this is for my friend but i'll put in a point of view so its like 1st person so its like her typing it
So i like this guy who is desprate for a girlfriend. He would do just about anything. Anyway I really like him and I want to ask him out. He will say yes just because he is desprate. Do you think this is right? I want something real not a lie. I'll rate (well my friend will but w/e) so thanks.
honestly, none of us woulda known if you'd missed the first comment... but that's besides the point. tell her to follow her heart. but to be careful that he doesn't use her. or take advantage of her...
and she may come of as more desperate than him to everyone else... but that shouldn't matter because she really likes him, right?
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine
grab a guy friend, snuggle with him. repeat when necessary. if he doesn't get the message then... make a sign with very large letters explaining it
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hey!! i have a chance to try out for my high school musical (i'm in 8th). It requires singing and dancing, so i definitely have a chance with the dancing part. but with the singing, i'm not bad but there are a couple of better people. does any one have any tips on what i can do... like projection, that sort of thing. thanks!
ok, it may sound weird, but practice talking with a pen held horizontally between your teeth, talk loud and try to make your words understandable. it helps with projection and annunciation
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ok theres this guy i went out with and he dumped ne after three weeks, its a complicated story but basicly it just wasnt a good time for him to have a girl friend so he said we could go out again in a few months. well since then ive known three girl friends of his (that he went out with after me) and so who knows how many hes had... but the thing is im still totally in love with him but he doesnt notice me or talk to me so its not one of those things where we talk all the time and i can just start flirting with him and hope he starts to like me. what can i do to try to make him like me? please help!
play hard to get, guys want what they can't have.
by the way, although you didn't ask for it, this guy sounds like a crappy boyfriend. he dumped you for the wrong reasons. which were lies, he seemed ready enough to have other girl friends. why not you? spend your time with someone who's going to appreciate you...
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I finally came up with an idea on a gift for my boyfriend on Christmas. I was going to get him a custom sweatshirt that had the following on it: Proud Member of JT1 and on the back it say Your Friendly Movie Viewer: TIM. JT1 is a group of my boyfriend and all of his friends that goes to the movies EVERY Friday. My only delema is I don't know where I can go to get it custom made. I went to this site: http://www.customink.com and the site kept shutting down and messing up my computer. I do not want to use the iron on letters because knowing me, I'll mess it up. Does anyone know of any companies that can make one custom sweatshirt without you having to buy in bulk? Thank you so much if you can help!
i think cafepress.com...
or check around here:
www.livejournal.com/community/t_shirt_surgery
or maybe
www.livejournal.com/community/craftgrrl
you can always try a stencil too... i hear they're pretty easy to use too
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ok i am an awesome bball player but i get nervous when boys come and watch me play.. im afraid they will laugh if i miss a sot or somthin....what should i do...help me and FAST
just think, ten years from now, are you really gonna care if they laugh?
besides, if you're not trying your hardest, they may think less of you than if you tried your hardest and missed a few...
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Dear Advice People Givers:
Hey! Ok, I'm confused. See, I'm 14 & I wanna do something REALLY bad! Like see, here's the thing though.. I'm not really sure how to kiss a guy though.. I mean.. when I got my 1st kiss, it wasnt at all wat I wanted it 2 be. It was kinda one of those "in the moment" type deals. I kno I'm just 14 but is that 2 young? And is there a "wrong" way to kiss some1? Please help. I rate 5's to anybody. So you could say something like, "Sup?" and I'd still rate you, but PLEASE give advice!!
-Stephanie-
that's not too young, and i'd like to say, i'm glad you're not asking us how to go farther, it's nice to see someone with a nice set of morals and all that. congrats!
as long as your lips aren't stone and you're not slobbering, you're good to go.
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my boyfriend seems like hes my life i cant stop ever thinking about him and i always talkt o him on the phone and on AIM but now my grades are failing and my mom and dad says that if i dont get my grades up my life will be a living hell!!! there really strict on my grades! i dont know what i should do how do i jugle my boyfriend and school? also my friends?!!! also my boyfriend lives right next door thats why i see him so much!! thank you~!
set aside a special time all for him every night, for phone calls, aim, dinner, dates, whatever. but after that slot of time has elapsed, do your homework and all that. two hours a night is plenty of time to see your boyfriend, and if you have extra time after your homework, you can see more of him.
if you get your homework done right after you get home, you can get a whole night's worth of time with him.
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how many pairs of jeans do u think a girl should own?
you don't really need hundreds or anything... 2, maybe 3 should do it... like the basic jeans, you know? not the "embroidered super faded acid wash" kinds... but the jeans you can wear with anything
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Hello, I'm 16 years old and I'm female. Let me start off by saying I hate the phrase "Let's just be friends." My best friend is one of those types of people who's actions very easily deceive you. I love him so much, and it hurts so bad. We hold hands, hug all the time, even say "I love you". But he says that to everyone. It's so hard because I'm confusing platonic love with "real" love. I take his gestures seriously though, and I really do love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. He likes someone else, but he is currently single. Should I even bother trying? Am I too young to even be thinking about love? What should I say to him? Thank you so much!
you're not too young... you're never too young for love, sometimes you're just too young for consequences.
don't stop trying, you guys could be perfect for each other and you can never know until you try.
since he's single, that's a definite plus...
some time, you could just say 'i love you' and when he says it back, say 'no, really.' then a quick hug/kiss/whatever and wait for the reaction...
best of luck
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I have a problem. It seems like I get nervous for everything! In track, I get extremely nervous before an event. In school, I get so nervous to take tests and do oral skits. Is there anything I can do to help? Thanks
best i can think of is to be prepared for it, so that way there's fewer doubts on your mind. and remind yourself that you can do whatever you set your mind to. and all that.
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i am a female and i am 13. i really like this kid evan(male, 13). and we were at a party a couple of weeks ago and he was like hugging me a lot and flirting with me. i didnt like him then but when i was upset because the boy i did like, david kissed my best friend and i started crying and then evan started telling me i could do better than him and hugging me really tight and close to him. now i like evan, and my friend asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said no, which really confussed me cause we were friends and we always flirted in the hall but he wouldnt go out with me now? we arent in the same class but i see him alot in the hallways, i dont get it.. what can i do to get him to like me? im going to a party saturday and i really want to impress him.
now, i don't want to say that you don't love him, but you don't.
he felt bad for you. most guys can't handle girls tears. some guys flirt when they're uncomfortable. that may have been what he was doing.
i'm actually rather surprised that you don't have a problem with your best friend letting your crush kiss her. i mean, backstabbing to the max.
anyway, play a lil' hard to get, guys want what they can't have. if all else fails, use the tried and true: just walk up to him and kiss him. if chemistry doesn't work on some persuasive level, not much will
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Um, is there like an actual way to play darts? Or do you just throw them really hard at the board? If there is an actual way...what is it?
yeah, there's a scoring system based on the rings and the colors of them... i don't know the point values for all of them off hand, but they should be on the board. aim, add, and find out who wins.
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wht do you do when you go to a school dance and your frined gets asked out but you dont. I just have a question because on the same night of the dance i see my ex-boyfriend slow dancing with this really mean girl lets call her marissa and he deserves so much better.I still have huge feeling for my ex and i just felt so depressed after that. i will rate a 5 for anyone who gives me good advice.,
um, first: you be happy for that friend.
if you're depressed about your ex, try talking to him about it, if he refuses to listen or claims he still likes marissa, you have to let him go. you don't want to seem obssesive or anything like that.
if it still hurts to think about him, only time and possibly chocolate can really help. every heartache takes time to heal.
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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time can somebody please help me!!
if you're still in love, keep dating. if one of you isn't sure, take a break. follow your heart.
however, if deep down you have some small percent of you that doesn't want to be with him, give it time.
maybe you don't really know what you want yet.
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I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore.
she's doing it for attention. she wants to be noticed and since the most effective way to do so is to get negative attention. try talking to her. tell her that everyone thinks she's a slut. if she doesn't get this talk at twelve, she'll be out of control by 16. save her while ya still have the chance
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im 16/f
my parents offerd to by me a car. whats a good 1?
depends, are they buying you new or used? is it limited by a certain price? or perhaps a certain company...
generally, anything toyota is a safe bet, they run well and don't fall apart, and all that. the new scion things seem to be getting pretty popular, and they run amazingly well.
happy car shopping!
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help
trust me, by now, he knows.
be nice to the poor kid, all he ever did was like you.
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I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...
it sounds like he likes you, go ahead and tell your friends that you're starting to see him differently, maybe he's holding back from acting on any emotions on his part because he's afraid they're unreturned
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I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help
don't let his past affect your future. he didn't want to hurt you, and he still doesn't. he just wants you to accept him. so accept him already. he's not pressuring you into anything, at least not that you mentioned, so let it go.
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