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Sup, my name's Aaron, i'm a band freak, health freak, grammar freak, perfectionist, and I just love to watch people do stupid things even if it includes me, because heck there's no point in being uptight about life when in the end it all ends... hahah gotta love my type right? There's not much about me that you probably haven't heard that you can't compare to other people, I mean i'm a friendly person who once you get to know me, tends to grow on you like mold on bread. I'm smart, courageous, a leader, fun, loving, honest, brutally honest, sadistic, idiotic at times, ignorant to certain topics, indifferent in some controversial issues, unconcerned about what you think about me, happy, sad, depressed, angry, and basically any other attribute you can give to a 16 year old teenager. I'm an ex-swimmer, meaning that I quit... just because of band, and no i'm not that big a band freak, I'd just rather be playing my instrument and feeling the soothing sensation that music has to bring as opposed to getting stressed about being beat by other people! But no, haha I love swimming and if my school allowed me to take both at the same time without sacrificing my grades I probably would. I'm not the kind of person that sits and watches something, for instance, I hate watching football but I love playing it just because of the adrenaline rush. Blah, haha not sure what else to say, I mean I suppose I can tell you that i'm chinese, and uhh that's about it I think... I like to philosophize haha if that makes any sense, I feel that although philosophy is basically the "DUH" of life, sometimes you just need to be told, DUH. There's nothing better than discovering the obvious... Anyways, life's so much easier for probably you and me if we chatted on AOL, my screen name is An3mu5c0r9u5 yup yup =D hehe

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im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!

well all you need is closure... go to his grave and pray and talk to his grave so that he can hear you in heaven... also send him some flowers and wish him a happy christmas!

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HELP! I really don't know what to get my boyfriend. He's really not the type of guy whos into anything in particular.. He's the kind thats really hard to shop for..
Hes gettn me a Care Bear.. A ring.. and some other stuff... that he wont tell me..
I honestly dont know what to get him.. Its our first christmas together.. I really need to get him something he will remember..

I'm 14.. and he's 16.. if that helps..
Just remember.. Im 14.. so im limited on money.. maybe like $30 or $40

THANKS

well since guys are pretty easy to buy for.. just get him a cap or something that has a team or logo that you think he likes... if not just get him "the new shick quatro" lol if he shaves =/

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ok well theres this guy that im really starting to like. the problem is, i dont know him all that well. he goes to my school, but i dont see him that often. im also a little shy so im not gonna just go up to him and flirt.. any advice would be greattttly appreciated! thanks! =)

well talk to him and try to i guess run into him on accident and stuff =D

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Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.

well it's supposed to be etc... but w/e well I think you guys should go live with other family for awhile just to get off the pressure of him coming after you guys... you should also talk to the police and make sure that they are monitoring you... as for your mom you need to try and help her get off the booze... and then talk to her one on one and make sure that she understands that you aren't the person that he said you were

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im 14/female. i used to have this really good friend. we could talk about anything. he was like my big brother. well lately (in the past few months) we've grown apart so much. we can't talk to each other about anything and i get mad at him over little things. i don't know why our relationship is changing so much. i miss how things used to be. any ideas why things are happening like this? any advice on what i should do?

well maybe you both are going through puberty lol.. and well maybe your not.. I think you just need to chat with him one on one cause I had the same problem ... even though now it's not fixed... but I moved on and made better friends.. now we just say hi in the halls..

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I'm very overshadowed by my best friend. She's a very flirtatious, outgoing, redheaded vixen and everyone wants to be friends with her. Now, I don't mind it so much, I'm happy that she is well liked by people, but it's the fact that I seem to be getting less and less attention from her every time she meets somebody new. Especially guys. Every guy she meets has had a crush on her. (Except, thankfully, my CURRENT boyfriend...note that I said CURRENT..ex-boyfriends are another story) And often times she has crushes on them, but she still has to complain about them liking her. She seems to treat me like a child and she's the "All-knowing-one", especially when it comes to relationships, and it's really starting to piss me off! She steals my jokes and claims them as her own OFTEN and she says that I'm a bad friend because I once decided to stay with my boyfriend instead of going to hang out with her, while she has ditched me many a time to hang out with guys. (I can think of two instances from just last week.) I'm really bothered by her, yet I remain her friend and most of the time I really don't know why. And I want to talk to her about this, but I've tried before and she always apologizes and then forgets about it two days later.

And when it's just her and I things are fine! We have a great time and everyone's happy and once again I've become the comedian between the two of us, (material she later steals from me to use in front of her flirting victims), but when it comes to boys I'm completly ignored and she's off in the corner creating some sort of drama. It's weird for me, because before I befriended her I was always the center of attention among the group. I was the loud, funny, loving one who everyone wanted to give hugs because I would gladly dish them out. And now it seems like nobody has any time for me because they all want to be with her. Like she's taken all of my friends, but still claims that I'm her best one.

What should I do? I know the most logical thing would be to stop being friends with her, but we've been together for so long and we have most of our friends in common with each other, so there really would be no way to avoid hanging out with her.

Well you can still be friends with her... but just go and make other friends as well so that she isn't the only friend that you have...

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any quick tips for getting my dogs to go to the bathroom outside?? or is it true, you cant teach an old dog new tricks?

hmm well I have the same problem but what I do is keep him in the kitchen and let him run around there only... but the way that I see it is that if u take newspaper and put it in one place all the time and let him pee there he'll get used to seeing the newspaper there.. then you can move the newspaper and he'll follow.. after awhile you should be able to get the newspaper outside and he'll get used to the scent and run outside and pee

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Hey, i think i can write this here, do any of you guys know a good website to download MSN Messenger 7 from? All my friends got it from all these different places, and their laptops have all slowed down. But chatting is a crucial part of a teenagers life, and i need to get the latest version!! HELP!!!

just go to MSN.com and download it there

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I am a 14 year old boy who will get a caniche toy poodle in less than two months and I am very, very happy about it but there is a problem. Waiting is killing me. Those two months seem like eternity for me. What do I do to make me feel like the time is going faster. Hope you know what I mean.
Any advice will be appreciated.

well just go on life like go play with your friends and go watch movies before you know it you'll have your dog!

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I go away to school and I have a little sister who I dont get a chance to see a lot. This past weekend, I came home but I didnt spend as much time with her as I should have. We got into a little fight and when I left, I didnt even say goodbye to her. Do you think she can forgive me?

yeah.. I mean your both sisters just talk to her one on one and apologize

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sorry this is so long but i REALLY need ALOT of help...please read it...=(

my friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me with TWO other girls..we dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT and her cousin goes to his school and said that he has other girlfriends. i love my boyfriend so much and just before she told me all this my boyfriend was on the phone telling me how much he loves me and stuff. i asked his friend about it because hes my really good friend too and he said he didnt know anything about it and he doesnt think my boyfriend would do something like that to me. i dont know. he wasnt home last night when i called so it kind of made me suspicious. i'm going to call him today and ask him about it but i dont know how to ask him. i dont know if i should believe him if he says no either. what if he is? i dont THINK my friend would lie to me, but i never even met her cousin. and lately my boyfriends kind of been blowing me off though to be honest. like hes too busy for me. so i dont know im really confused. i dont know like if he says no im not cheating on you if i should believe him because what if he is? but i dont think he would admit it if he was. not many guys would be like OH YEA I AM CHEATING! you know? please help me..

well get the facts ask the girls that he may be cheating on you with and ask them if they know that you are his real gf.. and if they don't then you all should gang up on him and be like ur scum!

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I have some friends that I used to know really well that I would talk to all the time, and we could talk about almost anything with each other; well not so anymore. And it seemed like all of a sudden we didnt talk. What happened and why? Is there anything I can do to reverse this?

Well one way you can reverse this is by calling them and asking them if you want to go to the movies and stuff.. and go to the mall w/e but the reason that this is happening is either it's harder for you guys to talk to just because they need some space

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ok this is a weird question and im guessing that no one knows but its worth a try i guess. i downloaded what i thought was "Lying from you" by Linkin Park.. but it wasnt that. I can't figure out what it is. I'm guessing its still by Linkin Park and whoever put it on the internet messed up the title. it sounds like them too. ok well i really like the song and i want to find out what it is! Heres the beginning of the song.

From the top to the bottom
bottom to top i stop
(some other stuff)
theres a place so dark you can't see the end
(and the only other thing i can make up 100%) clear is "The darkness holding me tightly"

thanks so much

Actually that is the song Forgotten it's a really good song and yes it is linkin park... uh if you want Lying from you just IM me Striker6909 and I can send you the real file ttyl =)

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OK there's this kid Nick who is really cute and yea i like him. He asked me out yesterday! and i have school tomorrow and like what do i do when i see him? i mean we are technically b/f and g/f but he hnags with the realli popular crowd im just popular so i dont really feel comfortable aroudn his friends. So my thing is... hwo do i approach him and what do i talk to him about? i mean he just broke up with his girlfriends 3 days ago and has a reputation for dating around and being kind of pressuring-ish... yea i know its sounds so thetic but idk if it'll work out. Any advice or comments plzzzzz

well you just talk to him like any regular person.. and since you guys are going out you can drag him out and talk to him... plus you should also try hanging out with him and his popular group because sometimes they aren't THAT bad of a crowd.. so just try it out

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what's the best way to whiten teeth?
my pearly whites could use a little lightening and i'd like to know what you all find to be the best way so that i can have my teeth in ship-shape in no time, thanks!

umm well besides brushing you can use that new oral whitening strips

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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!!

uhh i'm a guy but i'm pretty sure that if you read the directions to the box it might help a little bit more, also be careful cause u could may be be allergic to the tampon... so that could also be causing you pain

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There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it?

Well ask him out or talk to him online or send him a letter, sometimes indirect things help out... if you really like him tell him because that's the best thing to do

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i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do?

Well, I mean having a boyfriend can also be a good thing I mean it shouldn't be burden... you should ask him out because he'll be there for you during your tough times...

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QUICK!! does anyone know what the two little theater masks are called?

I think it's like comedy and tragedy... or happiness and drama... not sure hope that helped =/

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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like?

No, you should talk to him and try to make him understand that you don't like him the same way but that you want to be friends... after that he might be a little distant but he'll get over it

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