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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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hey baby u have a big nose.

glad you think so. have a nice day. ♥

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heyy, i decided to ask you this question, cecause it seems like you have a lot of experience with a lot of things. i'm 13, and i'm going out with this really nice kid, and he's on my friends baseball team. his parents are at a lot of the games, and he is SUPERRRR shy, and he calls me and tells me he loves me on the phone and stuff, but he never says by to me at the games, and thats the only time i ever see him, because he goes to a different school, i really want him to make a move, because i'm getting sick of him just leaving, i know he's shy and his parents are there, but he could at least say bye. any help would be appreciated! thankss. :)
heatherrr.

i know what your saying. some guys are completely different infront of their parents - but you cant reAlly change that. maybe you can try seeing him besides going to his games. im sure he loves seeing you there - but he might not wanna see you because hes sweating, his parents, and yea. theres lotsa reasons. since hes shy, you cant really expect much. maybe ask him to come over to your house and have dinner or something. im 13 also, and my parents dont let me do anything with my boyfriends till they meet them and get to know them. i knwo what you mean, ive had boyfriends at different schools and its hard. maybe when he calls you, ask him to coe over and say something to you, even if its a simple good bye and you say goodjob. dont be scared to tell him the truth, and tell him that you feel like he is kinda ignoring you at the games. if you come and watch his games, you deffinitally deserve atleast a good bye. so next time just say a little something on the phone. and see if he changes, once he realizes how it makes you feel - he will most liekly change. gooodluckk

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I did the flower thing today and she so happy... I got a Kisss from her not a long one just a like 2 second kiss... Then I stayed there all day long... I just got back an hour ago...We had a fire and just talked...What a wonderful day... and I made her feel so speacial...Any way thanx U rock... hey did any one ask u yet to the dance

hha, im glad thats what happened :] and im glad she loved it, liek i said - how can you be mad after flowers!? hehe, sounds like you had an amazing day. and i hope you guys do this more! good luck, and thanks for asking me

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in the movie "Max Keeble, the big move" theres a song that i like but i cant find who sings it or what the song title is.
it goes something like this; "School is out,let's enjoy the heat.It's all you now, do it like, you're playin' for keeps.Destroyed right here for you to makin ' it cheap.Old school, new school,come on, wiggle with me. Jump and slide. Now dip, that's right, Now jump and slide, Now dip, that's right.You want it, you got it, ahh You want it,baby, you got it, You want it, you got it, ahh" thankss! =]

im really sorry - but i cant find it ANYWHERE. i tryed looking it up on multiple lyric sites. and nothing came up. are you sure that those are the lyrics? sorry i couldnt find anything. if you watch the credits at the end - i know it says the songs that are in the movie. so maybe watch that ! sorry again

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what does grinding feel like? does it give you pleasure.. i want to do it with my bf at the next school dance. also, how do you do it? dont say "dont do it cause you dont know how" cause there is always a first time.

freak dancing is basically a sexually suggestive form of dancing that includes grinding the hips and pelvic area. anyway - theres two basic ways to grind. the most common one is when your facing out and hes behing you, usually he puts his hands on your hips or high thighs. just listen to the music and follow the beat, dont force anything. let it come natural. move your hips and bend your knees. he will follow your lead. follow the song, if you know a fast part is coming up then go faster or whatever, and give him a little different stuff here and there. and as for facing eachother, i think you should put one arm/hand like around his neck and leave the otehr one down. this is more personal and experienced. pretty much your grinding your pelvis on his leg/ upper leg (depending on how tall you and him are). i guess it could give you pleasure but its more just for fun. have fun with it. its really great once you learn how to do it, and perfect it. if you feel like you are going too far and/or too fast - you can wlays back off and wlak away. so dont feel pressured to do anything. just have fun with it and enjoy it. goodluck

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ok i think im fat but everyone else says im really skinny. i dont eat alot but it seems like my stomach is gettin fatter and theres fat under my chin..and i watch what i eat at school and here at home like at school i eat salads and my friends would be like youre not on a diet or theyre say youre going anorexic you have to eat something

well, almost every girl has a problem area that they are uncomfortable with. yours is eay to be taken care of though. besides eating healthy and such, maybe start excersizing. not alot, but you can always do some ab work outs and running. you will also get in shape while you excersize. if you eat, then your not anorexic. so dont listen to them and their nagging. i bet they wish they had as much self control as you do. also, try and cutting out the sodas and replacing them with water or gatorade. then all you do is pee all that out. also when you get a little craving for food, instead of eating a salad or some fruit even you can subsitute for water. then you still havent eaten as much, and your hunger will go away. good luck

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i'm thinking of making a "sister cd" for, well, my sister.

i can think of barely any songs that would fit, any ideas?

heres some ideas.
ill do anything - jason mraz
space - something corperate
so says i - the shins
wait wait wait - the format
your star - the all-american reject
the connection - phish
she says - howie day
have a little faith in me - john hiatt
the city - joe purdy
such great heights - postal service
i met a girl - wheat
the reason - hoobastank
here without you - 3 doors down
get to me - train
boyfriend - ashlee simpson
stickwitu - pussy cat dolls
hate to say i told you so - the hives
super duper love - joss stone
goodnight goodnight - hot hot heat

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i know this isn't an advice question, but i was just wondering who was out of school already. it seems like rhode island is the only place going until the end of june. also, when did you get out.

we get out june 15th in michigan. i know a lot of private schools that got out last friday though.

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what dose the number 69 stand for?

it pretty much stands for a sex position. its when both people are performing oral sex on each other at the same time. the number 69 could look like two people laying next to each other head to genitals. i guess 69 is just a slang term for it.

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well i the last 2 month a had my period for only 2 days! and this month i only had it really short. there was just a little blood in my underwear and the next day i go this really bad cold and now i never lost any blood since then? so whats going on??? is it something i have to worry about? please help


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i doubt anything is wrong, it deffinitally doesnt sound liek it. you are actually really lucky to only have it 1-2 days. the average is about 4-7 days a month. it usually takes 3-4 years after you started your period, for it to regulate and go on a normal scedule. i doubt the cold changed your period for you life - it may have changed it just that one time, but no more than 2. but, if you are really worried about it- then you can galways go to a gyno to get it checked out. or talk to your mom about it.

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I need to use a Floppy Disk for a project, and have come across a simple yet perplexing problem; which was and which side up do you put the floppy in? Do you keep the part with the circular part up? Do you stick it in the direction that the metal part is on?


Help would be appreciated!

the medal end goes into the computer drive first. with the circular thingy facing down toawrds the ground.

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i waz juz wondering what websites i could go to for putting things on my layout on myspace. plse DON'T say www.whateverlife.com plz. thanx

heres some ideas you might wanna check out -
*http://www.myspacestuff.org/
*http://www.myspacesupport.com/
*http://www.myspacehooker.com/
*http://www.yourspacezone.com/
*http://www.123myspace.com/
good luck

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i want to make a new screen name but idk im dumb i cant think

any ideas?

i want it to do something with kiss and with x0 in it

thank you soo much

KiSSESZ x0
x0 kiss me
HUGSANDKISSES x0
xxKISSES
kiss me [ then some numbers ]
OH kiss me
Kiss x0 kiss
*hopefully these are the kinda things you were looking for.

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heyy i was wondering if u no teh name and or teh artest of this song it goes like so many times and im not sure if it matters.....( and it says somthing and then it says times and im not sure if it matters again and then some other stuff and then it says your secreats out i no its hurts and it was ment to your secreats out and the best part is it even a good one ..

sorry that i dident no all the lyrics lol

hah, yea dont worry that was enough, i know what song your talking about. its called Get Busy Living Or Get Busy Dying by Fallout Boy. good song!

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when i talk to this guy online and i say gtg bye he say i love you and by the why i have liked this boy for a long time lol well the main reason for the question is does i love you mean somthing different then love yeah or lyl and like he was the 1st one that siad i love you so like do you think it means anything?

well, it deffinitally could. it was kinda hard to read cuz theres like no periods, but thats ok, i got it. i dont really knwo, because some people just say like love you as like love you as a friend. but some actually mean it. i think you should ask him how he feels about you, and if he doesnt know already - i think you should tell him how you feel. good luck

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Will you still get tanner if you are pale and wear sun screen?

yea, you will. its good to wear a sunscreen because then you gont get burned. as the summer goes on, you can use a lesser SPF, but to start, start with something higher. also, laying by the pool- theres a better chance you will get more rays because sun refelts off water. good luck and have a fun summer !

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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.

i think you should go for it and tell the truth. i would forsure. the risk always seems better, and although you are risking soimething, its really not that bad. if you lie, then he will most likely find out you lied and not be happy. dont worry - a guy would be retarded not to like you :) good luck hun

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after all of this... liking her... i think she hates me now i just got a call form her a I got cussed out badly...Ill tell you what happened..ok i was at an amusment park kennywood yesterday and hung around with friends from my school and friends from another school and we went on this one ride and one of the friends from the other school kisses me and tries to french... well the f'in idiot that I am doesnt force he away...i just sit there and enjoy the moment...(I was thinkin it was paige but knew it wasnt)...this girl knows I love paige and just did this...and i guess paige found out... she just called and let me have it...What shall i do

since paige means so much to you, you cant let her think that you enjoyed this (even if you did). just explain to her that it didnt mean anything to you, and of all peopel you wish it was her you were kissing. honestly, you prolly deserve that whole cuss out session, beacuse she most likely really cares about you and you go and pull something like that! i would be mad too. and i bet you would if she did that. i would prolly maybe not talk to this girl or atleast find out whyshe was doing it. was she doing it for fun? does she liek you? did she want to make paige jealous or mad? i think you should just keep saying sorry to paige, and maybe bring some flowers to her door and write her a little card. how can she still be mad after you do something liek that!?? be really sweet to her, and let her take her time to get over the whole situation. but sooner or later - it will pass. just dont do this kinda thing again once it does. good luckk

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Hey what is up...How have you been... anyway i took your advice and told her everything... right then and there... she was shocked...but theres something strange she hasnt like acted different around me lately... is this bad or good...and after i told her all this all of my dumb friends found out and everytime im around her they go hey paige look its your boyfriend...and i want to flip out and tell them off or hit them but paige doesnt like it when yell and swear and fight...the last time I did she was mad at me for a week...SO what should I do... Thanx you've been alot of help...Peace

hey ive been alright, and i hope you have been too. thanks for coming back to me - once again! okay so as for her acting different, it can be good and it can be bad. she might not know how to act now, and maybe she doesnt feel as comfortable around you as she did. this is normal - just let her feel welcome and your friend. talk to your friends, or do it back to them. dont let them bug you, just tell them to go get a life, or you could always tell them you dont like her anymore, then they will stop.

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How do you know if you are in love? Are there any signs? I know that it sounds like a stupid question, but i want to be sure before I do anything stupid.

once your in love, your in love forever. you cant fall out of love. you either still lvoe them, or ever did. when you know this is whats happening to you, THEN your in love.

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