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im Kristin. 20 years old. Criminal justice major/psychology minor at Georgia Southern University - let the good times roll =]. i'm really laid back, love talking to people, and having a good time. i get on here when i'm bored so if you have a question, inbox me!
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17/f
my boyfriend and I are both virgins but he has performed oral sex on me. Am i at risk for STD's?
is it possible that either of us has one?
and do guys know when they pre-cum? because i always worry that he has some on his hand and then touches me.
yes you are. you both are at risk if you've performed oral sex on other people. also, you can be born with STDs by 'inheriting' them from your parents.
okay well i have this friend who had been my best friend fot the past 3 years now. 6 months ago she found herself a boyfriend who she has liked since 6th grade(3 years ago)in the beginning he was the better of her ex boyfriends but now he is a total jerk. all he wants to do is makeout and go to 2nd wherever they are. when she isn't around or not paying attention he makes these really annoying/hurtful comments either to me and my friends or to someone about someone else and i hate it. all of my friends and my best friends friends hate him and know where i am coming from. Jess(my bf) really likes him. i dont know if she likes HIM or the IDEA of having a boyfriend. we have been fighting so much with any little thing i say about him. when he is with her she forgets that my friends and i are there. her boyfriend bobby will randomly walk up to her while her and i are having a conversation and start making out with her. i have come to hate him and i cant stand to be around him. i have told jess all of this a ton of times but she claims she loves him. and her and i never get alone time. i just dont know what i should do because she likes him and knows i hate him and still no progress with anything is being made.(ex. trying to not forget im there) what should i do? ps sorry this is so long
sit her down [alone] and tell her this. and dont play about it. make her realize you dont like it. if you have already or it doesnt work [which i can see why it may not if she's head over heels], then heres what i would do. simply dont be around her when there is potential that he may be there or soon come struttin up to her. if you & your friends including him go out places in groups, refuse to go if he'll be there. if youre at school or something talking to her and he comes up, dont try to fight for her, just go. basically make her realize that you wont be around him. if she then chooses him over you, let it be. [this may cause some drama but ive seen this and it does work out beautifully in the end]. one day, when either she realizes she misses you and/or they break up, she'll come back to you. when she does [this will probably be the hard part] dont be all like "i told you so!" or anything to start trouble, just be supportive of her and let her know you're happy yall's 'break up' is over =]. yall will be better friends than before. it may be hard to do [as ive seen] but its worth it. good luck!
Basically I just need a quick confidence boost from any girls out there that read this. I just want your opinion of me based on my description and tell me if your a girl would you like me or not. I am 5'10" and 150 pounds. The weight is solid muscle not that much body fat. I enjoy playing sports. I am a quarterback in football and play tennis pretty well. I drive a mustang and dress casually yet I guess what you could call preppy. I have black hair, brown eyes, and perfect white teeth. Please I just need a quick confidence boost for when I flirt with girls please send me your comments. Thanks.
lol sweetheart you sound like the definition of confidence =]
what does it mean when you guys on here in your profiles say "i don't sugarcoat answers" ?
basically, they dont 'sweeten' their answers.
they tell the cold hard truth like it is.
Ok to start off, i was born with very very dark brown hair but recently i've bleached my hair and now its a very honey dirty blonde. i havent seen my dark hair in a while and i wanna go back to it only temporarily though...i've heard that when u use a black non permanent dye on ur light hair it will not wash out completely..i wanna get the black dye but then again i dont cause i still want to have blonde hair with out having to dye it blonde again..i want to use the loreal color pulse or the one from clairol..will it give me any problems??
i dont know about the clariol, but black color pulse does NOT show up on blonde hair. my hairs a light-mediumish blonde [depending on what section of hair & the season] and i used it to try to give myself some black streaks. i did the routine [correctly] TWICE and it barely barely showed up a tinyyy bit purpleish, that really only i could see bc i knew it was there. so yeah. just fyi about that. good luck though!
"you had me at hello" or "you had me at first hello". I know it's a cheesy line that guy's use but I've always been wondering, what does it mean?
it basically means the same thing as the whole "love at first sight" deal.
meaning said boy fell for you the minute he talked to you.
=]
i have this project and i need to get 100 people to do this four question survey. me and my friends already got some people, but it will be very helpful if you answered these questions to increase the numbers.. seriously, this will take you like less than a minute to type!~ :]
1.Would you rather eat skittles or M&Ms?
2.What is your favorite kind of chocolate? White, Milk, or Dark?
3.Which would you like to have inside a chocolate bar? Nuts, caramel, or fudge?
4.What is your favorite flavor of starburst? Yellow, Orange, Pink, or Green?
thanks for answering! remember to choose one, and in your answer do something like the sample below:
1. skittles/m&ms
2. white/milk/dark
3. nuts/caramel/fudge
4. yellow/orange/pink/black
again, thankyou!
haha i love these =]
1. m&ms
2. milk
3. caramel
4. pink [but dont like starbursts]
for school i need to find a song that mentions drugs or alcohol and then analyze it. i'm fine with the analyzing part, its just that i'm having trouble finding a song that mentions drugs or alcohol in it.
i asked my parents and they only gave me old songs. i'm looking for a more recent song that i know.
thanks!
Bottom of a Bottle ~ Smile Empty Soul.. amazing song.
I'm considering getting a pet bird this summer- I used to have a couple of parakeets as a kid. But are there other breeds that are nice to keep as pets? I heard that cockatiels are very nice.. I don't want a big bird, like a parrot but something pretty small that is friendly and that I can hold and play with.
ive heard that conures are great [and sun conures are gorgeous]. theyre cute & friendly but can be kind of pricy...
My friend had lyrics on her ipod nano, how do you get them on there? Thanks.
when you're in your music library on itunes. right click a song, go to "get info", and theres a "Lyrics" tab.. just click on that and you can type them in and save it.
if your a vegetarian or vegan can you eat eggs? my personal opinion is that you shouldnt because it was once living (sorta). but is it REALLY considered living. i dont know. please help. im confused lol
ok basically, vegetarians dont eat animals. vegans dont eat animals nor their products [milk, cheese, yogurt, etc].
vegan-ism [not a word lol] doesnt really make much sense to me though. eggs are not living. they are always unfertilized, meaning even if you just left it there a chicken would not come out of it. and as far as milk goes, NOT milking cows is actually bad for them.. they are supposed to be milked.
i can understand being a vegetarian [but couldnt do it lol]. sorry, i could argue this for hours so i just had to through that in there =]
hi. well the other day i heard a song on the radio, and it was the first time i've ever heard it and the only time i've ever heard it! i even called the radio station to find out what it was, but no one answered. here are the only lyrics i know, and i don't know if they are the EXACT words, but they are close enough. here they are: "i put your hand up on my hip, when i dip you dip we dip". does anyone know what the name of that song is?!? thanks a bunch!!!!!!! luv luv!
its Da Dip.. but i think its actually by Freak Nasty [who is my cousins ex-boyfriends almost step-father lol].
im in 8th grade right now, but next year ill be in highschool, and i was just wondering how big of a deal is it, to have sex? like its already starting to happen this year. and i keep getting offers, but im kinda like against it. would i be made fun of if i dont?
im a sophomore, and yeah i know plenty of people who arent virgins. but on the other hand, i know a bunch of people who are. yeah people ask around about it and stuff, but its really no big deal. ive never encountered anyone at my school being made fun of for being a virgin. dont do it if youre not ready. some people may call you prude or whatever, but believe me there will be alot more people that will respect you if you dont give in to pressure.
Hey. Does anyone know the name of a song that is played on 92 pro FM sometimes, and it goes like ... 'yoou're killing me, killing me' or 'it's killing me, killing me' I realllly wanna know the name and who sings it, or maybe just the name. Thanks :]. I do rate..
i dont know that station, but it sounds like its The Kill by 30 Seconds to Mars.
I'm 15/f and a freshman in high school.
I know it's almost the end of the year but I've had a crush (god I hate that word) on on of the junior guys for the longest time. He's a really sweet guy and we only talk from time to time but I couldn't stop the "school-girl crush" from happening. Is it even possible for a junior to like a freshman? Or am I totally out of my league?
Thanks in advance,
Little Freshie
of course its possible. i dated a junior and a senior last year [[my freshman year]]. that probably means hes only 16 or 17 anyway, not a big deal at all. talk to him some more and flirt. get his number before the years over. it wont be weird, because its the end of the year, everyone gets everyones number. hint that yall should hang out over the summer & see what he says. im sure there will be tons of parties after the last day of school, see if hes goin to any or invite him to one. you have a chance! good luck girl =]
I just got a first base mit for fastpitch. i put mit oil on it and rapped a ball inside it to get the shape. but it's not doing anything. i can't get it broke in. any other suggestions??
either do the matress thing [although the ball doesnt have to be in it -- actually, ive never heard of putting the ball in it] or run over with a car a few times, in different positions. seriously, itll help.
15/f okay. I already have one piercing on each ear. And I really want a second one. Not a cartilige (sp?) but like another piercing on each of my ears. However, my dad won't let me get one. No matter how much I beg him, he will NOT let me get one. I was just wondering, if a person would be able to do it her/himself? Did anyone here do it? Does it hurt? Can there be an infection if proper medical treatment isn't used? Thanks in advance :)
well, i pierced my cartilage myself, and did my boyfriends second hole in his ear. i did mine with a needle, and his with a 14 gauge cafiter [sp?] that he had [i dont advise that haha]. anyway, it doesnt hurt that much. itll probably hurt more than your first hole, since more than likely the needle wont be going through your ear as fast, but its really not bad. of course there is risk of infection, but there is with any piercing. the only thing i could really say about doing your second hole yourself, is that youre really gonna have to line up where you want to pierce so they wont be crooked. numb your ear with an ice cube, mark where the needle is going through, and then just shove it in. dont be scared because youll hesitate, like i did when i did mine, and itll hurt more. also, whatever youre using to pierce it with, make sure it is sterile. wipe the tool and your ear with alcohol first. if your ears start to get infected, take the earrings out. no lie. i cleaned mine like i did the ones i got professionally done, twice a day with solution or alcohol, and it has never gotten infected. also, thing about the other risk -- what happens when your dad sees what you did. my mom told me no more piercings.. and when she saw that i did mine, she wasnt happy at all, but luckily she didnt make me take it out, however im still being nagged about it, haha. good luck =]
ok so I'm getting my ears double peirced in a few days, i want to know how bad it hurts. I couldn't tell how bad my first piercing felt because i was only 6 months old! So does it hurt?
it doesnt hurt at all really. i got my second holes when i was 10. its a small pinch that lasts for about a second. its a sting, but not pain, ya know? just try to be extra careful when brushing your hair and stuff, because if it gets caught up in the stud - thats when it hurts. good luck! =]
i just started drinking A LOT of water and cut down on my diet a lot. the thing is i've gained weight? is that normal?
yeah, its bloat weight. it happens if youre not used to drinking alot of water. your body will get used to it and itll go away. and youll use the bathroom alot. haha.
so im trying to loose some weight in 3 weeks. i dont expect to have a perfect body or anything like that. just to feel better about myself. i mainly want to loose weight & get in shape in the hips & arms area. I will be swimming laps for an hour every mon thru friday till then. so any tips?
cut out things that are high in salt, sugar, and caffeine. no coke or anything. i once heard that if you cut out all coke but change nothing else, you`ll lose 15 lbs in the first year. eat fruits, veggies, and lean meat, because they have protein thatll get rid of fat and build muscle. for your arms, do push ups, pull ups, benchpressing [you could just lay on the floor and lift 2 weights or something heavy if you dont have gym access], etc. for your hips, well your hips are bones soo theyre not getting any smaller, but if you mean around your love handles, do sit ups, side sit ups, jumping jacks, and leg lifts [lay on your side with your head propped on your hand, and lift the leg not on the ground up and as close to your head as you can and release slowly]. the most important thing, dont get discouraged! hang up a picture of someone who's body you admire, and look at it everyday to remind you of your goal. if you eat a lot of cookies or something, dont think ugh i ruined it! and just quit. just work out for 10 mins extra, and keep it up the next day. good luck!