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I am in anal sex since few months and feeling quit normal. we do this atleast three four times a week.Is there any health risk involve in anal sex? Pls. reply.
im not guessing like many advicenators do, i know this as a fact...
anal sex is bad for your body, something is not suppose to be put up there and you seem to do it quite frequently. That is not what your body was amde for. It can cause constapation and HEMROIDS.
Also for the male companion, a serious issue. My sister's coworker got a testicle removed this year because while anal sex a piece of feces was unknowingly lodged inside his penis. He said he never felt a think until his testicle enlarged and grew sore from the infection. It was amputated. So if you are to have anal sex a condom still must be worn.
Lastly, stds are always a precaution for every sexually active individual.
good luck and have fun =]
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i have ben having this yellowish, borwnish discharge for the past 4 days. is this normal?
A change in color/texture of discharge can be a sign of a yeast infection or a sexually transmitted disease.
If you are a girl I would probably say it was a yeast infection, and STD if you are sexually action. Go to your gynocologist and have her examine it and Im sure with some vagisil or Clotrimazole & Betamethasone Dipropionate Cream (yes it is a very long name but it is what is on the bottle =]) will be proscribed and the abnormal discharge will soon go away. Make sure to be tested for chlymidia if you are sexually active.
Now if you are a guy then i would highly doubt that it is a yeast infection but it still may be an infection. Go to your doctor as soon as possible and im sure a few antibiotics will clear everything up. Although if you are teasted positive for an STD, well then that may take a bit more time to clear on up.
good luck =]
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sorry dont know what catagory this was. this is kind of embarssing. im a 13/f. i've been on my period for 2 years. and after first period was over i took off my pad and in a couple of hours i'd have moist on my underwear. i dont think its pee. so i keep a pad on all the time. i have to buy pads all the time. i told my mom once. she said it was ok. but please help i cant keep buying more pads all the time. sorry its kind of a gross quesion.
This is completely normal and almost every girl goes through it. This is just discharge, no big deal (but annoying i know). Although, an unhealthy amount can be signs of deeper issues like a yeast infection, or STD.
yeast infections are normal, they don't mean you are unhigentic almost every woman will get one at least once in their life. If you suspect one just go to the gynocologist and get some vaginal cream and it should clear up within a week or so.
If there are no other complications like excess redness, itch, or soreness then it is probably just discharge (which is most likely seeing that you didnt list anymore complications). In this case, here is a list of things that will cause or increase discharge production...
-Sexual excitement
-Emotional stress
-Ovulation (when you produce and release an egg from your ovary in the middle of your menstrual cycle)
-Extra estrogen (taking estrogen pills)
Now here are ways to avoid it...
-Keep your genital area clean and dry.
-Avoid douching. While many women feel cleaner if they douche after menstruation or intercourse, it may actually worsen vaginal discharge because it removes healthy bacteria lining the vagina that are there to protect you from infection.
-Use an over-the-counter cream or vaginal suppository, IF you know that you have a yeast infection.
-Try to reduce stress.
-Eat yogurt with live cultures or take Lactobacillus acidophilus tablets when on antibiotics to avoid a yeast infection.
-Use condoms to avoid catching or spreading sexually transmitted diseases.
-Keep your blood sugars under good control if you have diabetes.
good luck =]
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I have a friend that has balimia. and i really need to help her. but she doesn't want me to tell any one. How do I help if i cant say anything?
This is a serious issue, and do not worry I understand exactly where you are because i was bullimic as well, and ym sister helped me stop without telling anybody. Here are the best steps...
Act understanding, but never approving. As nicely or look around her room for a "thinsperation" book. This is a book of pictures of fat people or thin pretty models or even quotes. Get rid of it, it's deadly. A food tracking book should be disposed of as well.
catch her when you can, bust open the door and call her out. yell at her, tell her to get back to her room/seat now and look mad. then tell her that you are angry that she is still doing this and she needs to stop
Make her promise not to do it anymore, she most likely won't follow the promise but this gives you reason to be angry when you find bullimic symptoms again. believe me when my sister was amd at me, I felt bad and it pushed me to be better.
I know you don't want to lose her as a friend, but she can lose her life. I understand you won't tell anybody but you must threaten to tell. I NEVER would have stopped if I thought my sister would never tell. In the end her threats were what forced me to stop. She never did tell, but just the thought made me sick.
watch for signs of a purge. This would be taking in large amounts of water between each bite, bullimic girls do this to make the purging easier. Also, a complete binge where she eats crazy amounts of food fast, this is a sure way to lead to a purge. When you see that call her out, or just watch where she goes next.
Call her after dinner time. Call her after lunch. Call her cell everytime you think she might have just eaten or she might purge, keep her on for a little while and if she tries to hang up quick tell her she better not purge, or that you know.
take away all diet pills, or syrups used to make her throw up. Also any dieretics.
check her computer history for any pro ana/mia sites. alot of the links you need to look for can be found on a yahoo search of "ana's underground grotto" if she doesnt go to those sites, it will be easier to stop.
by this time she will feel a personal invasion of her privacy, but her telling you means she deep down wants to stop and wants somebody to care. always remember, she may not like you but she will get over it when she is cured, and love you even more. Talk to her about hewr feelings and show her the dangers with real facts and stories.
Remember that being nice and trusting will NOT help her, I used to be bullimic and I had friends who tried, but they were too afraid of me hating them to care. Follow these tips and if after a few months she is still on the same path, you have to tell somebody im sorry it just would have to happen.
please follow up and tell me how things are going, or if you ahve any additional questions remember i ahve been through this myself. lots of luck and love
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Does anyone know where i can get some good pics and info on denny duquette/ jeffrey dean morgan from grey's anatomy. He is the heart patient who died on the finale. I am doing a report on TV stars and connections to the roles they play. I looked on google, but i cant seem to find much. Anyone know somewhere good to look?
Thanks.
i searched for a while and i agree, this was really difficult. But i did manage to gather up some pictures, here are the links...
these are scenes from Grey's Anatomy: (i don't really like these pictures but i decided to give you everything i found.) ::
http://abc.go.com/primetime/greysanatomy/images/gallery/17seconds/gallery.html?photo=1
http://abc.go.com/primetime/greysanatomy/images/gallery/17seconds/gallery.html?photo=3
http://abc.go.com/primetime/greysanatomy/images/gallery/17seconds/gallery.html?photo=5
http://abc.go.com/primetime/greysanatomy/images/gallery/17seconds/gallery.html?photo=1
http://abc.go.com/primetime/greysanatomy/images/gallery/superstition/gallery.html?photo=2
THESE ARE GOOD PICTURES! ::
http://images.google.com/images?q=jeffrey+dean+morgan+&hl=en&btnG=Search+Images
http://www.variety.com/graphics/photos/mugm/morgan_jeff.jpg
http://www.burningzone.bravehost.com/pictures/morgan.jpg
http://www.geocities.com/rygel_wolfe/burningzone/jeffreydeanmorgan.jpg
http://www.thanksgivingfilms.com/feature/images/Cast_Morgan.jpg
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Hey people :D
I recently bought TWO tanning lotions, Natusan Holiday Skin, and Dove summer glow, now I was just wondering - how do you apply these? Can you use them on your face´? And if not, what do you do to make your face the same colour as your skin? Anything to think about?
Thaaank yoOu!
I am HUGE fan of tanning lotions and can help you out here.
To apply:
1. take a hot shower, shave your legs and exfoiliet your skin (basically that means scrub off the dead skin)
-- you must do this to open up the pores, and make sure the lotion doent just coat your leg hair or dead skin because then it will look blotchy and discolored.
2. EVENLY apply it all over your body, don't miss any spots or you will have white blotches. Use a circular motion instead of a straight rub to avoid streaks.
3. Wait until it dries on your body before putting on clothing, thyen put on loose clothing.
4. Use tanning lotion before bed so when you wake up, your tan. They take a while to set in completely.
For your face:
1. go to the store and find special tanning lotion for your face. I use jergens face tanner. Regular tanning lotion can be used, but i have found it to look blotchy and uneven because the skin on your face always reacts differantly then that on your arms and such. Tanner made for your face is always even and looks natural, apply it lightly in a circular motion.
good luck tanning =]
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whats a toning Body Balm, what does it do?
Toning body balm helps improve skin’s vitality while moisturizing and certain kinds have collegen in them that are suppose to make your skin firmer, but i sincerely doubt they make that much of a difference. for the most part, they are a strong moisterizer, a step up from body lotion. Put it on before bed instead of during the day because body balm is always more oily and thick.
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this is going to sound really dumb but if you use tampons then is it posible that sex wont pleasure you if you're constantly putting something up you're vagina every month?? just wondering
of course not. The pleasure in sex is from the clitoris, which is not directly inside the vagina or where a tampon should be placed. So tampons have absolutely no effect on the pleasure of sex.
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i want to ask this boy to prom. however he has told other people that he does not go to school functions & isn't going to prom (he doesn't know i want to ask him though). should i still ask? i think it would be awfully embarassing if he said no & i would feel awkward around him after. however there is no one else to ask & this is very last minute (prom is may 13th) & i want to do it before this weekend ends. some people say it's wrong to do over the phone & it's better to do in person, others say it it's OK. so first of all do you think i should risk asking him? & also, is it bad to do over the phone because i won't see him this weekend? thanks!
Asking a person to prom over the phone can be good or bad considering the relationship between the two. If you and this boy talk on the phone often just to talk then casually mentioning it would be fine, and saveyou embaressment since it was during a conversation. But if you and this boy do not often talk on the phone or have long conversations over the phone i would suggest in person would be best. This way, you can read his reaction and be able see if it is a yes or no before he answers.
Now when asking, since this boy seems to think the whole concept is lame, act casual and carefree. mention that you don't have a date and prom is coming up and you know he isn't into that kind of thing but it would really mean alot to you, and that he would be going to a big party i mean how bad could it be? If you are not incredibly close with him, then in person will make him more likely to say yes because it will be more personal.
Now when you say "should i ask him" the answer is yes. Because think of this, the worst that happens is that he says no, ok shrug it off and he will too. But when he says yes you will have a prom date and have a wonderful prom night to remember. AND you will have a closer relationship with this boy. But if you don't ask, you simply go to prom alone and slow dance with the wall? You have nothing to lose but everything to gain! have fun prom night!
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my face is oily but whenever i have foundation or concealer on my forehead, it seems like its peeling, like i can see the little skin peeling off.. but its not alot.. what is this and how do i get rid of it? i use mosturizer so i dont know.. and also how can i get rid of the oil on my forehead?
Here are some steps to take, which can restore moisture to your skin:
1. In the morning, just splash cool water or use a moisturizing toner and apply moisturizer. Because cleansers can strip away sebum and natural moisturizing factors from your skin, washing at night gives your skin time to replenish itself, before you need to face outside elements, such as wind, cold, and sunlight. Morning scrubs don't give your dry skin time to recover its defenses before you go outside.
2. Washcloths can further irritate your skin, so you should avoid using them. When drying off, pat your skin, rubbing can irritate dry skin.
3. Avoid using astringents and clarifying lotions on your face
These products contain alcohol and can irritate dry skin.
4. Saunas and steam baths can make you sweat, and sweat can leach out natural moisturizing factors in your skin, leaving your skin drier than it was before. so avoid those.
5. Use nuetralizing powders to reduce the oil. Clean & Clear blue face powder absorbs excess oil and works really well, but don't worry ir blends with your skin you will not look blue at all.
good luck =]
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is lake water bad for acne?
There is absolutely no reason for lake water to be bad for your skin. It will not dry your skin out because lake water does not have salt in it like ocean water does. Lake water is merely water mixed with sand, plants, and algae (sounds gross, but it's true) and none of the above are known to cause acne. In fact, lake water may be good for your skin because it refreshes the pores as the water flows into, and lifts the dirt out of your pores.
so no worries =]
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Ok so I knoow about cinco de mayo and stuff but what the hell is 4 20???????? I am so confused.. I know it's the 20th of april but is there some reason it's celebrated or something...and what exactly is it?
national marijana day.
ya its basically a day for the potheads =P It is 4 20 because the illegal offense of having marijana is number 420 in the police academy handbook.
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When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??
much lovee
lila
you never mentioned she was put for adoption when she was seven, so i hardly understand why you thought it was okay to wreck my rating.
whatever it's not that big of a deal. good luck with your sister. she was probably just set back a bit so give her some time and be patient, and you know how myspace is maybe she didnt get it.
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I am possibly thinking about going on an airplane in the near future and would like your advice/opinions about Airplanes. I would like to know who has been on one, How do you like flying, What do you love about Flying, what do you hate about flying and what advice you would give to me if I were to fly. Feel free to answer my question and really good advice in great detail will get a 5.
First of all it is important that you understand that rumors about airplanes being unsafe are completely untrue, especially since 9/11. you have absolutely nothing to worry about with fellow passangers i travel often and the security is unbelievable. And you might go through some turbulance, it is scary because the plane shakes a bit but you must trust me that it is normal and the pilots are trained to drive in such conditions. So do not think bad thoughts while aboarding, or on the plane because they are unbelievably safe. safer then a car, boat, or train according to statistics in the New York Times.
Now i just felt that was necessary to add because when i first started using planes as transportation i was a bit nervous about these issues. now for the ups and downs of airplanes.
Ups.
- Airplanes are extremely safe and a comfortable way to travel.
- I wouldn't be the only one to say i love airplane food. ahaha it really is good.
- with a good book, music, or a movie they play for your entertainment you are completely relaxed and do not get motion sickness like you would in a car.
- the pillows and chairs were made to be the as comfortable as possible, and they are!
- looking out the window is always more interesting when your looking down on everything.
- the airports have tons of stores you can go eat at or shopping at while waiting at the airport, they have everything!
downs.
- Since the security is so thurough, it takes a very long time of waiting and carrying around your luggage, in fact i would suggest leaving for the airport 3 hours before aboarding your plane.
- sometimes the airport will lose your luggage, it happens. But it will be returned to you within a couple days.
- The toilets tend to suck the water down really quickly and loud, so don't be scared.
- sometimes you have to share the plane with, well, annoying people.
- If you are easily scared, the turbulence might bother you a little bit.
- YOUR EARS WILL POP. SO BRING GUM TO CHEW ON.
have fun on your ride and wherever you are going. good luck =]
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is there anyway to improve my running so and can get faster?? i'm an outfielder for softball and the only way i'll be able to start varsity is if i can cover more ground any help is appreciated
throughout my years on cross coutnry and a top ompetetor on my shool's track team i have some advice for you that has worked for me for years. Improving speed is easily doen, but it takes some time. When you exerise,whih should be everyday for quikest results, you should run long distance. at least a mile and a half a day, but that is the very least. Run one a day. This works beause the musles start to grow and get stronger, also your ardio improves.
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ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:
cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g
woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)
ill rate 5s for anything!!
mucho love
oh yeah and my sn is CutiSammy and his is Jeffinthe313..lol just so you know!
Before you reject my advice i want to tell you that i once had an abusive bf. And he was absolutely wonderful all the time, unless i upset him then he went off the wall. First it started off when i got mad and tried to break up with him, he verbally abused me and i thought about telling somebody or really getting away from him but i remembered he was always really good to me before this so i blew it off, he said he was just upset. RThen overtime if i upset him, it got worse. He would threaten me, verbally abuse me, but he always appologized and promised he would never hit me or hurt me. Then one day he tried to push my off of a high railing and when he failed, pushed my down 2 stories of stairs. I broke my arm, anle, and had bruises all over. I was 15. [im 15 now still, but it happened 8 months ago] So please do not think this will not happen to you, that he is always sweet, if he really meant this then he has issues you have to separate yourself from, because these issues are real.
this really is not normal, in fat it is downright scary. But before taking any action be sure to talk to him in person and ask if he is serious, or tell him again you want to break up with him or "take soem time off". observe his reaction and if it is the same, you an't help him. To really mean that means he has serious mental issues and it is important that you understand that you cannot help him. It is important to take this conversaton as proof and go to the social worker's office at your school. This is the only thing you can do to handle this safely. But remember, before any course of action talk to him in person, eye to eye.
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When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?
NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what
It is only fair that you give anybody deserving a 5. Even though they may have not been as good as the 5th person they were still helpful and deserving, just leave some nice feedback for the 5th person. =]
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ok well how do u flirt with a guy..like i kind of know how but im like not pro on it..so does anyone kno any good tips for flirting and to get a guy to notice you?
thanks
first of all, get his attention at any given chance. Ask for a pen/pencil or if the whole class is laughing look at him and smile/laugh. Guys love attention.
next, when you are talking to him in a small group or one on one find an excuse to touch him. when laughing lean forward and touch his chest and/or if he is wearing a necklace touch it and compliment it. same goes for a shirt, touch it and compliment it. one compliment at a time though, you want to sound sincere. This works because when you touch a guy or get closer they automatically feel closer to you.
establish relationships as friends and such and give them hugs when you say good bye or hello. again, if you touch a guy they automatically feel an instant bond.
and finally, the obvious. laugh at his jokes, act carefree and nice around him, reconize him, touch him, joke around with him such as "lookin' sexay today ahaha" with a smile on your face so he knows your joking. All of the following are considered flirting, and the most effective flirting tools you'll find.
good luck!
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i've asked a lot of question about weight loss
but did anyone see the wrestling true life on mtv? not exactly what the title actually was, but with the kid that tricked his body into thinking that he was having three full meals, by having a piece of a power bar every few hours. does that actually work? i know it's not the healthiest route, but that if you starve yourself your body will go into starvation mode, and your metabolism slows down, etc, etc. would tricking your metabolism help you lose a ton of weight without like... dying?
thank you.
no no no this does not work. Sure you can only have a few bites of protien a day but it will not trik your body. You will have metabolism issues and your body will go into starvation mde beause you are not taking in enough calories per day.
Also, your body will not have enough nutrients. You will be weak, hungry, and one you start to eat normally again fat beause your body is in starvation mode. Not to mention the fact that protien bars are all protien, which is often turned into fat.
If you really want to lose weight don't go this route, just eat tons of vegetables and go running for 30 min everyday. This is absolutely sure to make you melt away pounds quickly and actually make your metabolism faster! The protien bar method is just an easy way out that doesn't even work and will have you ending up fat with a slow metabolism. The old fashion way is the way that works.
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I have just recently started uni and for the first few weeks i actually made a lot of friends. Everything went so well and we had a lot of laugh for the first few weeks, it seems like all the friends i've made are actually my best friends. However things has gone a little bit sour afterwards, some of those friends of mine begin to talk less to me like as if i am becoming too boring for them. They begin to hang around other people who are more interesting and more funny.
These kind of things have happened to me since high school, i get along so well with people at the begining but then things get shytter later on. Is this because of something that i might have said or do? its like one day they know me well and the next they are like who are you do i know you? -_-. Or maybe i don;t share something in common with them? that they get bored of me? it hard to talk directly to them because they would just make up any lame excuses.
For some others i see their friendships build up really strong and they can actually maintain it for a very long time and they always do things together.
Why can;t i be like that? being able to maintain friendship for a long time with others and to share your good times, bad times and sad times together. i always get cut off somewhere during the line and it is really irritating.
Plz give me some advice on how to build a stronger friendship, i appreciate it.
I understand your problem and believe me you are not alone. Here are some tips on maintaining a friendship...
1) Give the person space, let them breathe a little bit or they may get tired of you. It's nothing against you, people just need to breathe every once and a while.
2) Don't talk yourself down like "funnier people then me" because if you say it, people will believe it. Be yourself don't feel pressure to change.
3) Spill some secrets about yourself, it will make the other person feel better about sharing their secrets with you. Once they know something personal about you a closer relationship is established. But do not rush into it too soon or the person may not be trusting enough to know your secrets.
4) Even when they start to get distant, give them some time then jump right back into the friendship again. Act like everything is normal because if you act like it's awkward, he/she will feel awkward.
5) Sleepovers are god-sent. they are a chance for one on one ontat and deep conversations. Sleepovers are the differances between good friends and best friends so invite some of them over and have a fun time!
good luck!
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