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I've been dating this guy for a little while now. almost 4months n i want to do more with him then just make out with him. I talked to him about it and he says he feels the same way but he never does anything about it. What should i do??
* mmee (link)
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well maybe you have to be the one who is the first to do more, be in charge, do what you want to do. no matter what he would like what you do because he really likes you =) xox
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i think that i am pregnant but i don't know! I don't wanna buy a pregnancy test cause i am only 15! I don't wanna go to the doctor because they may tell my parents! If i am pregnant should i abort my baby or just live with it? Please help i am soooo scared! (link)
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dont get an abortion if you are pregnant, go to a drug store and buy a pregnancy test and take it, do it more than once because they might not always be correct, and dont think your too young to buy one, who cares about what other people think, your being responsible to find out the truth aren't you!?! if you go to the doctors its confidental and they will not tell your parents, you have to. xox
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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest?? (link)
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um lets see, you can cut up some food and eat it =) dont cut your wrists or anything, i dont think this is the place thats going to help you commmit sucide.. yea so dont do it, try punching a pillow or throwing things, it doesn't cause harm to yourself which is good, dont do it.
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Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please! (link)
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planned parenthood, they tell you information on pretty much all of that stuff, and i'm sure that theres other girls that have gone thru it there and possibly you can talk to them, its a helpful place. you can call there or go there to seek help. xox
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A few months ago, I started masturbating. Last month I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Now, I looked somewhat inflammed "down there" and it doesnt look the same. Is something wrong with me? And if so whats a quick fix? Is it okay for my boyfriend to still give me oral? Pleasee help me!
Kasey, 20 female (link)
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i would say go to the gynocologist, they know everything that has to do with 'down there', hopefully its nothing bad, but wait until you do go there until you do anything else with your boyfriend. xox
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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
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i wouldn't go back out with him because your just a back up for him when he doesn't have everyone else, and i dont think you should because you cant just wait around for him and getting your feelings hurt everytime you guys break up, you both are better off as friends just being there for eachother is the best thing anyone could ever have. xox
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ok so i cant stop throwing up everytime i eat .. im so scared i cant help it and i dont wanna tell no one i cry all the ime bc of it and im deprsses i weigh lik 60 punds and im 14[age] 5'4[height] i need help XOXOXOXOX (link)
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you only weigh 60 pounds =/ oh jeez you need to eat girl ! thats one of the worst eating disorders to have, thats horrible, theres a place where you can go to get help, you need to tell your parents unless they already know, you need to know no matter what, because your putting yourself in danger every time you do that. and if you do tell people you wont feel like crying because they can help you, you need to talk to someone about this, this is really bad for your body. xox
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I have this boyfriend and we have been together for a while now. And all my friends know how much me means to me. Well despite that he does weed and drinks aften. But he knows that I dont do that type of thing and so you know he dont ask and wont do it around me. Well the other day my friend was reading his lj and it was saying how he got messed up by doing that and drinking everclear. Well she was freaking out thinking that I did that stuff too. I told her I didnt and I wont. But she told me she dont believe that. And she was telling me how even though you maynot its a big deal that it really is and that he could presher me into doing it. But he really would NEVER do that. So I dont know what to do. Now she wont even talk to me. =/ Someone please help! (link)
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i dont see why she doens't believe you, shes your friend! she should believe anything you say, especially when its about yourself, she should come to realize that you wouldn't do that type of stuff, she should know you well enough! wait until she comes around, or tell her to ask your boyfriend if you do anything like that, or any one else. then she should believe you when other people agree with you. xox
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everyone tells me how pretty i am, and all the guys say im pretty hott, but i still dont have a boyfriend. it makes me angry because they lead me on sayin all this shit like i like you alot i wanna go out with you BLAH BLAH BLAH! but they never do..do you think its me like my personality or what!? I WILL TAKE ANY ANSWER YOU GIVE ME! [ex-oh-ex-oh] xo (link)
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hmm thats pretty weird, remember - boyfriends aren't everything!, but they shouldn't lead you on, and if they do, you know what, you lead them on, because i know how it feels to be lead on and then just like left there! its shitty. but idk, maybe it is your personality? but guys shouldn't just like you because your hott, its just a plus for them haha, but they should lke you for who you are, not what you look like! xox
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Okay,well my boyfriend is 16 and im 14 and my boyfriend really wants to make out with me but I have never had a real boyfriend like this before and I have never "made out" with anyone before. And I have no idea what to do! I mean its not like I dont want to its just that i'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something.What should I do?? (link)
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hey! if you guys are in a realationship that both of your can be yourselves around eachother, then you know what! do what you think is right, even if you do it wrong your bf wont make fun of you or anything, because he will understand! he'll take lead usually and just follow, you'll get the hang of it after a while, but most of the time dont worry about it at all, hes your bf and you shouldnt be embarassed about anything.
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well.... ok i havent had my period yet and im not conf. with talkin about it so when i tell my mom what should i say (when i get it)
and i want to wear thongs but idk what my mom will say... im like i said unconf. with this stuff! please help! thanks!
*Me (link)
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when you do get your period tell your mom that youve gotten your period and that she'll have to buy you tampons/pads, and thongs, its all pretty much up to what your mom thinks, because some people that i know they wont let their kids wear them because they think their 'sluttyish' and others they dont really care as long as they dont show 'em off which is once again pretty slutty. xox
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i need help
i think im fat and everyone thinks im crazy how do i lose weight .. i weigh 96 pounds im female im 14 and im 5'0 .. i just really want a flatter stomach u know ? (link)
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everyone is right! you are crazy! haha i'm just jokin, but your perfect size!! thats pretty much where i was last year when i was 14, and i knew for a fact i'm not fat now or even before, but i thought that i could tone up my body a bit, like right now, i'm 106 lbs, 5'2 and i'm 15 and i just have a lil gut, well kinda not really, just like bellow my bellie button that like wont go away, but i knew if i did work out (like doing crunches and ab stuff) it will go away, but if you work out, you'll feel more self consince about your body and you wont think your fat when you know that your not! lol xox
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ok so i want this guy to like me and im starting to get mad that he dosent lol .. i mean he says he thinks im hot and he likes me so i jsut dont get it .. HELP ME PLEASE XOXOXO (link)
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lol you cant MAKE someone like you, it just happens on their own, well.... you can help him to get him to notice you.. hmm.. you seem like your friends with him are you? if not, try talking to him, find out what he likes and dislikes.. see what you both have in common and start off from there, then he'll start to see that you guys have alot in common and things might work out, then you can ask him out!! oOoOhhhh lol, see what he likes and try to get his attention! xox Renee
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ok so i wanna know when i getting my period and when im gonna get boos ..i know theis sounds disgusting put ill tell u what has been going on with me ..... so i`ve had these bumps in my boobs for a while i thought they were cancer lol but i ahd them for like 2 in a hlaf years almost .. and i hjad pubic hair for a while and dischagre! will i ever get my period or boobs (link)
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aw hun i would def get them bumps checked out, that doesn't sound healthy =/ .. but i would def say that you should be getting your period pretty soon! and boobs, after youve had your period for like idk, maybe half a year, you'll start to see changes in your body aka youll get boobs. should be happening soon i would think! xox
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i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her? (link)
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talk to your friend about it sometime after school, just tell her that your worried about her and scared, your just being a good friend showing that you care by talking to her, be honest thats the best you can do! xox
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ok well i have a boyfriend and everything and i love him, but lately ive been talking to this other guy whos liked me since this past summer, and im starting to like him, and he knows this, but my boyfriend has no idea about whats going on.. he gets suspicious and asks me if i like him but i tell him to not worry about it. i like both these guys a lot and i dont know what to do. when im with my boyfriend he makes me feel like im a princess, but when im with the other guy, i feel totally comfortable with myself.. i dont want to hurt either one of them but when it comes down to it, i know i have to. Help Me Please! ive done everything i can to try to make up my mind but nothing seems to work. (link)
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you already have a boyfriend ! your hurtting him by actually just liking another guy, i would feel horrible just lying to him, def stick with your boyfriend hun, its the best thing to do, even tho you like the other guy, but just tell him to wait until you guys break up, or at least break up with your boyfriend before you start to like both of the guys ALOT. xox
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I like this boy alot..we have dated before..and we broke up. I still like him alot..But whenever i tell him how much i like him he says I like you as a friend. And normally i break down and cry a ton when this happens. One of his friends still thinks he likes me but im not to sure. He doesnt look at me in the halls at school and he never says hi to me. But this New Year Eve we were throwing stuff at eachother but we never talked..And we talk online sometimes but i dont know...and I gave him a picture of me for Christmas a year ago (we werent going out this christmas) and he still has it up at his house and I was wondering since his mom thinks I'm annoying and hates me that maybe thats why he wont go out with me? and do you think he could possibly like me still?
sorry its so long... (link)
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from what it seems, i dont think he likes you i'm sorry, but hey! i dont know for sure! just think about the better things, your friends with him, just try not to like him more than a friend, just try to be really good friends with him, and maybe try to get his mom to like you, maybe his mom not liking you has just a little thing to do with him not liking you, sorry hun xox Renee
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ok well im 13/f and im in 8th grade....my boyfriend Elias just recently broke up with me and i have NO CLUE why!?...all of his friends ( wich are also mine) are telling me all sorts of reasons, but i havnt heard one from him yet?! i still really really like him, and im really trying to move on but its not working! he keeps saying all this mean stuff about me behind my back and telling my friends, who tell me. he dosnt know that i know what hes saying, and im getting really pissed that he keeps saying all this crap! but i still really like him and i dont know why. like i said, we were dating for 4 months and then he just randomly broke up with me =( what should i do?? (link)
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confront him, ask him why he broke up with you, and if he says i dont know then be like 'yo why are you saing all this mean stuff about me behind my back?!' thats rude of him, def confront him about it, theres gotta be a reason behind this, because if this just happened out of the blue thats a bit strange? and i dont think the reason he broke up with you had anything to do with his friends because they are also your friends, i dont know, myabe you both were better off as friends (it seems like you guys were really good friends before you went out) but confront him! xox Renee, i hope you find out why
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ya well i have this friend and we used to be soo close and now i feel like were drifting apart becuase were in differnt schools and shes always hanging out with this other girl who she says she hates and i really dont know if we should be friends anymore becuase were drifting apart and she doesnt even realize im there!! -help! (link)
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hey listen i'm sorry that you and your friend seem like you both are drifting apart, maybe you can try to hang out with her again, have her over for a sleepover? its a nice way to catch up with things, dont worry about her friendthat she says doesn't like you, trust me its not a big deal i had to go thru it too. try that sleepover =) xox Renee
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okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
just not the same* (link)
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well he's your friend, you shouldn't see him differently beacuse he's gay. theres pretty much nothing for you to do to change the way that he is.. even if hes talking to a guy and you think its flirting or if he was, it shouldn't be a big deal to both of you, beacause thats the way he is, xox Renee
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