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wtf.
My friends are always hanging out with their other friends. They are all having a sleepover but since I wasn't online when they planned it, I don't get to go. I'm always online at the wrong time so I never get to be in their plans. It's pissing me off. Help? I really wanna hang out with people this summer but like people are either busy, or they already made plans.
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ok that happens to me sometimes.... But trust me Ask them why didnt you call??? And why dont you call like say you are wanting to go to the movies on Friday why dont you call on Monday??? and like if they already have plans with other friends ask if you can go...and if they say no you weren't home or not online say Ok screw yall im hanging out with someone else... you have to be Strong and tell them right up
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What the hell. O_o;
IF THEY WANTED TO INVITE YOU, THEY WOULD HAVE.
Maybe they don't want to hangout with you, hun. Don't be mad, but get it through your head.
and YOU HAVE HANDS. Why don't you pick up the god damn phone and try making plans with them?
I'm sick of people being all, "OhmygodWTF. My friends are doing stuff without me, its SOOOO NOT FAIR! WTFF."
Uhh, they have a life too. o_O You have no right to be mad at them. If you wanted to hangout that bad, then YOU make some plans with them and don't expect them to make them apart of yours if you're not online at the right time. That's not your fault, but it's not theirs either.
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Use a phone.
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I think this happens to everyone sometimes. People tend to make plans with the people they're around or talking to at the moment. Just because they didn't call and invite you doesn't necessarily mean that they don't like you, or wouldn't want you to come. Try making some plans yourself... call your friends and plan a trip to the mall, a movie night, or a sleepover at your house sometimes.
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well this of coarse happens to me a lot. what i do is try to call my friends and make plans in advance like if it was tusday make the plans for friday or somthin. my mom always tells me to find a new groups of friends cause all the ones that arnt inviting you to hang out are prolly being fake to you. something i have done was get a myspace account and talk to people your age on there. i have met me best friend on there. it really helped me maybe it can help you. :D
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im going through the same exact thing...i asked those kind of questions on here too....
if they cant find another way to invite you then they are being immature...they arent being very "friend" like cause friends are supposed to be there for you..try calling them and plan stuff
and if thatd oesnt work then just tell them whats going on and how theyre acting stupid and mean...
if they cant take effort to invite you then they arent your true friends and i know its hard ot make friends over the summer but try hangingout with othergroups if possible....
tell your friends that you feel leftout and you dont wanna be home all summer and dont let them make you feel worse make them feel what your going through and if they are your friends they will feel what your going through and try to work something out
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I agree with jack. that is very immature of them. because you weren't online? there's something called a telephone. try to find some other people to hang out with. =)
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If they are doing this to you, find some new people to hang out with. I'm not sure they care too much about you if they make plans, and don't even think to invite you, just because you weren't online.
They are pretty immature. So, like I said.. find some better friends that will care about you.
--Jack
(15/m)
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