Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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My friends are always hanging out with their other friends. They are all having a sleepover but since I wasn't online when they planned it, I don't get to go. I'm always online at the wrong time so I never get to be in their plans. It's pissing me off. Help? I really wanna hang out with people this summer but like people are either busy, or they already made plans. (link)
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What the hell. O_o;
IF THEY WANTED TO INVITE YOU, THEY WOULD HAVE.
Maybe they don't want to hangout with you, hun. Don't be mad, but get it through your head.
and YOU HAVE HANDS. Why don't you pick up the god damn phone and try making plans with them?
I'm sick of people being all, "OhmygodWTF. My friends are doing stuff without me, its SOOOO NOT FAIR! WTFF."
Uhh, they have a life too. o_O You have no right to be mad at them. If you wanted to hangout that bad, then YOU make some plans with them and don't expect them to make them apart of yours if you're not online at the right time. That's not your fault, but it's not theirs either.
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when a guy says he loves u does he mean it? (link)
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O_o Babygirrl, you cant ask this kind of question on an advice site.
You will KNOW when he means it.
You can't just ask someone else, "Umm.. Yeah, this guy says he loves me.. Is he serious?"
Uhhh, no.
Girls have doubts, yes.
But when you trust him enough to believe his words, that's when the words become feelings.
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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?
14/f. (link)
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It means you're horny. o_o
IT'S PERFECTLY FINE THOUGH.
Youre a teenager and hormones are gunna be raging all through your body. Its only natural to get turned on ;)Bwuahha.
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what do you think of sophomore year? i heard its harder than the freshman year whats the diffrence between freshman year and sophomore year? which one do you think it was better? (link)
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Well, I'm assuming you're talkin academic-wise. Because socially, everyone's social life is just different lol
Freshmen year, you have to adjust though.
New school, new friends, new lunches[in which you CAN get seperated from all your friends], new teachers, new kind of classes, etc etc. So sophomore year is kindof easier in the aspect of knowing the school a bit more than the year before, knowing what foods to avoid, etc etc. I think sophomore year is better though, because you get more choices as to what classes you'd like to take and so on. And over here, you get more exemptions the higher up in high school you are. So yeahh.
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do you think its weird if your obsessed about your friend? im a girl and im straight but im obsessed about my friend shes really cool and stuff sometimes i treat her better than my all of my friends what do you think about this? (link)
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Uhh.. Well, if she's considered your bestfriend and she considers you her bestfriend, then it's okay that you treat her better than the rest of your friends.
But using the word "obsessive" is just down-right creepy, freaky, and weird. O_o That word sounds kind of stalkerish. It's okay that you like her a lot [friendwise] and stuff but try giving her some goddamn space too. It'd get kind of annoying. Actually, unless she's "obsessed" about you too, it'd be annoying as HELL.
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did anyone else think that POTC 3 sucked? why is everyone against me? it really did. no plot!!! (link)
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I saw 2 hours of it. [there was an extra 43 minutes]
I'm not gunna lie, it DID seem like it skipped from one thing to another. And everytime you thought it was going to end, it kept going x_X The only thing that kept me in the theatre is the fact that it was so stupid, it was funny. lolll.
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my friend is turning 16
and im going to her party...
but i dont know what to get her!
any ideas on a present for a sweet 16 birthday? (link)
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A scrapbook would be excellent =)
That'd be one of the BEST gifts ever, in my opinion. What's better than a book of memories you can look back on?
A ring, necklace, or bracelet with "16" on it would be very nice too.
Or get her money so she can spend it on the shit she wants. =)
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16/F
To put it simply, I have a fake boyfriend. His name is "Nick." The reason I did this is because all my friends have boyfriends, and I really want one too. Problem is, there are no guys I am even slightly attracted to where I live. So "Nick" has been pretty great for me. I get to brag about him and everything, but I'm still lonely.
Reccently, I started talking over Instant Messenger with this guy, we'll call him Cameron. Cameron lives in South America but is pretty much fluent in English. We talk almost every day, he's so cute, and he actually seems like he cares about me. I know I will probably never meet Cameron, so don't tell me that. I already know.
I'm just so upset that every guy I'm interested in lives so far away. And here, I know everyone at my school, and I'm not interested in any of the guys here. Yet I want a boyfriend so badly, which is why I have a fake one.
What should I do? Should I "break up" with my fake boyfriend? Should I stay with my fake boyfriend even when I am talking to Cameron? Or should I try to look harder for a guy here when school starts back up again?
And don't tell me that being single is okay. Because for me right now, it's not. And also do not tell me that I will "find someone eventually."
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Yeah. Most DEFENTLY break up with your fake boyfriend. There's really no point in having one and hun, all you're doing is fooling yourself.
I honestly don't think the whole Cameron thing is a good idea either. I've never seen an ACTUAL online/long-distance relationship EVER work. But if you're REALLY into him, then why not.. You can try to be with him a bit.
Honestly, I think you should defently just wait until you find yourself a boy you really like. Go to a party, teenclub, or the local pool and try to find some boys. :) There has to be SOME decent boy for you around where you live. Iuno.
Step one is to break up with the fake one though.
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what do i do? i feel my friends are ditching me, and hanging out with each other! helpppp %% thanks (link)
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Babe, maybe there's a reason you're being left out. I don't mean to sound rude but think about it, if they REALLY wanted to invite you, then they would have.
On secondhand, sometimes things can just be a misunderstanding. Maybe they meant to invite you but simply forgot.
And you can't always rely on them making the plans and inviting you. Why dont YOU make some plans so then if they 'ditch' you again, you know it's intentional. If that's the case, forget those "friends" and meet some real ones to chill with this summer.
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does anyone no any quotes about being replaced in a friendship by someone elseeee , thanks id love you foreverrrrrrr (link)
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I know one..
I thought you were my best friend
I felt we'd be together 'til the end
You're not the girl I once knew
Tell me where she is 'cause she's not you
You used to be that shoulder
That shoulder I could lean on through it all
But now it's getting colder
There's no love betwen those walls
Yeahh.
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for the past couple days i have had really bad constipation. i was wondering what types of foods cause this and what foods get rid of it? (link)
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ew. o_o
My dad always says to eat a lot of fiber (all the greens like broccoli, spinich, etc.) because it helps you poop better =) and it doesnt hurt as much =)!
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so i really want to model. here are my stats
Height: 5" 5'
weight; 140 (yeah. i know i have 2 lose weight)
Bust: 34C
waist & hip: idk
so there are my stats. people have suggested that i try fordmodels.com should i? and is barbizon a scam? some people say its great and some say its awful and a scam. (link)
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Yeah, try ford.
I went to Barbizon and everythings a RIPPPPOFFFF =) There was one girl who said she took the class 3 times and never got a call. And she's pretty, too! So dont see whats up with that. But yeah =)
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my best friends birthday is in a few days. i dont know what to get her because i want it to be someone really special. does anyone have any ideas of something i could get or make her? thanks so much! (link)
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Give her a bestfriends necklace =)
You know the ones where she has the "best" and you have the "friend" and you connect them together. Those are amazing =)
Id take her to Chuckie Cheese if I were you though ^__^
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I was recently dumped and have absolutely lost my appetite. I don't want to eat, move or do anything at all. Is this depression? (link)
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Umm. Yeah, you could be sad.
People tend to be after a break-up. o_O;
But you would know if you were actually DEPRESSED.
That's a strong word filled with stronger feelings than sadness. I honestly don't think you are if you're asking on an advice site
just dont cut yourself =)
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how do you know if your pleasuring a girl when you have sex? (link)
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If she moans. =)
Then again, girls can fake that too O_o.
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what are some good excuses to say i dont want a boyfriend
cuz i like this guy and he asked me out two weeks ago, and i said ask me later, but now he did again this morning.
so what are some nice ways to say no? because i like this guy a LOT, i just really, truly dont want a boyfriend
kaaayyy thanks! (link)
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You like him a lot but don't wanna date him?
Dont see how that works out O_o
But dude, just tell him straight-up.
"I like you, I just dont wanna date anyone for a while."
Dont think of "excuses" or whatnot, the boy needs to deal with the truth that you DONT WANT HIM RIGHT NOW. Hes a big boy, he can handle it =)
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Theres this one song in the movie 'Click' with Adam Sandler that I am trying to find the name of. It plays when he is flashing back to his father. It seems like a sad emotional song. One of the lines is something like 'you've got me wrapped around your fingertips', and I tried googling that but the song did not come up. I also went on movie websites to see the songs on Click's sound track, and the song wasn't even there. Please help me find the name of this. (link)
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Linger- The Cranberries
And yeahh, I loved that song when I heard it in that movie too =)) w00t!
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I can't dance. I look really weird when I do. I hae to go to my friends quince and everyone is going to be dancing for like 4 hours. What do I do? (link)
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Okay, not everyone can dance like the old John Travolta or Jessica Alba in Honey.
Relax and have fun.
Move your hips.
Move your feet so you actually.. well MOVE.
Keep your hands up.
And dont evenn worryyyy!!!!
JUST DORK-DANCE
Youll be in the company of friends so it doesnt really matter =) Youre not applying for JULLIARD, no ones gunna arrest you if you make a fool of yourself^_^
dont worry about and just have fun babee
or else, you wont even have fun at the Quince!
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I'm 100% italian so naturally I'm gonna have dark hair. Anyway my hair is dark brown everywhere! I have dark arm hair [gross] but that i dont really care about it's my stomach. I have gross dark stomach hair! It's nasty!! How can I lighten it up or something to make it less noticeable!?
Please Help!!! (link)
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Defently WAX IT.
It lasts a LOT longer than shaving [shaving just makes it grow thicker] and the more times you do it, the lighter it is!
My moms been doing it for a long time and you cant even notice her hair! =)
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My boyfriend and I were at an amusement park and we were in the drop off parking lot. So we were both a little dizzy and decided to sit down in the shade near the grass. It was really hot but the thing is.. I'm allergic to grass so I sat on his lap.
10 minutes later..
The security came by.. and said that we should sit appropriately because he's been getting *complaints.
Okay, were we really sitting inappropriate? I don't know.. it's not like we were having sex or anything. He had one leg curled in so I can sit there :/
I didnt think it was that bad.. (link)
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The security guard was trippin' =)
Ya'll werent playing hankypanky or anything, dont worry about it.
Next time you and your boyfriend go to that amusement park, find that security guard, sit nearby and give your boyfriend a lapdance in front of him haha! =) Just kidding. Dont. o_o But yeah.
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