but then, so is love
&& people throw it around like its
[ m e a n i n g l e s s ]

be gratefull your boyfreiend MEANs it when he said love.....cause souunds like to mee you two are highschool LOVERS.....one day

--ashley

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ok i am looking for jobs for 14 year olds. i live in florida if that helps because i know that some states have different age laws. anyways i have looked at ebay but i have to have an adult and i am not sure that my stuff will even sell. also what about getting paid for taking online surveys? if you know any good survey sites that pay and they ARENT a scam please notify me. other than that what jobs are out there for a 14 year old that is wiling to work hard???

thanks

try these but to tell you the truth its hard to find a job at 14 (even though its the leagal age, i live in fl too) cause most jobs look for older teen with more experence, but you can work just as hard!!!

publix (and other groshry (sp) stores)
dominos! pizziahut! (you may not be old anogh to be a watress (18 and older) but try being a bussboy (or girl in this case).
in the summers try working at summercamps as a conseler!

usaly people voenteer at nusryhomes but try finding one that pays thell take some one your age! =]
try.....
horseback rideing camps. you can get a job there even if you have no experence with horses! mainly you feed them make more sugar cubes, help give them bathes...etc. what fun!!!

about the online survays i checked into it and you have to be 18 or older~! but mabie you can have you parent to make the account and fill out the infomation, and then you just do the survays (theyll never know!)

hope i helped!
--ashley

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Hi.

I have this beaded curtain on my door to my room. Its pink with flowers and such. My boyfriend is facinated by it and he wants one.

Hes looking for a punkish type one. Like black with flames.

I've checked just about every store here. Mine was ordered online, and I can't remember the site.

Does anyone here know where I can buy a beaded curtain online?

[besides ebay]

www.hippieshop.com

they have the peace sign ones ( i bought it) and i really luv it its a lil punkish! look

http://www.hippieshop.com/cgi-bin/gold/category/2000

most are girlie but some are awesome

--ashley

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where are some good places to get bikinis

im 14 so i don't want a SUPER SEXY one ha.

don't say
abercrombie
a&f
hollister
ae

thanks

pac-sun defantly i also like dealias (sp) and hottopic
--ashley

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dont all of you columnists HATE when you give a great answer to a question and they dont rate you? i do. or if they rate you a 3 because you tell them something they dont want to hear, but it's still good info!!!! ya that bothers me.

me2 =] but lets stick w/ asking advice not commenting on how other give advice
=]

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this might seem like a stupid question but please bear with me.

If someone 'confesses'their love to you or tell you they like you.. how do you respond to that? I just can't imagine anything that isn't awkward. Just a simple "me too" seems really weird and awkward. It's like "i like you". "me too". then what?? Stand there uncomfortably staring at each other or what? But yeah, im just wondering how you guys or your bf/gfs responded.

happy valentines day/sinlge awareness day!

reply as

i luv u mor

aww really your sweet (and smaile)

kiss em

but if you dont like them bak just say thats sweet of you and change the subject =]
--ashley

have fun!

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a hole looks so small.. how does the guys "thing" fit in..?

it streches, like giving birth! =] ull get used to it, and experience it one day it doesnt hurt that bad the 1st time (unn less it pops your cherry)
--ashley

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I kind of teach myself piano, like I don't take lessons. and I get SO confused when there are flats/sharps on the lines. Especially when there are like five. Does anyone know any anagrams, or could send me the link to some pictures of the flats and sharps of treble AND bass clef. (Isn't the treble sharps like, Fat Cows Go Down And Eat Bananas?) Okay mainly I just need help with the bass clef sharps. THANKS SO MUCH!

i dont know anything about pianos and what your talking about
but i found this!

http://www.free-online-piano-lessons.com/piano-notes.html

it looked helpful to me, a lil confuseing, but again your the painoest!

also awesome that you teach yourself paino! =]
--ashley

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everytime i shave my legs they burn for the rest of the day and start to get red dots all over them its horrible because it happens ALL THE TIME. any advice?

your getting razor burn, its when u shave when your skin is really dry, it causes earratation. try a new razor and get shaveing cream or more soap, mabie after shaveing put some lotation on!
=]
--ashley

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okay so I'm a girl, 14 years old. freshman. I just came out as a bisexual recently, as getting a girlfriend. we have been together since 12-30-06 and i don't know what to get her for valentines day. I can't do anything to expencive, or big. just small and cute. something that she will love. I was thinking writing a card that says "I am in love with you" or like "I love you" in a bunch of different languages and like really big in english in the middle. I can't get her a teddy bear cause I already did when we first started dating. so....help?

some ideas =]

-flowers
-giant box of chocolate
-go shoping together and let her pick out something she likes!
-take pictures in a photobooth together and then on valentimes day, hand her a nice card and on the front will be the pics! (the whole i love you thing in diff launges is really sweet!! include that)
-make her homemade cookies!!
-tell her you love her

i think you should pick around 2 or 3 of the simplear ideas it will be really nice!

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i am from india.my only child is 2.5 years old.she is quite sensitive and emotional.the boy next door is 3.5 years old and tries to dominate her by snatching her things, shouting and crying if she doesnt give them(otherwise she always does),and whenever he has a chance he tries to hurt her by pulling her hair,kicking her or pushing and pulling her.they seldom play in harmony.the problem is that my daughter does not like to play with anybody else but him and i am left with no other alternative but let her play.but his behaviour angers me.what should i do with him?

like what the persn below me said tell your daughter that if the boy hits her or hurts her for her to say "stop!"
and if the boy keeps it up say something like "lets all play nice!" mabie if they mosly fight over toys, mabie you can get the boy the same toy as a gift so they can both play with them together.
if these dont work, (as stressing and imbarrsing as it is) talk with the parents and camly tell them that sometimes they dont get along and that the boy is dealing with it phicisly. dont just say thir boy though (even though it may be) try not to sound like the problem is all the boys fault, by saying "our children sometimes deals with thigs phicisly not verbaly, mabie we both need to have a talk with out children, and tech them that its not the way to solve problems by hiting (etc.)

its a natrual thing about parenting,we all need to teach out chilren these things, the boys parents will understand.
goodluck--ashley

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hey i just dyed my hair dark brown, in december..
well now im thinking i wanna get thick streaks of platinum blonde.
i know this sounds gross but my uncle's a hairdresser for the big names.
He's done fashion shows and Dixie chicks and Shania Twain, Britney Spears, Xtina Aguliera.. anyways enough of him. I just was looking for a picture of what i might want so i could show him so he doesnt fuck up.
THANKS
Mirrr

http://www.mybellacolor.com/LOWLIGHTED_BLONDE_HAIR.jpg

http://www.wowwigs.com/colors/hmcolors/hilites/IcedMocha.jpg

--ashley

google hun =]
is that what youre looking for?

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This is relating to your question about the GIMP. The GTK runtime environment is the program language the GIMP uses. It's like java, pearl, or python. It's like when you want to run a java program on a website, you download the java runtime environment.

thanx so much for your time and brain use lol

ima download it and chek it all out

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i dont have a problem not eating fat foods..its hard for me but its working out i dont know what to do. i want to slim my thighs and waist. is their some good exercies that i can do anytime during the day that will work fast if i do them daily?

i dont know about exersises
but im a veggatiren and im a small girl
mabie go veggie for a couple months (eat really heathy though) and keep up the body with work outs
--ashley

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whenever i put my hair up in a ponytail, the top of my head has these really really short pieces of hair and they stick up. It looks really bad and weird. So is there any way i can prevent from these small hairs from sticking up? I use hair spray, but all it does is make my hair look oily, and it doesn't even work. Should i use gel?? I try to use a headband, but the headbands keep falling off my head. any suggestions??

try straightning your hair, then putting it up and then put gel in it, gel works trust me, when i had shorter layerd hair i had to gell down some of the shorter layers of my hair
gel shouldnt make your hair look oily just wash it every night on the days you put your hair up!
--ashley

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this is totally hypothetical:

wat if a guys friends are all whores (like seriously, they give head at least 2ce a day) and he gets a gf, that makes him wait 6 months to go further than kissing.
and he told her he loved her everday
and he stayed with this girl for 4 months and never got to do it.
and all his friends liked her.
but all her fiends hated him.
then he breaks up with her.
because he "cant handle the pressure"

but then he travels in a cycle, and starts over with her the same way that he did before he asked her out in the first place. flirting and all.
and he tells her he still loves her.
but also says he doesnt want to have a girlfriend.

what does that mean?



it means hes not ready for a relationship commitmeant, if you ask me hes being a lil imature, stay true to youself and dont worry about his freinds and your freinds breaking up your relationship, if you really like him then keep crushing on him, mabie when he want a g/f hell want to be with you

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I just bought Summer's Eve (sensitive skin) feminine wash. I was just wondering if this may cause a vaginal yeast infection?

as long as the product is ment for cleaning/skin care/power abosortnt etc. is meant to go in that area, then it shouldnt. its acually better to use femine wash instead of reauglar soap, it helps prevent yeast infection. so your acually helping preventing the infection

but some strong sented produs can increse the rick of infection, so watch out for those, but as far as im casern (sp) your fine
--ashley

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