okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??
hey hunii you should go for it definetly ask him if there is fliting obviously he likes you. and stuff and im sure he wont turn you down!
-stephanie ;-)
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There's this guy I know who is 14 and I am almost 12. So anywayz we'll call him "Rob". So Rob works at my racetrack and he likes me and I like him and Rob tells my brother and his friend (who also works there) that he likes me a lot and that he wants to kiss me but doesn't know if he should... And my brothers friend who knows Rob said that Rob talks about me a lot and I talk about him a lot and Rob tells my other 12 year old friends that he wants to ask me out but he doesn't want my friends to tell me that he wants to ask me out. But they do anyways and I tell them to tell Rob not to ask me out b/c even though I like him, if he dumps we I'm afraid we wont be friends...but now I want to go out with him and it seems like he is loosing intrest in me not b/c I dont want him to ask me out but b/c well IDK but please help what can I do to let him know I wanna date him and I still like him without actually saying it??? Please help and I'll rate you as long as you give me somewhat good advice. thx 4 reading this long thing and sry if it was confusing and/or boring! Bye!!!
Yeah u need to talk to him and if he sounds like he is lonly n stuff no, just talk to him tell em how u feel and im sure he will understand!
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I have dark arm hair and I want to get rid of it b4 school starts(August 16)So plz does anyone know any ways to make my arm hair lighter like blonde? And do you know any ways to do it without going out and buying kits? Like is there anything at home I can use that you know will work? Plz help, my whole life ppl make fun of me and a couple other dark haired girls I know And I am Not just doing it for them its for myself b/c I am so embarrassed that I never wear short sleeve shirts which makes me hot... HELP ASAP!!! If possible answer b4 tomorrow plz and Thx!
You could probably Bleach your hair but I know if you Tan alot, your hair turns Blonde even if you have dark hair on your legs or arms. And try shaving too.
-Stephanie
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How exactly do you french kiss? I know you lock lips and open ur mouth and then like stick ur tongue in eachothers mouths but what do u do with ur tongue and can you french kiss someone the wrong way? Like cuz I don't want guys thinking I suck at it, so how exactly do you? and when is the right time...how will you know?
Thankz I will rate you! L8er!
Like, Sort of I dont kno how to exsplin but there is No right or Wrong. I mean I had my first kiss and the boy said I cant believe you can kiss that good and that was my first kiss and he said I was a pro. So I guess dont think about it to much! Just go with the flow!
-stephanie
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does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know
No, I mean you cant just get over someones death you kinda just have to wait for it to pass by, Its ook, and really normal! x0x-Stephanie im sorry bout your cousin*!!
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It looks like my mother is finally lettig me get my nose pierced for my 16th birtday in a few months. My birthday is in October, and I could get it done around then, or I could wait until Christmas break. What I want to know is...does anyone know any specifics about it? Like...does it swell up? How long does it take to not look like you "just got it done". Because I don't want to go to school having a strawberry for a nose. Please don't resond to this, if you have no idea what you're talking about, thanks ;)
i got some friends that had it done and they said it hurts a lil bit, and that if u decide not to wear it the scars are awful other then that its cute while it lasts!
-stephanie
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ever since june two of my friends told me they didnt want to hang out with me anymore and wouldnt tell me why....now they tell everyone else not to talk to me for no reason and make up all these lies and tell people them....they tell me i wont let it go yet they're the ones who tell me to committ suicide and spread lies...they wont let it go...what should i do?
tell them str8 up how you feel if that doesnt get through there head then, i would just keep my distance and avoid the drama!
-stephanie-x0x
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I am 15, about 5' 8" and only weigh 105lbs. I know that is really skinny or w/e and it's kinda scaring me. In a 1 year time period (from when I was 14 until 15.) I gained about 20 pounds. I went from being 95lbs to about 115lbs. I'm a dancer and didn't like that 115lbs, so I tried 2 lose just a lil weight 2 get down to 110lbs. I got 2 my goal and then stopped trying 2 lose weight, the only thing is, since then I seem 2 keep losing weight and now I'm @ 105lbs. Does any1 know wut's going on?
it doesnt matter bout your weight hun. you should love yourself the way you are..big n beuitiful either way it goes but your really small..same wit me im only 14, and weigh 95 just have a fast metabolism..dont worry bout it. but if your lookin for a diet you can do the atkins..that works cuz my aunt did it and it workd..
-stephanie
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I want white skin not like totally white but just white skin...I maen my skins dark and thats because of the sun and all but I hear you can use stuff to make it whiter and I was wondering if any of you guys knew wat I could use to make it whiter I mean I wash my face and all but nething else and I dont wanna use makeup because I dunno I guess I just think that it doesnt help that much so if anyone knows nething I can use or do please tel me thanks!
I dont think there is anything you could use..HaHa Michael Jackson will definetly work!
-stephanie
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So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do?
if you love her like you say you do sweetie, you should really honestly just go up to her take her out and stuff and just talk to her. and tel her you love her and dont wanna loose her and tell her what is bothering you. im sure it would work!
-x0x-stephanie
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i'm tryong to find a new way to organize my stuff... are tampons,pads, femine stuff like that... animal, vegetable ot mineral?
Umm kinda dumb question. This is an Advice Column not a Dumb Advice Center. Mayb you should stop being dumb and look it up! I dont think anyone cares hun!
stephanie-x0x
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Hey evrybody, im kinda new, but i jsut wanted to know how most of you people are so popular on this site, like, what do you do to introduce yourself evrywhere. thaaanks - my sn is sshelbyy
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Yup answer the most questions and give good answers and you will do just as good as the rest of us!
-stephanie
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is it just me.. or does it bug you girl when guys try toooo hard.. yea its cute that they wanna give you the world.. but isnt it like.. sometimes i just need a good time?!! or am i crazy! thanks x0x0x0
Yeah, aHa there was this gurl that I knew dont wanna lay it out therr but she was in luv with this boy and tryed so hard that she was a total push off and he ended up not even liking her because she annoyed him!
-stephanie
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Boyfriend/ Parents problems.. :/
Posted Sunday August 01 2004, 2:02 am
Hey, i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and we both are 17. I don't really know his parents that well and i always just see them past and go. Like when we go to church and stuff. That's about the only time i ever see his parents and he's all the time hangin out with my family and going out to dinner and all. I've never once hung out with him and his family together sense we've been going out. The deal is.. when we started going out his parents said that he was changing like acting diff, his attitude *in a bad way* :/ and he didn't want to do anything around the house anymore. Well, his parents are really.. strict okay. So they called my parents up not even knowing me or my parents! And said there son was changing and all and they didn't want him to have a gf until he was 18! :-/ Well, this was like at the beginning of the year well everying has been fine sense then but just this past month they have been saying it again and they are telling him to break up with me.. :/? Is it me or what!? They don't even know me. We Love each other so much and we both are old enough to date and all.. but his parents are so freakin weird! I don't know what to do anymore. I've delt with so much sense i've been with him. I feel like an old married couple fighting with his parents about stupid stuff! :/ Maybe i should just be friends with him and see how things go on later.. i don't know. Can some one help me please! :(
Its Ok, They cant predict love and set there and control your feelings. But like you said you never like actually set down with them and had a conversations and stuff. So mayb you should like hang out with his parents, like dinner and have yalls parents meet and greet. Hope everythin works out!
best of luck!
-stephanie
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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?
Well if your thinkin of havin sexy, You should be straight up Honest. I mean best bet is to speak the truth instead of something bad happening and im sure he will take it ok!
-stephanie
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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?
UmMm Its really wierd to think that you would like a star but heh!?! lol I luv spongebob..so its all good. might sound wierd but its cool! just a faze your goin through probably!
-stephanie-
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i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do?
use deodarent and if you do..then mayb you should try like using mor then you usually put on!
-stephanie
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im going to my friends house 2morro and well the girl that owns the house i havent seen her ever since school ended!! shez my best friend!! but sumtimes my friendz think i act like a looser... i dont wunna look bad n act like a looser 2 so wut should i wear? my other best friend is coming and she alwayz thinks ima looser!! but she thinks that with alot of her best friendz were all so crazy!! lol. help!! =)
shoot sofees are so comfortable. like id just wear something i enjoy bein in and wearing and if they think you look dumb so what at least your comfortable...
-stephanie
*sofees are awsome*
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I am so confused. I really want to be freinds with this girl. We used to be really great friends and we also used to sneak around town all the time. We would say we were going to the pool and really go to her boyfriends or my sorta boyfriends. See I really dont know now because ever since my sorta boyfriend went to Indiana we havent had time to talk to each other or hang out. My sorta boyfriend is back and we havebt talked or seen each other in a while. Sometimes I just think that my friend just used me to see my sorta boyfriend. I dont know what do you think? Do you think we are still friends and what should I do about it?
go up to her and her first impression matters like if she looks at you wrong or something then you know right off back she has a problem and if she does i wouldnt worry bout it therr are more friend out ther!
-stephanie
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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out?
go on a boy adventure like go to the mall and just shop and stuff and then like find someone you like or looks like your type and do something really funny to make him laugh and then like talk to him like make him want u b like why u laughn huuuh huh...and just like b fun with it and usually they willll hang out with you..thats what i do and shoot let me tell ya its worth a try thats how i met one of my boyfriends and we went out for 2 yrs then we broke up!
-stephanie
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