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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.

omg! no! you dont have to see a dcotor the only thing he will tell you is that you have a very good and high metablium and yes you burn off food like rigt when you put it in your mouth my friend has a good med. too and she bloats (its kinda funni) and then its goes away in like a 30 hour lol I hope I helped! Love

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What would you tell a friend that you were talking to online that was going to die in 20 minutes because he/she just stabbed themselves in the stomach?

I think that 1) why would she stab her self and then have enough time to live and tell people about it? 2) if you know she was dead serisou...hell! call the police/ablumnce! anything! lol MOM DAD!!who cares..obviously this perosn needs to get attention right away..I hope I helped...Love xoxo-Andie

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andrea,
ok my friend was going out with this one guy for a while and they broke up like a month ago. well anyways while they were going out i kind of started to like him cause it was like the three of us were really close. anyways i started to really like him but now that they broke up idk. my friend says that he likes me and so wouldnt care if i went out with him. but idk cause i never really saw him like a b/f. plz help me cause im confused sould i go out with him or should i just keep it the way it is, just friends? thanx

I think that you should go out! every guy deserves a chance! but I am warning you!!!! remind him that if you guys do break up that you will still be friends..but if you dont want to risk him not being your g/f then be friends with beniftis..[also..to add to the b/f g/f thing... that if you do want to go out with him it could last a long time with you guys cuz your such good friends that things will work out..or it could last for a couple of days becase it would be werid so ya] I hope I helped a little! Drop one in my inbox if you need anything else hun! Love ya! Love xoxo-Andie

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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering

The REAL definition of cheating on someone is if you do some sort of physical/sexual touching of another guy like..kissing or like making out or like..REAL heavily flirting not just flirting but like HEAVILY like LOT and LOT of touching and also kissing involved..please dont cheat it isnt right! lol...Love xoxo-Andie

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hey, Im that 7th grader gain,
ummm...well i no that shes like nice funny and HoT! lol...idk how much she nos bout me... and another problem is that she told me she likes sum1....cant say who cus i dont know if every1 else nos...
thx andrea ttyl

lol ya well I think that you should show her that you respect her and not tell anyone who she likes well if you have anything else drop one in my inbox! Love xoxo-Andie

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13/f

I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?

OMG! that is EXACTLY what is with me right now! lol wow! lol..no it is completely normal..expecaly if you just got it..it normaly doesnt start gettting regular for at least 1 year after you get it..i just got mine almost a year ago and it still isnt regular..i missed 5 months then i had it for two and then i skiped 2 months..its completly normal! just wear a pad incase! lol! Love you! ask me anything you want leave in me inbox! *rate me* Love xoxo-Andie

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Ok I like this girl from the play "annie" and shes an 8th grader and im a 7th grader and she talked to me but idk if i will talk to her eva again...lol...wat do you think?

P.S. the girl is Heather *Yerkes* i think thats how its spelled lol

Well first..ya I'm friends with her and how well does she know you..or you know her?¿ because i know that if she doesnt know you very well then idk if you will ..ya know..go otu with her..so give me omore info agian..thx!
Love-Andie

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A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?

I think you could if you got a more powerful allergy med. my cousin is allergic and they just got a cat and hes fine becase of his meds. just ask yuor doctor..but if you dont want to pay for meds. I wouldnt Love- ANdie

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Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious..

I think that if her mom doesnt beleive her she needs to call 9/1/1 right away and then she can talk to them and then she will take it seriously...and she does have more than one reason to live because of her boyfriend and just to have a life..I hope I helped if you ever need anything else drop one in my inbox n e time! Love xoxo-Andie

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I have to read a fictional book for school on the subject of cutting (it has to be fictional) does anyone know of any good ones besides the book "Cut"... i've already read that one. I rate everyone with one book name. thanks!
~Ali

I would try thing skin..i think it is called i havent read it in a long time..but it is a very sad book..Tears* lol there ya go hun! Love xoxo-Andie

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i am 13 and i have a boyfriend. i was at a football game tonight but my boyfriend wasnt there. These other guys were there, and i found out that they liked me. it was like 4 guys. it was really cold out and i was doing anything to get warm, even if it meant that i had to hold one of the guys hands. we went into the parking lot, well kinda parking lot, and all the guys except one were touching me and hugging me and stuff. i feel guilty about hurting my boyfriend's feelings, even though he doesnt know about it yet. Did i cheat on him, and should i or shouldnt i tell him about it? Im afraid that if i tell him that he would break up with me, plus all the guys and i promised we wouldnt tell him about it....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
signed,
~*~dazed and confused~*~

If you want to be a good girlfriend I think that you should be honest and tell him..eventhough it is ganna be hard..and i am not lieing it will be hard i think that he will repect you for telling him the truth and wont be AS angry at you then if you wouldnt tell him..I think that you should tell him that you were freezing and needed something warm and that he wasnt there so i hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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how do you get rid of dead skin on your face?! I've tried everything, exfoliators, expesnive lotions..etc etc...and nothing seems to be working. I was just wondering if there was any home remedy or something that would make my skin smooth and flakey free? Thank you.

I hear that just washing your face with soap and water in the morning and before you go to bed..make sure that nothing tuches your face for at least a half hour..I think that works the best or get ProActive..I have that and it works really good! lol I hope I helped!
Love xoxo-Andie

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i know this sounds weird.. but.. okay im friends with benefits with this guy Mike.. and hes sexually active.. and he wants me to give him head, but i dont know how, and i dont know if it will taste bad or what not and i dont want to not do it becuz he will think im prude. help! *Mucho Luv*

Well if you want to do it..tel him to have like alot of fruites before (so what i've herd lol) and then it wont taste as bad? lol i think i herd it from someone else..and what you do is basicly sux on his dick and it will plesaure him lol..i think it is gross lol but go ahead if you want to..but ya..and DONT DO IT if you dont want to just tell him that you arent 'comfy' of doing it right now..I hope I helped! Drop one in the inbox if you have anything else!
Love-Andie

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hey andrea,
ok i dont if i should of put this under friends or what but anyways... my best friend was going out with this guy for like 5 months but they really didnt do anything like makeout or hug and stuff. but anyways it was kind of the three of us and yeah she broke up with him like a month ago. but yeah he wont be friends with her and she wont be friends with him but like im in the middle. i want to be friends with him but its either him and i or not at all cause they wont talk to each other. which really bothers me because shes my best frined and he is a realy good friend of mine. i think the reason i really miss doing stuff with him because i might like him a little but that messes everything up because i already like this one guy...a lot! what should i do cause its not really the three of us any more and that was realy fun so now i barly talk to him anymore. plz help! thanx

aww..I think that you should be friends with whoever you want..just becase one of your friends doesnt like the other person doesnt mean you cant be friends with them..and you can still talk to them too they dont have to talk to each other if they dont want to..so just be friends with both of em' I hope I helped!
Love xoxo-Andie

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ok well i realy like this one guy and him and i went out for 5 days last year( ik realy sad but yeah) anyways i really wnat to go out w/ him again and i cant stop thinking abot him. my friend and i went somewhere w/ him for a day and it was really fun. my bff says that he still likes me but hes just to shy to ask, in fact everyone keeps telling me. it seems like he likes me and i wanna ask him out but im afraid hes going to say no......again. plz help me i really want to go out w/ him but i dont know what to do!!

I think you should give him a call or tell your BFF to talk to him and tell him that you still like him and see what he says? and if he says no again then just ask out another guy..but if you want to show him that you are interested in him be a lot more flirty around him! Hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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Hi Andrea... ughh ok I'm soo fed up with life. everyone always talks about me, it seems like everyone hates me. I don't like my grades, school isn't going well, people spred rumors about me soo much... and I never seem to get a guy I like and it seems like im just on the outside looking in.. please help me!!!

Ya I feel like that sometimes too..well I just remember who my real friends are and that my "unreal" friends just blow em off whoever starte them rumors about you I think that if you start telling yourself that you dont like your grades them you wont do good in school socaily(?) I dont get guys I like either but if you keep showing to people that you dont like yourself guys wont like you! I hope I helped! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

NO that is normal not everyone bleeds..I hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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Ok so my best friend is gorgeous and has a great personality so all the guys go for her. Like any time I make a guy friend that she doesn't know yet and we're pretty good friends, she always ends up being closer with them and the guy either forgets I exist and ignores me or just isn't very close to me like they used to be. So every guy friend I have is much closer to my best friend and the people have just been really mean to me for no reason. I really don't like to complain so much, but I feel like they're thinking she's much better than me so they just don't care about me anymore and it's been really getting me down. I'm usually such a happy person but stupid guys are getting in the way of it. I keep telling myself to just forget about guys, but you have to have guys in your life too. What should I do?

Ya..ik how you feel i have that same problem..I think you should try and tell your friend..i mean ik it might be hard but if you guys are good friends whe'll understand..I hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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What are ways I can get taller? I'm 14/m.

I dont think you can make yourself get taller just drink milk!?!?!??? lol ya I'm short for a 13 year old I think i'm like 4'11 or somethgin lol and also its becasue of heredity...you cant help that lol srry
Love xoxo-Andie

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well see, my friend Ricky like just broke up w/ his gf. And he was really into her. I mean REALLY. he loved her more than anyhting in the world. And now she broke ^ w/ him for another guy and hes soo fuckin depressed now. he started to cut himself again ((which he hasnt done once since they went out)). And hes attempting suicide. Im so scared idk what to do. And im mad cuz mad becouse i cant do anything. so if u guys have any ideas please tell me. im desperate. i dont want him to die.....

I think you should take him somewhere you can talk alone to him and just say that she is just a girl EVENTHOU she did mean a lot to him..killing himself isnt worth it! and then listen to everything he has to say and talk to him about going to get prfessional help where he cna talk to someone and eventhoughg people say all the time that they dont know what they are talking about..they do! so influence him to go with you and talk to someone..and if he does need to cut himself INSTEAD of doing that he would have a rubberband on his wrist and snap is 3 times..and make sure he doesnt use it for anything else! I HOPE I HELPED if you need anything else I'm always here! I Love You! and you can come and talk to me about what is going on it is all confidention you can IM me at MyHeartisurs37 thx Love xoxo-Andie *RATE ME*

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