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FaMiLy FrEnZy
When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??
much lovee
lila
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Congratulations on finding your sister. If you have been talking a little bit that's the first step to rebuilding your relationship with her. I assume a lot has happened in your lives since you've last been together. In addition you may not know what her adoptive parents are like, maybe they are the ones that are apprehensive about her reconnecting with her bio family. She might be just a bit uncertain of how to react because of things they've told her and so on. Nothing against you of course, it might just be the environment she is now living in. Take your time to get to know her again, the more you find you have in common the stronger your sisterhood will grow. I think it's great how the internet can bring long lost family together again. Even if you have a casual relationship at least it's a start!
Best wishes to you :-)
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Just give it time and tell her that you are her sister and give ehr information about yourself, like favorite hobby, color, etc. Soon you might find a message that says, "Hey! I'm into acting too! That's so cool!" and it will all kick off from there. She might just be busy and maybe she's off starring in her own TV show or something awesome like that! Also, when did she last update her my space. When I used to have one of those I didn't even look at it for weeks at a time.
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I have an idea. When you go to the home page click the sent button and check if it says read next to it.
If it does and she didn't reply send her another message.
Explain to her you want to talk to her since she is your sister.
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Give her a little while, I mean who knows maybe she doesn't even know that she's adopted.. possibility. Or maybe she's just scared that one of her long lost siblings has found her and it's all happening so fast.
Hope I helped and Goood Luck!
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Give her a couple of days to let it soak in. She may be at a loss as to what to say to you.
If you don't hear anything from her in a couple of days write her back and give her a little more info and a some way to contact you.
You don't say how old she was when she got adopted. If she was very much younger than you, it could be possible that she knows nothing about it.
Hope it goes well for you and that she contacts you soon. :)
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Don’t jump to conclusions; she probably just hasn’t gotten your message. Also she could have been trying to answer back but couldn’t, this could happen if you profile was going under "Routine Maintenance" this happens to all profiles and it sucks, but just be patient if a week passes send her another message maybe she didn’t get the first one.
Hope I helped and good luck =)
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hey, she may not know what to do because she was so startled. this is a big thing to have your long lost sister to just send you a message. give her some time to think about whether she wants to reply or not. she may or may not reply. best of luck! cait♥
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you never mentioned she was put for adoption when she was seven, so i hardly understand why you thought it was okay to wreck my rating.
whatever it's not that big of a deal. good luck with your sister. she was probably just set back a bit so give her some time and be patient, and you know how myspace is maybe she didnt get it.
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Well your not sure she got it...so if she has an e-mail e-mail her! I hope ya'll are all good and reunite
Good luck
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